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i have NO layout code on my page. all i have are photo codes from photobucket, a banner code and a code to hide my top friends. NO LAYOUT CODE! and when i try to add a layout, it doesnt show up! i am completely perplexed! WHAT could possibly be blocking these layout codes from working?? (link)
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Try this site, It might work better for you.
http://www.pimp-my-profile.com/
Sometimes photobucket has invailed codes.
Bahaima22
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I'm booked in at the hairdressers on Tuesday for a cut and colour yet i have no idea how i want my hair. I want something modern and punk/emo looking. Anyone know of any websites with pictures on? (link)
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Okay,
I would suggest maybe a choppy, layered haircut if you are looking for the punk/emo style. Here is a picture of what I mean
http://www.emo365.com/uploaded_images/emo-haircuts-764831.jpg
My friend is a hairdresser and she tells me it is out right now.
Good Luck!
BahaiMa22
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well Okay since valentine's is coming up i've been going back and forward in my head thinking about what I should buy my boyfriend :(
the reason why I don't know is because I never bought any of my boyfriends anything . my past relationships never went well because they only wanted sex but anyways . ANY IDEAS? all help is appreciated ! :)
me:
15/f
boyfriend:
16/m (link)
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You can never go wrong on gift cards, Yet alone most guys love candy!
(I am getting my boyfriend a gift card time game stop with a box of chocolates) Think about what he likes ;) what are his favortie stores and then aim for it!
Have a great Valentines day!
BahaiMa22
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Okay so I've asked this question before but I didn't exactly word it right so I didn't really get good results, so here it is. I have a huge crush on this boy ( let's call him dave ) and he's told me he likes me, but made it clear that now is not a good time for a girlfriend, I don't really know how to explain our relationship, its pretty confusing but my friends call us "the couple that isn't dating" so that's kind of what's going on there... Anyways, one night dave and I were talking and we got onto the subject of this other boy at our school ( lets call him mark ). Now dave and mark aren't exactly friends but they are friendly, if that makes any sense. So I told dave that I didn't really like mark all that much, and dave seemed kind of surprised by this, and he asked why. Then I told dave how things went between mark and me. See, mark can be a jerk sometimes, I feel like he can be really nice and sweet but he hits on girls a ton and sometimes he takes it a little too far, which is what he did to me. At lunch he started grinding on me and pushed me against the locker, I didn't tolerate it. I tried to push him off, I couldn't, but he got the idea and stopped. I told him how out of line he was and we haven't had an incident like that since, but it still makes me mad and he continues to hit on me. When I told dave about this incident, I told him the story as an explanation for why I wasn't very fond of mark. But then dave said something that really pissed me off, dave said "mark is just tring to have some fun." now I know this is just a comment, and maybe im over sensitive but it really made me mad that dave saw the situation like that. What mark did was disrespectful and not only was dave seeing it as no big deal, but he was acting like it was okay that mark did this to me. Sorry, but I am not a toy, I get enough crap from mark and it upset me that dave would defend him like that. Dave has always been so respectful and sweet to me, so I couldn't understand how he saw the situation like that. After dave made that comment I was about to argue but dave said it was late and that he had to go. I've let too many days go by so I don't think I can really bring it up again but I don't know if this should concern me that dave said that or if you think I'm making a big deal out of it. That attitude didn't seem like the dave I know, and I don't want him to see me like that... (link)
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First of all, You are not over-reacting you stood up for yourself and didn't let him take advantage of you and you should be proud of yourself. If "Dave" said to you "Mark" is just trying to have some fun then "Dave" sounds just as much of a jerk as "Mark" is. They are just two peas in a pod and they are just not worth your time. You are too good for them and you deserve someone who is going to treat you with respect. No woman is a boys toy and they should never be treated like one if they don't want to be. Don't let them talk you into thinking otherwise. Remember they are the ones that have no respect it isn't you.
