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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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should i get lebrons, nike shox bombers, huarauaches, t-macs, kobes, or d-wades? i dont know which one to get. i need a fresh pair of kicks for the summer. you can find them all on eastbay.com, tell me which ones you think are the most fly and that i will pick up the most ladies while i am wearing them.

hm, i think t-macs are your best pick, or maybe the shox bombers. good luck pickin them ladies upp.

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woww you are suchh a fake. You act like your so nice on this but in person you are the rudest bitch ever. You give dirty looks and such for nothing and you judge people. Who the hell do you think you are? look in a fucking mirror your one ugly bitch with dike hair. so you take nice pictures, your not fooling anyone whos ahs seen you in person kay fugly? yeaa i actaully have no problem with you though, just thought id let you know. YOUVE NEVER REALLY DONE ANYTHING TO ME BUT I SEE THE WAY YOU ARE WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND ITS FUCKING ANNOYING. ***didnt mean to do the caps im just to lazy to re-type

thanks for your opinion- but, heres mine. obviously, you do have a problem with me even if you say you dont - but how about you do it in a mature manner, not a cowardish way. atleast talk to me, or leave your name or something. so i actually know what you think of me. oh, you think i judge people - well, arent you doing the same thing right now? because if you actually did know me, you wouldnt be saying im fake and whatever. just, you dont know me. so dont judge me. sorry you feel this way about me. but, you can go just hump a tree, kthx

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I'm going to my best friends bat mitzpa. I'm wearing a black dress with a black purse, black open toed shoes, and possibly a little black makeup. Should I wear black stockings? I'm African-American and 5'5. If this helps at all, I have a scar pale scar on my foot, nice toenails, and im not dark at all- im a little darker than chocolate milk but lighter than milk chocolate.

i dont think you should. ive been to lots of these, and if your dancing and having a good time - your gonna get hot wearing stockings. and plus i think i might be TOO much black.. you know. okay well have fun babe =) ohh, and its bat mitzvah hha, nice try though :P

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ok so i had a boyfriend for a while. and then he said i was too picky about things; an that summer was coming up so he didnt really want a girlfriend. so the problem is i still really like him. and i dont know what to do because i hate seeing him with other girls and i get jealous. and i also hate remembering hanging out with him and making out with him and kissing and all that stuff. and it makes me sad so kellyyy what should i do?? ♥

babe, every single girl has to go through this. about like 59832468534 times. and i know it may seem like hes the only one for you and stuff - but seriously, your better off. the guy is lucky to have you hun, and you gotta realise that. the hardest part of a break up is the first few days. and the part of always seeing him with other girls. just smile at him and just be positive. just know its okay to be sad though, let out your feelings. its bad for you to keep them inside you. this site is amazing. and is helping me as well,.. so go here and follow these steps. just be positive and be with friends and family- the people who love you. go here [ http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2006/if-20060324p426-breakup.php ] < sucha good site. good luck hun.. and remember - he is lucky to have you. not the other way around. good luckk - i know its hard., just be tough and remember to try and be positive.

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I don't know the title of the song that they play during that mastercard the commercial!

I think some of the words are like "fifteen miles for a moment and I can't help..." I don't know the rest and i don't know the TITLE!!

its called 100 years by five for fighting.
i loveee that songg :]
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I'm 15 for a moment
Caught in between 10 and 20
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are

I'm 22 for a moment
And she feels better than ever
And we're on fire
Making our way back from Mars

15.. there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to lose
15.. there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live...

I'm 33 for a moment
Still the man but you see I'm a they
A kid on the way
A family on my mind

I'm 45 for a moment
The sea is high
And I'm heading into a crisis
Chasing the years of my life

15.. there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to lose yourself
Within a morning star

15.. I'm all right with you
15.. there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live...

Half time goes by
Suddenly youre wise
Another blink of an eye
67 is gone
The sun is getting high
We're moving on...

I'm 99 for a moment
Time for just another moment
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are

15.. there's still time for you
22.. I feel her too
33.. youre on your way
Every Day's a new Day

15.. there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to choose
Hey 15.. there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live
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Okay well today i broke up with this guy and he didnt talk to me the rest of the day and now i regret breaking up with him, so how can i tell him that i want him back without like coming right out and saying it??

well, lemme start by saying that you obviously brokeup with him for a reason, so make sure thats fixed or changed or something. but if you or him cheated on the other - id reccommend not getting back together. but its all up to you ofcorse. anyway - you dont really have to tell him anything. just make sure you guys are talking first. maybe hint him by flirting a lottt and stuff. maybe leave a little note by his locker saying you wanna be in his arms by anonymous. and if he is smart and you send the right hints - he will get the picture. if anything just ask him to meet you up at like a park and just tell him how you feel, sometimes being honest and straight to the point is the best way.

