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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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I never really liked anyone I was dating.I used to always cheat on all my boyfriends.
I started dating this guy about 8 months ago. I really like him. In fact I don't even care about other guys. We moved in together about 3 months ago.
Here's my problem I always think he's cheating on me. I get angry at him easly for the littlest things. I find myself always trying to start a fight with him. I don't know whats wrong with me! HELP!
21/female

maybe you feel that way because you were in the position of constantly cheating and you know how you acted and maybe he is acting in that same sort of way. no offense... maybe you are just paranoid about it because you dont want to get hurt and that your conscience is making you wonder about it. you will know if he is chaeting on you. if you are always trying to fight with him and he is still with you then there is obviously something about you that inerest him. i wouldnt worry so much about it.

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Okay, my friend and I (which of whom is a guy) got really close..because him and his girlfriend were arguing and fighting like crazy! And he'd talk to me ALL the time and ask how i felt about it, and what he should do. and he'd call me every night, and we'd talk for like an hour½-2 hours. He finally ended up breaking it off with his girlfriend. We've talked a little bit since then. Monday rolls along, and he doesn't call me...and hasn't called me since. So last night, i called him and mentioned how i hadn't heard from him in a while and his reply was "i've been busy" so i got off the phone and told him that i didn't want to interfere with his business. I used to really like this guy! ...and now i don't know what's going on! What should i do? advice would be awesome

you shouldnt worry about it. just be happy for him. be glad that he is now out doing something that will take his mind of this chic and not sitting at home on the couch wanting to kill himself over her. i am sure that everything will work out between you two. i dont see a problem here. let him live his life for a little while and then in a couple of weeks mabe like 2-3 weeks of not hearing from himjust call him up and let him know you just wanted to say hi and see how things were going. it no big. you got nothing to worry your self over.

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One of my "friends" and my other "friend" r spreading a rumor that me and my boyfriend were holding hands...BIG WHOOP!(I DON'T CARE) There's just 1 little problem... THAT IS: THERE'S A RULE, that everybody hates... and it is KEEP HANDS FEET AND OTHER OBJECTS TO YOURSELF...and i dunno how but the teachers ALWAYS finds out about the rumors... and I don't want toget in trouble!! I talked to my "friends" bu they denied doing it. WHAT DO I DO?

haha, thats crazy... if it were me and that was the school policy i would stand right in fromt of a teracher or even the principle and make out with my bf. and i would care the slightest bit. and if they said something to me i would tell them to fuck off.

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Ok Heres my question
My friend ×Kitty× is dating my sisters guy friend. This guy friend is 16 and Kitty is 14. She and i are in middle school and hes in high skool. My sister tells me that Kittys Boyfriend is cheating on kitty, like my sister sees him at Partys wit other girls and gets other gurls numbers and shit like that. I tell Kitty then she asks him and of course he says no he would never cheat on her. he has even told me sister after he and her have sex that he will break up wit her and i told her that and she wouldnt talk to me for a week. How do i get her to realize that he is cheating on her?!

you dont, you ahve already tried to warn her so now all you must do to get her to realize it is just sit back and wait for it to happen. i know it sounds really wrong but what else can ya do./

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okay, i just started my peroid a few days ago, i`m 13. i found pads are annoying. i tried tampons but they hurt so bad and i can`t even get them in, is there something im doing wrong? i looked at the directions and everything, and i have almost the smallest size, can anyone help?

your prolly arent putting them in right. and even when you do the first time feels really awkward. you may just need to adjust to them but they should def. not hurt when they are in properly. it could be that you A.) dont have it in far enough or B.) you have it in to far or C.) you dont have it angled the right way. you should angle it towards you lower back and upward at the same time. it may take a few tries before you learn how to get them in there just right for yourself so that they dont bother you. as for pads, there are several different types of pads. and they come in a variety of sizes to choose from. if you find that they are annoying and uncomfortable try down grading on the size of them. instead of big bulky ones, that are like diapers, try the ones that are really really tiny... they are extremly thin so you dont even know you have one on.

but dont worry. youll will get the hang of it... the first ones are always the worst.


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hey..well okay here it is..

..last saturday i slept with my friends boyfriend while she was on a trip..she found out..hates me now and so do a bunch of other people and they wanna beat me up i guess..im going to a dance tonight at my old school cuz i switched schools at the beginning of the year and im really nervous..do you think theyd try something there??..or should i go and just have fun?!..i know i shouldnt care what other people say but when people talk about me it bugs me..so please hellllp:-/

yeah you should go to the dance. it is very possible that they have something planned but you'll never know unless you go. and you should also go and fight your battles. dont back out on something. and what kind of friend were you to sleep with your friends bf while she was away? you really shouldnt of done, it prolly wasnt your best idea you've ever had.... but hey i guess for some ppl booty is botty... haha

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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

yes, there is a chance. theres a chance she could get pregnant anytime with out a condom. sometimes even they arent reliable. but it is better than none at all becuase most of the time they are safe. so no matter when it is use protection.

Have fun and stay safe....

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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.

thats fucked up... yes you should give it back. what kind of friend would you be if you didnt, ehll what kind of friend are you if you stole it in the first place. when you found it you sould of been like o look i found like 40 bucks in your closet. never should you of stole it off of her. but since you did steal it, you should ty to put it back in her closet without her knowing it if you really want to keep that so called friendship of yours.

