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boy trouble


Question Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 3:30 am

1m 13f
OK ill start from the beginning, sorry if it is long
i have known this guy in my school since kindergarten, he is a year older then me. at first we were friends then really good friends. i like this guy more then a friend and i'm not sure if he likes me that way too. i'm not sure if this is a hint. he got me rose scented candles for Christmas with love hearts and roses on them for a Christmas present. im scared that if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way about me that it will ruin our long term , strong friendship!another thing is, he found out like a month ago he has cancer on his brain, its not active but doctors are trying to shrink it with radiotherapy, if it doesn't work they will operate! im also afraid that this isn't a good time to tell him. what should i do?
P.S. he is really sweet and polite.


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Additional info, added Friday January 30 2009, 3:36 am:
i sent him an email, this is what it said.
roses are red
violets are blue

i am your friend
and your mine too

grass is green and the sky is blue, i have grown more attached to u

i don't know why, i like u more then then a friend, if u do not feel the same way, still friends?
.

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BahaiMa22 answered Thursday January 29 2009, 4:16 pm:
Well,

Roses and Hearts are usually a symbol of "love" which could mean that he does like you in that way and just doesn't know how to show it. You should come out of the box and let him know how you feel about him. Like the other person below me said, Through a time like this it could only bring the two of you closer. As we all know life is too short.


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HotSauce answered Thursday January 29 2009, 2:37 pm:
He probable feels the same way, and considering he has cancer, telling him you like him and stuff will probable bring you both closer. I really would come clean about your feelings for him, stay close to him threw out this whole episode of cancer, if he makes it I bet you two will be very happy together. :)
It's good he's sweet and polite.

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