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boys/football game
i am 13 and i have a boyfriend. i was at a football game tonight but my boyfriend wasnt there. These other guys were there, and i found out that they liked me. it was like 4 guys. it was really cold out and i was doing anything to get warm, even if it meant that i had to hold one of the guys hands. we went into the parking lot, well kinda parking lot, and all the guys except one were touching me and hugging me and stuff. i feel guilty about hurting my boyfriend's feelings, even though he doesnt know about it yet. Did i cheat on him, and should i or shouldnt i tell him about it? Im afraid that if i tell him that he would break up with me, plus all the guys and i promised we wouldnt tell him about it....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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~*~dazed and confused~*~
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Dear Dazed and Confused,
It was wrong of you to do that. YEah, you were chearting. You should tell him the cold hard truth, don't exaggerate. Tell them that you don't have any feelings for them (you don't do you?) If he doesn't accept, maybe you should go for one of the parking lot guys. lol.
Sincerely,
Helping_you
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Well ; the guys doing that to u.. could of just been a way of trying to get something from you. and it all depends to where and how they were touching you.. becaues u have a boyfriend u probably shouldnt have let them do that. i think the best thing to do is tell him.. and let him no ur sorry. Im sure the guys will open there mouth and brag about it. so i think it would be better if you told him first and he didnt find out from some one else cause that might make him more madd.
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Cheating is anything that you wouldn't want your boyfriend to find out about, or you think would hurt him. I would tell your boyfriend about it and see what happens. If he breaks up with you just learn from it and move on.
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That's not cheating! If the rolls were exchanged, you would probably want him to tell you. If you g uys have a strong enough relationship he will understand and and won't break up with you!
hope i helped!
xoshaneyney3283
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That's not cheating. That is, however, one of the lamest excuses to hold someone's hand I've ever heard. You obviously wanted whatever happened to happen, otherwise you wouldn't feel this guilty. And you promised to never tell him? What does that mean? I think you should do whatever you want to do. It makes no difference.
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If you want to be a good girlfriend I think that you should be honest and tell him..eventhough it is ganna be hard..and i am not lieing it will be hard i think that he will repect you for telling him the truth and wont be AS angry at you then if you wouldnt tell him..I think that you should tell him that you were freezing and needed something warm and that he wasnt there so i hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie
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Hi Sweetie,
How much do you like your boyfriend? This situation isn't common. What I'm saying is that your subconscious may want... to flirt with other NEW guys... Or maybe it was simply a mistake at the moment (...could it had been THAT cold...?)
Well while you're with your boyfriend maybe you will want to stop doing that stuff... letting guys be all over you. ...Did you even tell them you had a boyfriend?
Defenetly tell your boyfriend. But first evaluate your feeligns. Ask yourself if you'd rather be in a relationship with your boyfriend or if you'd rather like to meet new people? Then decided whether you want to work on your relationship (and bring sweaters to football games...hehe) or if you maybe want to find someone else... or just be single and flirt.
Figuring this out first will make it easier to tell him and to decide what you want to do.
Best wishes! Just be happy. ~Blessed Be...
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Nah, I don't think you did anything that bad, nothing you should feel guilty about. You don't really need to tell your boyfriend either. I just wouldn't do it again, one time is okay, but if you do it too much it may become something bad.
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