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me and my friends talked about masterbation at a sleepover and i had some questions that i was too embarssed to ask. so i was hoping you could answer them. is masterbation bad for girls? like if i finger myself can i do bodly harm? and where can i buy a dildo and what kinds are there? does masterbating stretch out your vagina?

in the past, ive answered a question kinda like this. and if you really wanna know - the best person to ask is your mom. but i know, sometimes its like awkward, they dont understand or you just dont know how to say it or something. masterbation is not bad for girls. its not bad for anyone - its just a way of showing/having pleasure. fingering yourself wont do you any harm to you if you do it. just make sure your nails are smooth [ so you dont cut yourself and risk the chance of infection ]and you washed your hands before. personally, i dont know where you can buy dildos - try maybe online or a near sexstore. so honestly, i have no idea what the different types are. so, i looked it up and found a site for you to visit - hopefully, it will answer all of your questions [ http://www.sexinfo101.com/ut_typesofdildos.shtml ] and for some like vocab questions and such go here [ http://www.iwannaknow.org/glossary/index.html ]

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Hi. You had just answered one of my questions about prom and i really liked your reponse. So I have came to you again. My boyfried and I have decided that we are gonna rent a hotel room for just the 2 of us. We've had sex so thats not a big issue for me. ITs the i dont know what to tell my mom part and what else to do. Like to him romantic is... let me bring u breakfast in bed. Very cute. But romantic to me is THE NOTEBOOK romantic. We live in well not the boondocks but around the St louis area in a small town where theres not much to do. Our prom is in STL so were just going to the arch and like doing a horse and carraige ride i guess and going to the hotel. I really dont want to tell him what to do but I want this night to be very romantic for us... What are your suggestions about doing it. And what should i tell my mom I really dont wanna be like... uh Im staying at a friends house because she has those #s for right now im saying were going to afterprom which in reality lasts till 5. Then were gonna "go to IHOP" and have breakfast which will get me to like 6 30 AM. But i do want longer to sleep in with my baby and then to really go out for breakfast together. What you think? Thanks itll help me alot.

thans for coming back to me :] first off - if you want to do something like super special with your boyfriend- then you should have half the say on what you guys wanna do. i think you should see what you think is the most romantic thing you wanna do and then casually bring the idea up. be like " hey, i was thinking about doing blahblah on prom fight or for prom" or somrthing liek that and just see what he thinks. most likely he will agree and say somelike like "okay cool". the notebook is super romantic - but keep in mind, breakfast in bed is romantic too :] and for the thing with your mom, although i do think that you should tell your mom the truth, i know thats not always possible and she wont always understand. you could just say that the afterprom lasted a little longer than you thought. or that you had some driving problems and you needed to pick up some friends. im sure you will think of something creative though =)

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hey... so ok i like this guy a lot and hes sooo hot! i hang out with him all of the time because hes kinda in my "circle of friends" i guess you could say. i tend to be more quiet around him and the other guys when we hang out and eat lunch and suff like that... so i dont think he notices me very much. i wanna be louder and flirt more with him so that he will notice me. any suggestions to how i do this? thanks!

hun, just be yourself. even if that means being a total dork - some guys love that. dont be embarressed if you trip or soemthing but laugh it off. also, maybe try flirting with the other guys [infront of him and not infront of him] for 2 reasons.. 1) make him jealous 2)get practice. so then when it really matters when your with him, you wont do like anything nerdy like snort or something [ im speaking of experience! ] but the best thing you can do is just be yourself. if he doesnt like you then, then he doesnt deserve you. i found a REALLY good website for you - so try going here and clicking on the first two clickys [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html ]. thats an AMAZING website for advice on flirting and date stuff as well. good luck hun =)