BahaiMa22
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18/f, i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. he's always telling me how much he loves me and doesn't wanna lose me, and how beautiful i am, the whole nine yards. the problem is i have severe jealously issues, and almost ALL his friends are girls, and he is a flirt! he doesn't try to be, it's just his personality. he's not like a ladies man or anything, he only had two girlfriends before me [that only lasted like a couple months], they are just his friends, but i cant shake the issue. he is ALWAYS texting girls, and will like purposely turn the phone away from me so i cant see what theyre saying. it's not like im trying to be nosy, but that would make anyone wonder, even though he used to read my msgs when we first got together, although he says he "doesnt remember". even if he comments his girl friends, he'll say stuff like he loves their profile picture, and all his comments always have the little winky flirty face ;-). it really kills me inside, even though i know it shouldnt. i know people say "just remember he's with you and not them", and i know, but for anyone who has jealousy issues, you know it still hurts and you still wonder. he's never given me a reason not to trust him; he's the only guy i've ever dated who HASN'T cheated or used me, but i still wonder. i've talked to him about it several times, and when i do he either gets upset and says he would never hurt me, or gets defensive and says stuff like "fine i wont talk to any girls ever again!", which just upsets me more. he has every right to have girl friends and i dont want him not to, but just cant help the way i feel. i dont want to control him or know EVERY thing he's doing, but i just hate when i come across those things or he's texting his girl friends when im around and it feels like i get punched in the stomach. he was texting one last night and i kept making faces and he finally was like "do you just want me to turn my phone off?" and i was like yeah. i honestly dont think he'd ever cheat on me. ALL his friends and family know about me [if they dont actually know me] and he talks about me all the time, but sometimes i wonder if there'd be a girl who would know about me, but wouldnt care, and be trying to hang all over him and stuff. guys look at me and flirt with me quite often, but i dont have many guy friends that i regularly talk to, and i tell him EVERY THING guys say to me as far as trying to get with me and stuff, and i guess it just sux to know that he has ALL these girls for friends, and i dont really get told anything. how can i fix this? i hate that im so jealous. i always have been, and it's not always so bad, but sometimes, it really is, and i NEED to fix it. what should i do? i just cant shake it. (link)
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The first step is reconizing that you have a problem. Try talking to your boyfriend let him know how its effecting you. Try to work it out so you two can spend more time together without him texting or talking to his girl friends all the time. (My boyfriend was still talking to his ex girlfriends while he was with me I gave him a choice it's them or me.) Anyway, I don't blame you for being upset but on the other hand you need to trust your boyfriend. Relax, Trust me I know its hard. Let him know that you don't like it when he flirts arounds because it drives you up a wall. When he does talk to his girl friends try to calm, Get in the conversation. (Not in a nosey way but in a friendly way)
Sorry I couldn't be much more of a help, I hope some of what I said helps. I'm still working on my jealously as well but I totally get where you are coming from.
Bahaima22
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14/f
Okay, this might be kind of long. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months now and he's my first boyfriend. For the first few months everything was honestly perfect. I was so happy to talk to him and see him(we talked every day on the phone but we rarely saw each other because we both babysat little siblings)Overall, the summer was great. There were times that I would get bored talking to him but that's to be expected after talking for a few hours a day. Then school started and things changed. We were both starting HS. I was so excited; I loved HS. I made new friends, I'm in all top classes and I'm doing well, and I joined Amnesty International and Key Club. Everything was great but my bf wasn't in any of my classes so I don't see him except for 10 minutes before homeroom. When I did, however, things were different. He was with all of his friends(who I think are obnoxious but I don't complain)and I end up standing there ignored. He acts like a jerk with his friends and is just as loud and obnoxious as them. I'd never seen that in him before. When he did acknoledge me he'd try to hug or kiss me or he'd say something stupid to impress his friends. When i talked to him about it and how I didn't want to kiss in school he accepted it but he still acted kind of hurt. Once a few weeks ago he said, "You know you haven't been hugging me a lot lately" I just said sry that I'd been late the past couple of mornings and I hadn't gotten a chance. Then he said "It's okay its just making me look bad." When I asked him he basically told me that his friends tease him that I don't kiss him and that part of the reason he hugs me in the morning is because of his friends. I was so hurt.
