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How to break up with someone
I met this guy about a few months ago that lives around my way. We started dating about three weeks after I met him. I thought he was someone that could just be someone to chill with time to time. Well all of a sudden he acts as if he's all into me. He have been telling me that he loves me and that he wants me to be his wife and that he don't want to ever let me go. I think he's a cool person to chill with, but I do not feel the same way that he do about me. The bad part is, is that I don't know how to tell him because I do not like to break people's hearts but I don't like to pretend either. I know that I have to tell him soon because Christmas is around the corner and I don't want him to get me nothing crazy. I just don't know how to tell him.
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you should just be straight up with him. tell him hes moving way too fast and you arent ready for any of that yet. im sure he will understand and everything will be better. i hope I helped and good luck!
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just be honest with him. dont play games. simply let him know that you dont feel like that for him. tell him you dont want to be his girlfriend and that you just like him as a friend and thats it. you think he is just a cool person in general to hang out with.
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Well, if you don't feel the same way you shouldn't stick with it. For one, he'll just end up more hurt then he would if you just break it off now. Just tell him you think he is a great person and that he is totaly cool, but... 1) he just doesn't seem like your type (Ok I know thats old, but it does work...). He's cool to hang out with, but not what you are looking for in a boyfriend... or... 2) That he is moving a bit too quick for you and you arn't looking for anything too serious right now.
I think if its a one sided relationship (him loving you and you not loving him back) it would be better for the both of you to just end it.
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Woah anytime anyone gets that hot heavy all at once...i run..ok..see that is just plain crzy talk..
you have to tell him..for if you do not he could totally stalk you..ok..so say the words that YOU want to hear..if the roles were turned around..be nice..nbe kind..but do it soon!!!
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