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I've just discovered Good Charlotte when i heard "Predictalbe". It's like my favorited song EVER! But i'm wondering if the ther songs on the cd are as good, or better. If anyone has the cd, tell me if it was good. Thanks! (link)
I wouldn't recommend buying any cd by Good Charlotte.


How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?
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Shit, it's like listening to myself think when reading this. A lot of my friends are in the same position. They'll complain about mind games their boyfriends will play, but they can't leave them because they "love" them. I'm sure it has something to do with a fear of change in them or something.

It's easy to say that there is someone for everyone, but where's the proof? Honestly? There's no guarantee. No definite way it's going to happen, so how do we know it will ever happen? We don't. Which is why I think you should make better use of your time. I'm not saying give up on the dating scene altogether, just don't try as hard. Try to find some other passion, besides romance. From what I've seen, romance happens when you least expect it, most of the time when your not looking for it.

Wait, I forgot, don't think for a second it's all about physical appearance (unless your a 13 year old girl obsessing over Brad Pitt). Around here, I've seen gorgeous girls with these guys that look like they live under a bridge. A lot of girls your age have probably grown out of the "He has to be hot" phase and have grown more realistic. Besides, you never want a relationship to be based on looks. At least not if you're wanting someone to spend your life with. After all, beauty is only temperary.


Is it normal 4 a high school junior girl who is 17 years old to go out with a guy who is a freshmen in college and who is about 19or 20 years old? (link)
Of course. Next year you'll be 18 and he'll be 21. I don't see anything wrong with that.


ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do? (link)
That has to be the worst excuse not to date someone in the history of excuses. Turn him down. If he gets mad at you, I don't blame him.


Hey,

I was wondering what's easier to play, a electric guitar or a electric bass?

Thanks

(link)
Definitely Bass.


Last night I was on MSN talking to one of my friends (tom) and my boyfriend (Jon) while they were at Jon's house. Tom asked me what I would do if Jon broke up with me so I asked if he was and Tom said maybe. Later on I asked again and Jon said he wasn't. This morning I asked my other friend (who is Jon's friend) if Jon was going to break up with me and he said yes. I tried texting Jon last night asking about it but he hasn't replied. I don't know what to think. Dan and Tom try to break me and him up alot and I don't know whether this is just another attempt. (link)
Don't talk to Jon about it! You've already tried twice, it's probably starting to piss him off, that's why he's not responding. How would you feel is someone you dated constantly asked you if you were breaking up with him? I'm telling you, the more you ask, the more annoying you'll seem. Come on, use some common sense. If they're trying to break you two up like you say they are, of course they're going to tell you he's going to break up with you. Why would you even ask them? He said he wasn't going to dump you, that should be good enough.


what are some ways that can help me to stop being so shallow? and stop caring about looks in a guy? (link)
You're asking us to tell you how to change how you feel about guys in general? For one, don't see guys on a scale of hotness, see them as people. Everyone is interesting unless they're an asshole. Two, get to know a guy first before you date him. Become friends with guys who you might not consider dating and see if you develop any feelings for them. If not, you can't force yourself to like someone you don't. No one can, we're all human.


i am 13 and i have a boyfriend. i was at a football game tonight but my boyfriend wasnt there. These other guys were there, and i found out that they liked me. it was like 4 guys. it was really cold out and i was doing anything to get warm, even if it meant that i had to hold one of the guys hands. we went into the parking lot, well kinda parking lot, and all the guys except one were touching me and hugging me and stuff. i feel guilty about hurting my boyfriend's feelings, even though he doesnt know about it yet. Did i cheat on him, and should i or shouldnt i tell him about it? Im afraid that if i tell him that he would break up with me, plus all the guys and i promised we wouldnt tell him about it....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
signed,
~*~dazed and confused~*~ (link)
That's not cheating. That is, however, one of the lamest excuses to hold someone's hand I've ever heard. You obviously wanted whatever happened to happen, otherwise you wouldn't feel this guilty. And you promised to never tell him? What does that mean? I think you should do whatever you want to do. It makes no difference.


well do u guys know that quote..

let the person you love go and if they come back they were meant to be yours??

well i never believed that quote..until i met *ben* in 6th grade but then i told ppl i didnt like him n then durin 7th grade i kinda forgot abut him but then like the quote said in 8th grade *ben* came back..

were we meant to be??

tnxs nd i rate high (link)
Nope, now rate me high.