Also, sometimes he embarrasses me. I know that sounds horrible, but sometimes he just acts like a little kid and I feel wierd especially when I'm with my two best friends and their bfs and he acts stupid and is kind of immature. I feel mean saying it but its the truth.
To make matters worse, through all of this I've started noticing another boy more. He's in a bunch of my classes and he's so perfect. He's really nice, talks to me, he's really smart, and he's probably the most good-looking guy I know(he's not even conceited about it either) I always feel awful just thinking about him becasue I know it's so unfair to my boyfriend but I can't help it especially when my bf does something that makes me mad. Also, sometimes I miss being single because for the first time in my life I'm being outgoing and guys are talking to me and noticing me and I can't even think consider them because I have a bf.
I've considered breaking up with him a few times but I don't know what to do. I know he really cares about me he always tells me how much he loves me and how I'm the only good thing in his life. And I really love talking to him on the phone(we still talk every night) For the most part, we have fun conversations and he can always make me laugh. But it feels like our phone conversations are the only good thing in our relationship. I don't get butterflies when I see him anymore, ever. To be honest, I don't even like really seeing him in person lately. I know for a fact that we'll never get married because our visions for the future just wouldn't mix. I want to travel the world and help people then settle down with kids. He doesn't know what he wants to do but he doesn't even think he wants kids. I'm just so confused and stressed about all of this. Please help me. (link)
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Okay,
Usually when people enter High School everything changes exspecially when you have never been to High School before. There is alot more peer pressure, stress, and judgement going around. I think your boyfriend might be trying to make a good impression on his friends by acting cold towards you to make himself look good. Honestly, In my opinion thats wrong. If he really cared about you he wouldn't brush you off and most of all he would never ignore you. If he apprechiates you then he should have nothing to hide. If you like another guy there is nothing wrong with that try talking to him, Get to know him and devolope a friendship as he could be a great guy will alot to give.
BahaiMa22
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hello. 15 f and also from rhodeisland. i find this to be the most boring state, maybe you think the same or have grown to like it.
After i typed this i realized how long it was..and i want to say im sorry its so long. Please bare with me.. lol
Anyway I wanted an older more mature perspective on dating. I like this guy and he likes me. But when he tells me he likes me its almost unbelievable because i think he just wants to be involved for the action. He is more experience than me like I havnt kissed a guy and hes not even a virgin. He is kind of known to have that sort of player thing and not want to be with a girl for much more than sexual reasons. I met him through a mutual friend because he had told our friend that he thought I was cute and for him to talk to me for him. Turns out I had already told our friend that I thought he was cute. so we both had a mutual attraction from the beginning. Then i moved my seat in class to talk to him and he was really quiet at first and shy acting. Now after a few months its like we've known eachother forever. Hes an asshole to be honest and not just to me. He says hes kidding around and its obvious but hes still an ass. Apart of me just cant help but like him though. I find it strange that he says he likes me and attempted to ask me out but acts like he doesnt or is just flirting in the weirdest ways. I may come off as hard to get or idk.. I just know that before he would try to caress my leg and id just sit there like it didnt phase me or one time i lightly smacked his hand. Hes asked me out on dates before and i didnt necesarily say yes or say no so I guess I kind of left him hanging. Or i'll be sarcastic like ok lets go to the movies and you can go see that movie while i see this one. when he indirectly asked me out I said that i would say no. I dont feel like we've gotten close enough for me to go out with him and him be my first boyfriend. Also I dont think id be able to date him without me eventually losing my virginity. At first i wasnt okay with this guy not being a virgin but ive accepted it now especially since a lot of people in high school seem to not be now. This guy also smokes weed, when we got to talking more on a personal level I told him that I would like him if he didnt smoke and he said he would quit. According to him he hasnt smoked since then which is about a little over a month now. I dont smoke and I havnt tried it. I dont mind being