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Do you always bleed on your first time?

some girls do and some girls dont. it is different for every girl.

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I met this guy about a few months ago that lives around my way. We started dating about three weeks after I met him. I thought he was someone that could just be someone to chill with time to time. Well all of a sudden he acts as if he's all into me. He have been telling me that he loves me and that he wants me to be his wife and that he don't want to ever let me go. I think he's a cool person to chill with, but I do not feel the same way that he do about me. The bad part is, is that I don't know how to tell him because I do not like to break people's hearts but I don't like to pretend either. I know that I have to tell him soon because Christmas is around the corner and I don't want him to get me nothing crazy. I just don't know how to tell him.

just be honest with him. dont play games. simply let him know that you dont feel like that for him. tell him you dont want to be his girlfriend and that you just like him as a friend and thats it. you think he is just a cool person in general to hang out with.

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well ive been talking to this boi jeff for 3 weeks and my friend kathryn said that jeff said he don't like me..if he don't like me why does he alwayz want to come up n junk im so confussed he ignored me yesterday after the parade..i talked to him forlike 3 mins. n the band room cause i was with tara but he ignored me after that never did talk to me again...should i talk to jeff about this or believe kathryn and still ask jeff about it??
please i need help on this

just because he wants to "come up n junk" doesnt mean that he has feelings for you. he may just like to hang out once in a while with you. if you feel that confronting him would make you feel better and getting a straight and honest answer from him, even if it hruts you, then go for it. but if he doesnt like you then it is just that simple... he doesnt like you.

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I am going to a dance tonight. I really want to ask this boy I like. Should I ask him? What should I say? I don't want to ask him around his friends because they are really insenstive and they are jerks. Any ideas? I need help ASAP. Thanks. I will rate.

try and catch him at a time when he isnt around all of his buds and ask him if he is going to the dance if he says yes then find out if he is going with anyone. if not ask him to go with you.. if he says no and would like to go solo then see if he will atleast save you a dance.

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everytime i try to sumbit my answer to a question on this site, it says "Chatspeak detected. Type in english please" does anyone know why it's doing that, and how to fix it? I Rate High for the effort! thanks~*

if you use "ppl" for people or "u" for your and "ur" for your then in wont let you submit it. by it telling you to use english it means that it wants you to go back and fix your shortened versions of words.

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How do i get rid of moles painless in my own home? (and it works fast) I can't find it online anywhere cause it always say to buy this book. Can you help me?

nope, never heard of anything. just go and have it surgically romoved. alot of people get it done. it cant hurt all that bad but i never had it done so i wouldnt know.

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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???

yes. what difference does it make what people think about you. as long as you two are happy then theres nothing to spaz out about. you shouldnt turn him down just because you are a prep and he is punk. if you like him then go for it. if he is punk and you are prep and people know you like him whats the difference in lking him and people thinking there is something wrong with you for it then going out with him and ppl still thinking there is something wrong with it.
fuck what all those bitches and hoes think...

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You know that little piece of skin between you anus anus and your vagina? Well it burns when I urinate and it started bleeding. What should I do?!

*Scared*

this could be a result of a couple of things so go to your doctor and get it checked out.

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ok, my parents, dont smoke..or say they dont. when theyre in their room, and they leave and let me go in there..it smells horrible..like smoke, but not cigarette smoke. ive been to a concert...and smelled mostly everything there is to be smoked, and one of the smells is what i smell in my parents room. last year i was looking for presents around xmas(hehe) and i had heard of looking in btween the bed and the mattress, so i tried there. i found a couple of baggies with something in them..and no it wasnt a cd or anything.. well everyonce inawhile, i see a pipe stickin out from under the bed.the othr nite it finally hit me what the smell was..pot..so jus a second ago, i went in(theyre not home) and lifted up the matress, what do i find?the pipe i saw, and some baggies with the same stuff. so i went to freevibe.com to see what it could b..and i think it is pot. if they are, i need them to tell me, even though i noe that wont happen. if they are i wanna get out of the house and go stay with my aunt. the thing is, i love my parents, and theyre BOTH sunday school teachers.do u think they are? and if they are..how can i stop it or let them realize i know?

if they are smokin pot then you cant make them tell you and you certainly cant make them stop. yea i think they are but i dont really get what your freaking out about. if you want them to know that you know then just tell them.

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im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help

you are paranoid and obsessed. chill out. its no big deal. if you keep this paranoia and obsession up it could result in a breakup. and then you will really have yourself a reason to be upset. so just chill out and relax. he is not obligated to call you every night at the same time, or even every night for that matter. so just find something for your self to do to occupy some time. it will go past quicker. dont think about the time or bad things that he may be doing. because trust me if he was cheating or whatever BAD THINGS you think about him, you would know. he was prolly doing something and just got caught up and lost track of time. so no big. quit being so paranoid and everything will be fine.

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Does anyone know how to get black ink off White shirts?

well since it is a white shirt, why dont you just try to use some bleach. it's not like it will fade the shirt or anything.

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What should I do to remove my leg hair?

hmm... thats a toughie.
lets see...


1. shave
2. wax

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