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im fake and this guy LOVES me...
ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\
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i know it may be hard to do .. but you have to tell him. he wants you & you want him. but technically, he wants the girl you pretended to be. i say delete the screenname and don't pick up when he calls. unless he still loves you after you tell him you were a fake .. i'm sorry - hope i helped =/
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Dear 'faker'
Tell him the truth,....if hes really into you like you say he is,..then hell undestand,I mean 2 yrs is a long time to be talkin to someone,besides,if its your personality thats kept him interested this long? then things should be no different. If its meant to be itll be, and hell respect you more for telling hi the truth rather then leading him on. Just for wat its worth I met my fiance' online (grin) weve been together 6 yrs now and were getting married this Oct 2nd! So believe me when I tell you ..if its meant to be it will be! :) Dont sweat it, besides you dont wanna build a relationship on lies,...ask yourself how 'you' would feel if the tables were turned? If 'he' was the one who had been lying,and 'you' were really into him and his personallity..wouldnt you rather he tell you? If you really liked him then it wouldnt change...you cant just turn feelings for someone on and off yanno? And besides you have time on your side,*smile*
Good Luck! Hope this helps! Lemmie know what happens!
Mystique :)
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well his senior trip isnt for 2 yrs you said. so he has time to change his mind. you really have yourself in a jam though. i hoped you learned something from all this. you're gonna ahve to tell him that those pics are not really you and that you're not really 17. maybe he will forgive you and still like you for you, since your relationship was only on the net anyway, which means he does like you for your personality, he just thinks you look a different way. but if he does get nagry, you cant blame him. you basically played with his head. good luck with this one girl.
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wow, you shouldnt of been fake to begin with.. make up some more lies and tell him that your moving like in a month or something.. and if he asks where say like oregon or some place far from where you and him live!! or you can just tell him the truth.. GOOD LUCK! =)
-xXoBrianna
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tell him the truth as soon as possible and then delete everything that has to do with him, and if he's really angry with u, then just ignore him. I hope u learned ur lesson!
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Do you really think this guy loves you for who you are or for your age, or your name, or your picture?
If hes only in love with you for your picture, then he isn't really in love with you. Tell him the truth, if you really do care about him. If he loves you like you say he does - he'll find a way to understand. It won't be easy for him, because now you've lied to him, but if he does love you - he'll be able to trust you again.
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i would just let him go...u cant let this guy have his feelings crushed over someone thats fake, do the right thing.
p.s for now on dont tell people something that isnt true...it just gets worse as it goes on..
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Alright, I know that everyone is telling you to tell him the truth-BUT YOU SHOULDN'T! I know that u've known him for a long time, but you have NO idea how many freaky 40-55 yr. old guys are out there on the internet, lying about everything! (I mean-you lied yourself-it was easy, what makes you think that it would be hard for him to lie to u?) It is very dangerous to do that-so please don't tell him, and don't talk to him on the internet...
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damnn.... just tell him.. and if he really does love you he will understand... you just really need to tell him before its to late..
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you should delete everything. do not meet him! he could be lying and be older and that might not be him in the pix...well him maybe at a younger age...and dont go with him to "where he lives"...he could abduct you...and they wouldn't allow him to bring somebody back on his senior trip!(if he's going with school)...good luck with your decision. just make the right choice. think about it and take your time...and you might want to tell him your real age and if you have alot in common...he could be tapping into your e-mail...good luck <3 Niki Lyn+
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You could just delete it and don't talk to him anymore ... or you could tell him you don't feel comfortable meeting and you want it to continue to be an online only type of thing. **Kacie**
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tell him!!! if he comes out there and finds out that your still just a kid and that you were lying to him this whole time then think of how much that will hurt him.Just tell him that you were scared to tell him your real information online because you didnt want anything bad to happen.(like him turn out to be a stalker or something like that)!!
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