friends with people who smoke but I dont think id want to date someone who did. He also sells which i think im okay with that but i figure if he sells it than what is going to stop him from smoking it. My best friend is totally against us going out. She says she will get whatever dirt on him she can to tell me. Shes told me she just doesnt want me to get hurt and ive said thank you but now im tired of hearing how much he isnt for me and all that.. just let me make my own decisions and if i get hurt and have regrets then oh well because its apart of life. She just keeps saying if you get hurt in the end im going to feel like it was all my fault and feel even worse than you because i didnt do more to stop it. Its gotten to the point where she is just so annoying and if she would be mad that we were going out id say that is her problem and if she doesnt want to be friends that is fine. But i dont want it to seem like im picking him over her. Some of my other friends have just told me to just watch out for him but if i really like him to go for it. My other best friend is like hey you should go out with him, you like him he likes you.. just do it. So its like I have so many opinions coming at me at once. The mutual friend of me n this guy doesnt even like him anymore. This guy bugs our mutual friend alot , like hes nice at times and other times just mean in an annoying way. Our mutual friend told me recently, I dont even know why you like him. I feel like its his fault he even got me involved with this guy. Hes the one who talked all good about him and was like yeah come with us and get to know him. Now apart of me wishes I never did. Me and this guy were talking and i told him how i never dated anybody because its hard for me to trust people and he asked if i trusted him, which i was honest and i said no. Then he wanted to know why not and how he could earn my trust. I really have no idea how he could earn my trust.. i think its just a thing that comes with the connection you have with a person and a certain amount of time. He said maybe he could earn trust by taking me to our school dance, i said i didnt want to go to that dance, because no dress yet and how soon it was. He thought that was a lame excuse and I said no its not but if i did go id feel bad saying yes to you when i was asked by other people. Then he was like oh who asked you and this reminds me of how he can act kind of overprotective and jealous , which is jealousy is the number one thing i hate. I was on the phone one time and texting him and it was about 3am and he was lik Oh who are you on the phone with? im like my friend. and hes like oh is it a guy? who is it? and he really wanted to know who this guy i was talking to was. Or hes done other things like that.
I have more to say but i cant think of more right now.. other things will come along the way. I just wanted to introduce you to the whole thing first. I dont have a direct question, its more like what is your opinion on everything and if you have any questions to ask me about the situation than ill answer and so on.. (link)
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Okay here it goes...
Forgive me if I am too straight foward, From what you typed it sounds like he might just be trying to get you for some action. I can almost promise you that if you do decide to date him he might as well try and get you do have sex with him. I do not know this kid but watch out for the "players" as from exsperience they sometimes are the one to spread the word that you are easy to get. If he smokes weed and sells then you are probably better off just staying away from him as you probably already know he is heading for some serious trouble. Moving on to the "sex" no guy can make you have sex with them, and don't ever let a guy bribe you or talk you into it if that isn't your wish. It is perfectly okay to be a virgin and don't let anyone eles tell you otherwise. It sounds like you are much better off without this guy, he sounds like a punk who is just looking for a booty call. It is okay to be friends but don't let him pull you into his own trap. If you do not trust him then you must have a good reason for it and you just answered your own question. It takes time to gain someones trust, You can't just gain it overnight.
If you need anything eles don't be afraid to ask! Also, If you need to talk more in private feel free to ask me for my email or Yahoo IM. (Da_2nd_Generation@yahoo.com) Is no longer my current email.
Your Friend
BahaiMa22
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Okay... so this is definitely not really about pets, but there wasn't an appropriate category!
I have mice in my house. My fiancee is away for the weekend, and the mice are not going for the traps, even though they're baited with peanut butter.
I'm not scared of mice, but they are a pain in the butt, and they're dirty to boot.
How do I get rid of them, and keep them out of my house? If it makes any difference, I live in a semi-detached.