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i have a Yo momma compititon on Tuesday next week, i have to have at least 10 yo momma jokes made up by me this is all i have...
1 yo momma is so fat when she went to bed she smashed the pillow!
2 yo momma is so stupid when she tried to turn to the light off she turned it on!
3 Yo momma is so fat and hungrey when the ice cream man came she didnt eat the icecream she ate the truck.
4 yo momma is so fat her pants dont even fit!!
5 yo momma is so dirty the only time she is clean is when she is in the shower, and when she is in the shower she doesnt even smell good!
6 yo mommas teeth are so crooked she has to wear braces!
7 yo mommas hair is so curly she has to straighten it!!!
thats all i have i need 3 more, should i edit some of mine?? idk? thanks for the help

haha, those are pretty good. i dont really understand number 2, but besides that they are great! heres 10 ideas for you to use or work off of-
1. Yo mama so skinny she hula hoops with a cheerio
2. Yo mama so poor when I saw her kicking a can down the street, I asked her what she was doing, she said "Moving."
3. Yo mama so ugly just after she was born, her mother said "What a treasure!" and her father said "Yes, let's go bury it."
4. Yo mama so ugly she gets 364 extra days to dress up for Halloween.
5. Yo mama so fat when she wears a yellow raincoat, people yell "Taxi!"
6. Yo mama so fat when she steps on a scale, it read "one at a time, please"
7. Yo mama so fat even Bill Gates couldn't pay for her liposuction!
8. Yo mama so old that when she was in school there was no history class.
9. Yo mama so old she has a picture of Moses in her yearbook.
10. Yo mama so stupid when your dad said it was chilly outside, she ran outside with a spoon
i got these from here [ http://www.ahajokes.com/yo_mama_jokes.html ] go there for ideas =) and good luck in your contest!

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Hey guys. I'm trying to make my friend this mix full of like the classic old slow songs. Mostly about love or heaven and you know stuff like that. Do you guys have any good ones?

go here for 200 of the "best jams" (supposidly) from the 90s. not sure if its exactly what your looking for- but theres lotsa options :) [ http://www.digitaldreamdoor.com/pages/best_dance-90s.html ]

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im really smart, and so what is an above average or average iq for 14/f

take this test and see how smart you really are! [ web.tickle.com ] or [ http://www.funeducation.com/products/iqtest/ ]

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my legs are pretty muscular from track, except at the top on the insideits all...blah lol. its sooo annoying it like, doesnt go away. its the kind that you can only notice if you're wearing a bathing suit or underwear..you know, at the very top? well anyway, how do you get rid of it? i know eating right....just what are excercises ? hopefully that'll work by summer.
thank youuu xo

try going here [http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html], here [http://www.annecollins.com/Weight_Loss/slim_thighs_exercises.htm], or here [http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/tlegs/0,,1ww,00.html] those should give you lotsa ideas on ways you can tone down that stupid flab that we all have. good luckk =)

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my subject basically says it all.
Does anyone know what foods to eat when you're trying to eat healthy and need to eat stuff that increases your metabolism? I've heard grape fruit and green tea, but what more?

first off, breakfast helps. dont skip breakfast. have a big healthy breakfast. scramble an egg with toast or something. the best foods to increase your metabolism and help you lose weight are fish, dark green leafy vegetables, tomatoes, blueberries and other fruits, whole grains, and at least 8 glasses of water a day. increase dietary fiber as well and limit sugary foods, alcohol, caffeine and don't smoke. for more information on that kinda stuff go here [ http://consumeraffairs.com/nutrition/metab_speed.html ] its a really good website and actually i learned alot too, so thanks. =)

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ok well im preety good with working out and my weight has been the same for like 4 months but i eat just because i feel like it and i dont know what i can do to stop so i can loose weight if anyone has any ideas please help me. ill rate 5's

try eating more filling meals when you do eat. and when you feel like a snack try making it something little and healthy. some cut up fruits or veggies or cheese and crackers. something liek that., or just drink some water. water doesnt do anything bad to your body - so it doesnt hurt at all. all you do is pee it out anyway. :P and it keeps you hydrated when you work out. if you do have a snack try not having it like late at night, cuz you dont burn off any fat whe you sleep, and it all goes straight to your thighs.

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If I start eating less, but still eat breakfast/lunch/ and dinner..
And at the sametime I start working out like craaaaazzyyyy!! Will this make me stop growing?
Cause I'm already pretty short.