I am currently a first year university student. I have a problem with a talkative person that always comes to sit next to me during lectures. It is extremely annoying to have someone talk during a lecture, especially to you. It is also annoying to have people in the lecture give you dirty looks for 'disrupting' everything when you haven't said a word at all. That is besides the point. I am wondering what possible things can I do to keep this person from talking or sitting next to or near me? I have tried to be nice, and I have tried to be rude and forward - neither works. I have explicitly told this person that they need to shut up so I can listen and they responded, "Ok but just listen to this..." It is beyond the point of frustration. Even when I move, that person always shows up to where ever I am and manages to find me. I cannot come late because a) I am already in that lecture hall from a class directly before and b) because this person is always very very late to the point of getting into a seat right as the lecture is starting. I am not entirely comfortable with asking a random person to please 'sit in this seat next to me, please oh please.'

Whatever can I do?! (link)
Slap him around a bit. Then accuse him of sexual harrassment. Then purposely fall down and cry. If that doesn't work, threaten to sacrifice him to the great goat god. If that doesn't work, sit up front so the teacher can hear him trying to talk. Unless it's an ICN class, in that case kill him. plz r4t3 m3h -> 5



Hey, theres this girl that I really like. And it turned out she liked me too, so I asked her out last night. She said she wanted to think about it. So then later today after school she gave me a note... it explained that she said "I hope we have a good time together, not only as friends but also a couple..." But also later in the note it said "I also found out that (friend of mine and hers) likes me too, but I felt sorry for him because I told him I like you, do you see how I'm feeling? Anyways you're so shy!! You made me feel like a 'sister'~~ haha! Sorry! Hope you can understand what I'm trying to say!" Well anyways my question is... does that mean we are going out or does she want to stay friends?? THANK YOU FOR READING PLEASE HELP (link)
Wow, confusing. Well since she hopes that you two have a good time as a couple and she let another guy down because she likes you, I'd say she wants to go out. This sister crap and "I hope you understand what I'm trying to say" doesn't make any sense at all. I'd say she wants to go out, but tell her you don't understand what she's trying to say. This is one of the reasons people shouldn't ask people out through notes.


ok i like this hot guy at my school...but i get really jealous when hes around other gurls..? what shood i do....ill rate u a 5! (link)
You should stop it, now give me my 5.


he makes hearts all the time, smiles at me and is nicer to me than usual. i like him but i dont know if he likes me. van anyone helkp / i give 5s for all attempts. thnx.

**prill-z** (link)
He doesn't, now give me my 5.


What do I do when my anger is so built up that I feel I could hurt my friends with the pain of it all? (link)
Find some place where you can be alone and let it all out. Throw stuff around, it helps. Just don't break anything of value.


I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to? (link)
I'd just like to say that this is a good question. MFS aleady answered, so it's pointless for me to repeat. I'll just say that it's better than the typical, mundane relationship crap that a lot of people have asked in the past.


Im havin a couple friends over for Halloween and i want to rent some good scary movies. Does anyone have any ideas other than scream or the exorcist? (link)
Basically any low-budget one from the 70s-80s are great. And try to find some Japanese horror movies. Some good titles are Evil Dead 2, Jack Frost, or Dead Alive (those are meant to be funny in a dark way), Night of the Living Dead (I prefer the 60s version, but they're both pretty good), and any of those Vincent Price movies are fun to watch. Don't forget about the classics (Frankenstien, Dracula, etc).


Um, I was a moderator a little while back, my sn was CrazySquirrel. and i was a 1st level mod, and then it cleared all my ratings, and it kicked me off, and i wasnt' a mod nemore, now it won't lemme use that sn, I like my new Advice collemn better, but i was wondering if you know why that happened. (link)
What MFS said.


I know I'm only 13 but I am interested in becoming an art teacher when I am older. Out of interest, what courses would I have to take? How long would I take to qualify? etc (link)
Quite a while. I'm looking into the same field for myself. You'll have to get a teaching degree, which means educational psychology and so on, and you'll have to get an art degree (which is insanely easy and doesn't require much talent). You won't have to worry about this for 5 years or so.


any1 got any ideas to help me NOT wanna stangle muh mom n beat her fucking ass?!?! ima bout to bust! please help answer soon bye (link)
Yeah, try growing up.


Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do? (link)
The most polite thing to do is to at least make an appearance. If you get bored and feel left out, tell your good friend that you need to go and take off. Call someone to have you picked up if possible. How are you getting there in the first place?




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