The other issue: cockroaches. We occasionally get little cockroaches, seemingly in spurts. Those, I can't handle. How do you keep them from coming into your home? Sealing everything is not an option... our home was built in the 1920s. (link)
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Okay,
You're best bet might be to call an exterminator only because mice can build there nest inside the walls which will only make the problem become worse. Try baiting with graham crackers with a dab of peanut butter, There are also different types of mice traps you can buy. Cockroaches, Make sure there are no clothes in bundles, dishes in the sink, crumbs on the counters and if you do, Do not store paper or plastic bags in cupboards it will only cause insulation which attracks cockroaches. Call an exterminatior as it might be your best bet.
Good Luck
BahaiMa22
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A member of my family with schizophrenia has living with me for about a month. I have tried to help her but I am at my breaking point. (link)
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There is never a good way to tell someone you want them to move out and it's time to go.
However, I can understand that it must be very hard to deal with someone whom has schizophrenia you could possibly look into a group home in the area who might be able to take care of him/her better and you know they are always safe.
BahaiMa22
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What is the difference between a Messianic Jew and a Christian? (link)
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Okay sorry, Well I just answered the question best I could no need to be mean about it.
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1m 13f
OK ill start from the beginning, sorry if it is long
i have known this guy in my school since kindergarten, he is a year older then me. at first we were friends then really good friends. i like this guy more then a friend and i'm not sure if he likes me that way too. i'm not sure if this is a hint. he got me rose scented candles for Christmas with love hearts and roses on them for a Christmas present. im scared that if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way about me that it will ruin our long term , strong friendship!another thing is, he found out like a month ago he has cancer on his brain, its not active but doctors are trying to shrink it with radiotherapy, if it doesn't work they will operate! im also afraid that this isn't a good time to tell him. what should i do?
P.S. he is really sweet and polite. (link)
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Well,
Roses and Hearts are usually a symbol of "love" which could mean that he does like you in that way and just doesn't know how to show it. You should come out of the box and let him know how you feel about him. Like the other person below me said, Through a time like this it could only bring the two of you closer. As we all know life is too short.
BahaiMa22
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i have dry hair; and when i dont shower the next day my hair looks FIVES TIMES as dry. haha what is a good shampoo for dry hair? which of pantene aussie head and shoulders would work best? (link)
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I used to have dried out "Fried Hair" try Pantene Pro V it works really well. Also, Try not to over use a flat iron if you do, That will cause it to fry more and only make dead ends worse. You could also try protein vs moisturizing conditioner to repair dry hair. You can find it in almost any hair product place. ;)
BahaiMa22
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"No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. that someone will take all that you are and rip it into pieces, and they wont even watch where the pieces land.but through the breakdown you will learn something about yourself. you will learn that you are strong. and that no matter how hard they try to destroy you.... you can conquer anyone.." ??? thanks (link)
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Okay,
The quote means;
there is a point in your life where someone hurts you so badly that you begin to think that it is impossible to over come the hurt. However, Once you've been hurt so badly and you heal from being hurt then you know you are strong enough to over come anything.
BahaiMa22
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I'm 30, have a husband (3 years) and have feelings for someone else. the other person i met at a conference. we spent a lot of time that week together. he knows i'm married and he has a girlfriend so not much happened between us physically. i've never cheated before in my life. i dated a lot before i got married but have never had this kind of instant connection with someone before and it makes my heart warm and my stomach hurt everytime i think about him. he lives a 2 hour plane ride from me but i happened to be in his town for business last week. we met for a drink, talked about how we were doing for a couple of hours, hugged goodnight and that was it. now it's even worse - i can't stop thinking about him, it's affecting my daily life. i know it's stupid to think about leaving my husband and moving to be with him but i really can't help but this about it. i need some advice on what i can do to either help my current relationship so i can forget about this guy, and/or what you think i should do, if anything about him and/or how can i stop thinking about this other guy this way.
Please help me... (link)
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I'm not sure what the relationship is between you and your husband but may be you just aren't happy?
