Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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i've never tried pot before and have no desire to. personally, it's disgusting, can turn your teeth yellow - which just makes you just plain unattractive.
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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do? (link)
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you should tell your "friend" that it really hurt your feelings that she told rumors about you. and, that your boyfriend broke up with you because of her. tell her that friends don't talk about other friends behind their back. if you need me to help talk to her - just give me her AiM screenname =) hope i helped you! please rate me!
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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if you love him, and if you feel comfortable and ready to do it - have sex! lol .. but then there's the morals .. but if you're totally in love with him i say go for it! i hope i helped you! please rate me =)
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I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now.. (link)
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the white stuff is discharge, and since it's been a year, your period should come really soon. the blood every month or two is definitly showing you that your period is about to start.
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Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.
No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.
This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.
Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?
Thank you, in advance, for your help. (link)
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when your breasts get sore, that means that they're growing. yes, it can be very painful - but hey, being beautiful is painful! lol hope i helped =)
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Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do? (link)
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wow - umm .. you do realize that he is just a cartoon character in an ad for cleaning supplies? umm .. well if his balc shiney head turns you on, maybe you can write a fan letter to him .. LMAO this cracks me up =)
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I decided what i was doing for my party, im renting out a hall and having tables of food and a DJ.. & inviting a ton of people.. is that dumb? (link)
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that is so awesome! my friend had that party and everyone showed up! that is so cool! don't forget to make pretty invitations! =)
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for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).?? (link)
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ok for the pimples, i suggest using clean & clear. they have tons of good scrubs and oil removers which totally clear your pores =) i suggest for your hair, maybe angled or layered. look @ what all the celebrities are doing - magazines such as Seventeen have great hair ideas - plus: layered bangs are back in style sweetie! =)
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Im havin diffcult evr since my 23 year old cuzin died what shuld i do? i rele miss her! help me asap (link)
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i know how it feels to lose a loved one, my Grandma died almost a year ago =( .. it's perfectly fine to grieve and cry about the loss of your cousin. the way that really helped me is that i talked to my family and they comforted me - since we were all going through the same thing. also, i wrote a poem that expressed all of my feelings. i hope i helped you and i'm really sorry about your cousin.
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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do (link)
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you should definitly tell her. even though she has a boyfriend, it wouldn't hurt to tell her how you feel. you never know, she could have a fall-out with her current boyfriend .. good luck! =)
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Theres this guy ive been talking to he used to date my friend, i really like him alot but thing is he is sorta with his baby's mother only because of the child i dont know if i should be with him or not i love him to death and i know he feels the same about me what should i do? (link)
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this is a sticky situation .. i think right now he has to act as a father figure to his baby and to be there for the baby's mother. you should just stay clear of him for a little while, and once he's all settled and ready - and if he loves you to death, he'll come and get you - good luck
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ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\ (link)
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i know it may be hard to do .. but you have to tell him. he wants you & you want him. but technically, he wants the girl you pretended to be. i say delete the screenname and don't pick up when he calls. unless he still loves you after you tell him you were a fake .. i'm sorry - hope i helped =/
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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.
I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.
While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.
For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.
So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.) (link)
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lol you're funny! =) you don't have any reason to tell your boyfriend this, after all - you 2 weren't together the time you hooked up w/ someone else .. so it's perfectly fine. if you feel that you cheated on him - you didn't. don't worry yourself! hope i helped!
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ive never kissed a guy before and all my friends have, im scared people will call me frigid and fall out with me.
has any one got any tips 4 me?? (link)
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it's up to you when and who you will kiss first. if your friends call you frigid or prude - it really isn't any of their business, and they're not acting like true friends =( hope i helped!
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I want to start wearing eye-liner and I don't know exactly where on my eye I put it - and what are the good brands. Pencil/Liquid? I'll rate you! (link)
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ok - use pencil. one of my favorite brands is NYC, but covergirl solid works just as great! you apply it to the bottom part of your eye, up close to the lashes, in a line. the thickness of the line depends on how much of a dramatic effect you want. to make you eyes pop out, but look more natural, you can smudge the liner a little. adding liquid liner to the top part of your eye is pretty, but tends to make you eye look smaller .. good luck & hope i helped! =)
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what type of questions i should ask my mum and dad about my family history? (link)
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what country your mom and dad's parents' and their parent's, etc. came from. also if there are any diseases known in your family - also any heredity things like if you could have twins because of genetics .. hope i helped! plz rate me! =)
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i really like this guy in my class .. and everyone says that its soooo obvious that he likesz me! its just that neither one of us has the guts to actually tell each other - i wanna be his girlfriend really badly!!! plz help! (link)
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have one of your friends tell this guy that you like him. he will probably then tell one of them or you that he likes you back =) hopefully this will work for you! good luck hun
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I just recently got an advicenator column n i don't kno how ta get my advice column into my AIM profile!! help! lol i kno this is pretty lame but w/e idc i want it in my profile n the only person who i know knows how ta do it is away!!
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ok - you highlight and copy the URL web address in the top part of your screen - for instance mine would be http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=liddylflirtx3 - and then you go to edit your AiM profile .. click the blue link symbol on the right corner - and paste it in .. then the space below type whatever you want people to see - for instance: ask me! and then click enter .. then finish - hope i helped you! =)
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im 13 next week, and i thought that to be a great musician and get a contract you had to be at least like 16; but then i saw this thing about how JoJo and britney spears (JoJo now, britney spears like 6 years ago) both were 13 when they made their first music video...
i'm really into rock, and i'm trying (link)
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do you have an agent? if not, talk to your parents about getting you an agent (there's probably a local talent agency in your town) your agent is the one who will give your demo tape to record companies and sign you up for photo shoots off the bat! good luck with this =)
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i feel like my friends at school might not be the right friends to be hanging out with but i dont know many other people there beacause i'm new. what should i do to find good friends? (link)
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stick with your friends right now .. and while you do that - start branching out @ school. join a club or sport - it's a great way to meet new people - and maybe just bodly start of a convo with someone in class just by simply telling them you like their hair/clothes/good test grade - good luck! =)
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