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I can't get this girl out of my mind
There's this girl that lives about an hour away from me that I've only met about 3 times in real life, but we text and stay in touch on Facebook and IM sometimes. I move to her town once I graduate this spring, but the thing is I'm an average looking, kind of shy, really nice guy (which helps cuz she's had awful relationships), but this girl is a bombshell. But she's just so nice to me too, and I had a friend say "if she's still talking to you, then she likes you." I just don't know if its that simple.
Anyway, after some days of flirting with her, I seriously can't get her out of my head. Even though she's a bombshell, we've only met a couple times and her personality is to die for, so I don't think my attraction is physical yet. I don't want to do the long distance relationship thing. Should I tell her I like her, should I wait until I get up there? She's driving me crazy. And her Facebook statuses are always about love songs and she's said she has a big crush on someone, and I'm seriously praying that the person is me. Sometimes she talks to me a lot, other times I need to be the one who starts and maintains conversations, so I can't tell if she's playing hard to get. I don't want to put myself out there though and blow it, because I could take it slow and get to know her better when I move down there in May. But that seems so far away now. Do I got the bug bad?
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I would just come out and tell her. When you talk to her start a conversation and gradually move into the topic. Looks are not everything, It's all about personality. Who knows maybe she does like you back. ;) The only way to find out is to bring up the subject. Ask her out, Who knows maybe you will get that answer you are waiting to here. If you two are meant to be, Then it will last and she will wait for you. Call her, IM her, See her on Facebook, and maybe do weekend visits until you move. :)
I hope this all works out for ya!
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BahaiMa22
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Long distance relationships are hell on people who've been together for years (I know from experience). They're even worse for people who've just began. Don't do it. If she likes you and knows you're coming down in May she'll expect you to wait anyhow. Just continue flirting with her and she'll return the favor. I know it seems like a long time, but trust me, if you want to avoid jealousies and temptations just leave it be for now. May's not that far away. You can tell her you like her if you want, just please don't try and do the long distance thing. You'll regret it and you might lose something that could have been really good for both of you.
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