Honestly, This one is up to you. I can help you with my own opinion though. Honestly, Sometimes even though a person is married to someone we still don't find the right person until later in life. If you feel this person is the one for you and you have a strong connection with him as he does for you then you've got some thinking to do. Let me lay down some questions. :)
1. What do you think is the best thing for YOU and why?
If you aren't happy with your current husband then maybe it is indeed time to move on. If you think you can manage moving and being with this guy then maybe it is what you should do. However, If you do decide to go about it remember you should do it the right way and that is divorce. Time is short, but life goes on. The divorce may be hard to over come but remember it's better than cheating on your husband and if it all works out then you will be set to be married again on possibility.
BahaiMa22
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Im moving out of my parents house on friday and moving into my own place. Im not going to have internet or t.v so im going to be very good.
what are some good songs I can listen to that will keep me entertaind. they dont have to be very popular just good songs i can jam too =D
any suggestions? i rate hiiigh....
or any suggestions of artists yu like (link)
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Depends on what kind of music you like. :)
Here are some good suggestions I hope you like.
T.I - Whatever you like
DJ Khaled - Out here Grinding
Kanye West - Heartless
Areosmith - Crazy
Flyleaf - Cassie
Bob Marley - Three Little Birds
Camron - Hey Ma
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My fiance and I are planning our wedding for 8/29/09. The only problem - a 'girl' friend of his who he has put on the guest list that I cannot stand. They have been friends for 20 years and everytime I come in contact with her she is extremely rude to me. When we first started dating I found her through another friend on myspace (website). I requested to be her friend because I knew she was a friend of my fiance's and I figured I would introduce myself. I am friends with several of his other friends on the website. She responded to my request with 'I'm sorry, but why are you requesting to be my friend? I don't know you, I've never met you. I know you're dating my friend but I've never met you.' From that point on she has been the one and only problem in our relationship. I have invited her to a few different events, trying to get to know her, and she refuses to come, making up excuses. She calls my fiance when I'm not around and they seem to have a secret friendship. He doesn't tell me when they talk because he thinks it will start a fight. All of his other friends have always been nice to me but for some reason she doesn't know how to be. I recently contacted her via email to see if we can meet up and clear the air, for the sake of my fiance. She refuses to email me back and told my fiance that she doesn't want to meet up with me because I didn't invite her to his surprise birthday party. I'm sorry, but why would I invite her if she is so mean to me? I completely trust him, but her I do not. She has jealousy written all over her face. I refuse to invite her to the wedding because the sight of her will ruin my day. Everytime I think about her and this situation my stomach becomes upset and it brings tears to my eyes. I don't want to feel that way on our wedding day. My fiance wants her to be invited to our wedding but I know it will cause a huge problem. We tried talking about this a few times and we cannot seem to resolve it. If the situation were reversed, I would take his feelings into consideration because I would not want to ruin our special day. I feel that he is marrying ME and he picked ME. Why does he continue to put her before me? I am supposed to be the most important person in his life. (link)
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I feel your pain because I am currently in a simular situation as you.
As you say in your column it seems he may be exsperiencing a "secret friendship" I would question him about how secret the friendship is. Talk to him and get him to come out of the box. If this girl is jealous I do not blame you for not wanting her at the wedding as it could be very well that she will try and cause problems on your day. I would try talking to your fiance and let him know how you feel and how it's currently effecting you and your worries about the wedding. I know you probably do not want to distroy there friendship but on the other hand you with the situation was solved. I'm not sure how far it's gone but talk to him and be upfront about it. I'm not saying to tell him to pick between the two of you but if that is what it might lead too then be strong about it. Yes, You are right he did pick you and YOU should be his number one. You also have the say of who comes and doesn't go to your wedding.
Try talking to him like I said, Get him to come out of his box.