How can I excersize without disturbing my growth?

keep your diet healthy. for the foods you do eat during those meals, make sure their not fattyfoods. get the right fruits and veggies and drink milk for stronger bones. eating healthy will also help with your exercising. so to answer your question, no it wont make you stop growing.

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Okay so this is my first prom.. ima Sophomore and my boyfriend is a senior so hes taking me. I want this to be special for him since its his senior prom but he graduated early so he really doesnt hang out with anybody but me now from our highschool anyway this night is basically gonna be all about us and he always calls me his beautiful princess and personally i dont think im anything close to the looks that he deserves so I really just wanna look like the beautiful princess he deserves. I never really dress up that much for him nor make sure my hairs done perfect along with makeup. my dress is fusha/magenta pink and my accent color is gold. theres gold beading on the dress so i got gold wedges for shoes and a gold clutch/bag. I know for my hair i want it in a updo and romantic and elegant my hair is a dirty blonde and curly its pretty thick also and right at my colar bone. how do u think i should do it? ive looked at pretty much all the websites i could find searching google and i couldnt find one that i reallly like. and for my makeup i know i want a smokey eye but with purples. because my eyes are green purple makes them pop. but will that be too much class with my dress? let me know. i rate high for good helpful answers

thanks

i agree. deffinitally get it done by professionals. it also makes it kinda even more special. to get the "perfect" look - go here [http://beauty.ivillage.com/stc/hairstylist/hairstylist.html] and change it so its formal/briadal and upcurls. there like 6 really cute ideas. and then if you go to upsmooth those are adorable as well. then you can print it out and give it to the stylist. or it even gives you directions to do it yourself. and i dont think that will be too much. it will just draw more attention to your eyes - which is always good. have fun and enjoy yourself. sounds like youve got everything planed and your super excited.

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My boyfriend and I go to different schools. Before we started going out, we started talking about 2 months ago. Before either of us had feeling for each other, he told me he was going to prom with a girl from his school but they are 'just friends'. So last night, was his prom with that girl. I was wondering, was it wrong for him to take her when i'm his girlfriend? I know they are just friends but people have told me that he was being a jerk by taking her instead of me. So what do ya'll think?

sounds okay to me. he already had a date before me met you and he didnt want to cancel on her. i think it was really mature of him. i know you feel like kinda on the "back burner" because you two are dating but you have to respect the fact he already had the date. and they are just friends. the people saying he was a jerk prolly dont understand. he was prolly in a bad situation trying to deciede who to take for a while.. but he made a good choice and was a real gentleman.

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ok I wanna start tanning, so my question is, how do you do it? Like what do you wear? Underwear? Or do you go naked? And do you cover your eyes with something? And for how long do you need to do it? And how many times? Have you ever done it, if so, what were the results?

Just any details you could give me on tanning.
Thaank you. ♥

although tanning is bad for you, ive done it before. you just go to the tanning place and tell them you want a tan. most people for their first time start out with 6 or 8 minutes. then grow the more often they go. i think the maximum for most places is 20 minutes a day. personally, i like 10-15. you can wear anything you want. some people go naked. no clothes = no tan line. some others wear thongs or bikinis. when you get their they ask if you want goggles or like these sticker things. personally, i get the goggles. they reallyu work and do protect your eyes. and leave no marks whatsoever. and i know, you look like a total retard - but no one sees you besides them. you can do it as many times as you want. there no like limit. but im pretty sure you note allowed over 20 minutes a day. but you can go in the morning and do 8 then go later and do 12. or whatever. your gonna hear alot on how its bad for you and your skin [so i wont go there]- but just make sure you put sunscreen on. even if its like 8. its better than nothing. and then you dont get burned.

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ok so me (15 year old boy) and this girl (15 year old girl) have been going out for about 3 months. we went to the movies and we were making out and i felt her up. i was extermly aroused and i got a boner. me and her were kissing and talking dirty all the way home. when we got to the front door i hugged her and i still had a hard on. it rubbed up against her and she said "do you have a boner?" and i said "yea" and then she said "you prevert" and then she slapped me and slammed the door in my face. do you think this was right for her to do? what would you have done?

the question isnt what would i have done, because that shouldnt matetr. but i dont know about her. she has a right to be a little like creeped out. but i dont think it was a good move for her to break up with you. being mad? sure i guess. break up? no - too extreme. obviously you are majorly attracted to her. so just apologize and explain what happened. maybe she will take you back. honestly, what did she expect with the way you guys were acting.

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