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PARANOID ABOUT RELATIONSHIP!
im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help
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nothing is wrong with you beleive me, i had that thing once.. i was always paranoid that the next day when i wake up and go to school he is just going to break up with me i hated it.. i also felt that way because we went out like 4 times for a week each... so it was different because i always though you know when a week was over that he was just going to break up with me and i hated it because i liked him so much.. and i still do but you just have to let it all go.. you cant be all worried everynight because thats going to lead to fights and not be good, if he calls a little late dont be worried he probably has a busy night, when that guy used to call me he called me everynight and if he didnt call me one night i got so nervous for the next day to come but it was all good i finally let it go and said that i just gotta live life! good luuckkk! x3
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you are paranoid and obsessed. chill out. its no big deal. if you keep this paranoia and obsession up it could result in a breakup. and then you will really have yourself a reason to be upset. so just chill out and relax. he is not obligated to call you every night at the same time, or even every night for that matter. so just find something for your self to do to occupy some time. it will go past quicker. dont think about the time or bad things that he may be doing. because trust me if he was cheating or whatever BAD THINGS you think about him, you would know. he was prolly doing something and just got caught up and lost track of time. so no big. quit being so paranoid and everything will be fine.
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You need to chill out about this or else you'll scare him away. My one friend used to be like that with her EX boyfriend. He got sick of not being trusted. If he hasn't done anything like cheat on you then you shouldn't worry about it. Talk to him and tell him that some things bother you like him not calling you on time but he is a guy and we all know guys have no sense of time lol but good luck
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I use to have a boyfriend like this too.. what i would do is talk to him about it! Sometimes guys just forget. It does not mean that they do not love you or they dont want to be with you it just means that they are probably playing a video game or watching the football game and arent keeping track of time lol. Thats just how guys are. So just talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel and hey, maybe you should be the one to call him from now on?
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Well it seems that you just love him but have a few problems with trusting him- that he will be loyal to you and such. Everyone feels it but its an imaginary most of the time. Like here- he loves you and yet you don't fully believe it.
Why? Have some more self confidence. He loves you for you and won't cheat on you. Relax a little bit as well it will be better from then on. Think of all the times that you have been late to something. That he doesn't love you is one of the reasons, BUT so is running late, forgetting, odd chores, the whole world has fallen down and its in his way to getting to the phone.
It is normal to feel this way- called being human but you can't let it take over your life, relax a little trust that your boyfriend will call you back.
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