Good Luck
xxx
BahaiMa22
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I was wondering if anyone knew if it is possible to sue my ex-wife for lying to me for the last 12 yrs. We divorced in 94 and about 97 she started telling all our friends that my son was not mine, yet she never told me. I got wind of it from my friends then I approached several attorneys, but they all said that I am stuck because I signed a divorce degree with his name on it, and the time to contest dna had passed. I feel like she knew how long she had to wait before saying anything. She knew then I would be stuck. She has taken me back a total of 4 times, and always manages to get more, and more, yet my son will not talk to me, or visit me. He is not 17, and I am 4 months from being done, but I am just upset that she has taken so much from me, she definetly does not give it to him, by his appearance he never sees this money. He does not even know how much he gets. I just want to know if I can do something to her for doing this to me and to him. (link)
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I will help best I can on this one as I am not an exspert..
Maybe you could take the Mother to court and file for full custody of the child.
Good Luck.
BahaiMa22
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Okay im 17 and i love my boyfriend to death! We have talk about babies a few times and we both want one but our only problem is that we have no money so we dropped the subject, well atleast he did. I really want one but i dont know why. I thought it was just a faze but i been wanting one for awhile now! I love babies. Im going to college to be a midwife and ultrasound tech. Its a possibility that i may be pregnant now but i wont know til this weekend. I dont know how he will react if i was but if im not i may be real upset. I dont really like kids though lol well kids that im not use to. They all seem so bad but my lil brother is one of the baddest kids i know and i love him soo much! Maybe because he was raised around me so he listens to me. Hummm i think i would be a good mother and i know i would love my kid even as it grows cause i mean its mine. What do i do? Do i talk to him about having one? Or just keep praying that the subject pops up and he tells me that he's ready? Im young but i know i can do it. i dont know help? =] (link)
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This might not be what you want to hear but..
Think about this, You are 17 and you want a kid?!
I know babies are cute, but they are a TON of work. Not only you, but your boyfriend also will need a full time job with income. Babies are NOT cheap. They require diapers, formula, clothes, crib, baby chair, toys, food, etc. The baby should live in an enviroment that is healthy and stable. It's only fair to the child. You don't have a baby because it's cute or adorable that is not a good enough reason to even be thinking about it. If you really want a baby maybe you should look at a dog for now and wait until you and your boyfriend are married. You don't want to have a baby and be living at your parents house. You are better off waiting trust me.
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how do i upload a photo? i did and it sayed "You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded." and its Annoy!!! (link)
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If you go to Tinypic.com and browse a picture from your computer it will reduce the size for you and give you a code. Copy and paste it too your profile settings and save it.
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BahaiMa22
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There's this girl that lives about an hour away from me that I've only met about 3 times in real life, but we text and stay in touch on Facebook and IM sometimes. I move to her town once I graduate this spring, but the thing is I'm an average looking, kind of shy, really nice guy (which helps cuz she's had awful relationships), but this girl is a bombshell. But she's just so nice to me too, and I had a friend say "if she's still talking to you, then she likes you." I just don't know if its that simple.
Anyway, after some days of flirting with her, I seriously can't get her out of my head. Even though she's a bombshell, we've only met a couple times and her personality is to die for, so I don't think my attraction is physical yet. I don't want to do the long distance relationship thing. Should I tell her I like her, should I wait until I get up there? She's driving me crazy. And her Facebook statuses are always about love songs and she's said she has a big crush on someone, and I'm seriously praying that the person is me. Sometimes she talks to me a lot, other times I need to be the one who starts and maintains conversations, so I can't tell if she's playing hard to get. I don't want to put myself out there though and blow it, because I could take it slow and get to know her better when I move down there in May. But that seems so far away now. Do I got the bug bad? (link)
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I would just come out and tell her. When you talk to her start a conversation and gradually move into the topic. Looks are not everything, It's all about personality. Who knows maybe she does like you back. ;) The only way to find out is to bring up the subject. Ask her out, Who knows maybe you will get that answer you are waiting to here. If you two are meant to be, Then it will last and she will wait for you. Call her, IM her, See her on Facebook, and maybe do weekend visits until you move. :)
I hope this all works out for ya!
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BahaiMa22
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