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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help
Well, think about what youR fRiends would do. Would they just go with the flow oR consideR youR feelings? If they just went with it.. how would YOU feel about it? I suggest you talk to them. Ask 'em how they would feel if the two of you got togetheR. Don't beat aRound the bush.. just come stRaight out and ask to avoid the confusion. I wish you the best! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..
Well, it obviously means he has noticed you befoRe, and that's a definite plus. Next time you see him in the hallway, say hello as you pass by. If you eveR see him alone befoRe school, afteR school, oR duRing lunch, make absolutely shoRe to go up to him. Just stRike up a conveRsation; it's not haRd. StaRt with, "Hey! How's it goin'??" Tell him you see him all the time and it's about time you say hello. It Really won't be as awkwaRd as it may sound, oR as you may THINK it will be. You'll talk and blah blah. Ask about his day.. his classes... whateveR. Make shoRe you tell him it's good to talk to him, and get his scReen name. Talk to him online foR a day oR two, then ask fo his numbeR.. get to know him... and take it fRom theRe!! Best of luck!! hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ hey, you had answered a question for me about using lemon juice to make freckles lighter .. i was wondering how long it takes for the freckle to get lighter if I apply lemon juice every day. Thanks
Well I'm not exactly shoRe how long it will be til they go away. I can just tell you to Repeat the pRocess til they disappeaR. AnotheR way to go about it : coveR youR face with almond paste, and then pat lemon juice into the skin, which will Remove some of the fReckles. It's impoRtant to stay out of the sun and hot winds when face, hands and aRms aRe wet! I'm pRettie shoRe you could use lemon juice fRom the stoRe, but I Reccommend doing it stRaight fRom the lemon itself. The citRic acid in lemons pRovides a safe, but poweRful, astRingent, dRying out excess skin oils. Short teRm exposuRe to the sun has a bleaching effect. Long teRm exposure to the sun just cReates moRe fReckles. Best of luck!! Hope I helped!! Feel fRee to come back again if you have any fuRtheR questions!

♥[?]♥ ok well me and this guy r goin out and he jst acts lyk friends he dont act lyk were a couple.... wut can i do 2 get him 2 act lyk were a couple? and should i be worried? weven been 2gether for a few days
Well, I don't think you should be woRRied about it... unless he has eveRy giRl and theiR motheR's bRotheR calling, and he's always hangs out with giRls at school [which you didn't mention]. And what do you mean "he dont act lyk were a couple...." as faR at what? He won't admit it to people? See, this is sometimes undeRstandable, but I would be EXTREMELY PISSED about it. If THIS is one of the pRoblems, just confRont him on it, and ask why he won't speak the tRuth. Find out what he's so afRaid of? And if by "he dont act lyk were a couple...." you mean he won't hold youR hand oR kiss you? PeRhaps he's shy?? Do YOU kiss him? If not, you should. Just go in foR the kill! Just make shoRe you do eveRything you possibly can befoRe making a dRastic decision and end it. The best thing you can do is be open and honest to him. Goodluck; I wish you the best!! Thanks foR the question; feel fRee to stop by again! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ [i asked about the plucking thing] alright well i was wondering if shaving would give me a shadow like it does for guys
Believe it oR not.. it doesn't, so bust out with the shaving cReam! =D

♥[?]♥ okay i'm 14/f and i have a mustache.. you can barely see it but if you look up close then it's like uhmm yeah- and welli was wondering what i could do to remove it? ive tried plucking but it hurt too much, but if you can't think of anything else then i'll just pluck
Ouch, noo... don't pluck above youR lip!! That's definitely not a good idea! Just shave... shave eveRy 8 days oR so!! It's no biggie - easily taken caRe of!! Thanks foR the question!! Come back to me if you eveR need anything else!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Hello, over the summer a few of my freckles got REALLY dark on my face, and I don't like the way it looks. I heard that lemon juice works... is it true? How much would I put on? And how often?
Yep! Lemon juice!! My two best fRiends aRe have daRk Red haiR, and they aRe LOADED with fReckles!! I'm not shoRe if it GETS RID OF THEM... but I've heaRd that it DOES lighten them. They just cut a lemon in half.. and Rub it on theiR face!! Make shoRe to save the otheR have foR anotheR "tReatment". I'd say do it eveRy two days?? Do it like five minutes each application! Goodluck; hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup?
Well, I don't have fReckles peRsonally, but my two best fRiends have daRk Red haiR and aRe loaded with fReckles!! They BOTH use lemon! They just cut it in half and Rub it on the aRea. I'm not shoRe it GETS RID OF THEM... but it DOES lighten them! It's woRth a shot!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ are they worth the pain and money for the sake of nice straight teeth?
Definitely!! =D

♥[?]♥ alright i have this humongous mosquito bite on my arm and school starts in a week, i really wanna get rid of it because ahh it's such a big bump in my arm -thnxx
The only thing I can suggest to you is Benadryl. SoRRie I can't be of moRe help, but I hope eveRything woRks out. And hey.. one mosquito bite isn't THAT big od a deal. If this helps you feel betteR... about a yeaR ago I had 87 bites [NO LIE!] All at once. I'm not positive if they weRe mosquito bites... they ALL biggeR than a silveR dollaR... they weRe puRple with a white Ring inside them. GRoss, huh? Haha, soRRie.. just telling you this so you know that no matteR how bad it is... it can always get woRse... Hope I helped.

♥[?]♥ Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around?
Dude.. you didn't do anything wRong at all!! I hope to DeaR God youR fRiend would undeRstand the situation, but peRhaps she doesn't. If she IS mad about this, I would just give heR sometime. She'll come aRound eventually. They ALWAYS come cRawling back!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ AHH my dad treats me like I'm 5!! I mean I can't do alot of things by my self..I can't wear tank-tops in front of him...He thinks I can't take care of the dog because I'm too young? HELLLO I'm 13!! I'm a freshmen..at this age it's really hard to keep high grades..yet I still have to keep my grades above 95? Plus I'm alot more mature then a 13 year old..because like ALL my friends are 14-15..and he expects me to do alllll this work and stuff..and when I get hurt he thinks it doesn't hurt at all..but he still treats me like Im SO little!!! I swear he talks to me like Im 5...gR I've tried talking to him...but it doesn't work? What should I do?
Flash 'em, then be like, "THIS is NOT the chest of a FIVE YEAR OLD!!!" I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ okay well my ex boy friend when i was on vacatio i found out that he hooked up with this gurl from a friend but he still liked me but he also liked this other gurl so i broke up with him!!!
see i still like him but i dont know if i should just be his friend now or just forget about and i think i still like him what should i do?????
FoRget about him!! Obviously he's NOT loyal, and NEVER will be!! And what would the point be?? Why would you even WANT to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?? No matteR what he says.. he DOESN'T want to be with you. If he did, he wouldn't have Run off to that ho the fiRst chance he got!! When you'Re in a Relationship, youR paRtneR should just come along and sweep you off youR feet. He SHOULDN'T like anyone else, because no one else should come close to even COMPARING!!! I'm not saying theRe's something wRong with you, peRhaps he just doesn't appReciate how lucky he is to have you. Move on, he's a waste! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Hello! I was wondering if any of you know any good home remedies to get rid of pimples, besides toothpaste. Thanks!
Well, I've neveR heaRd the Rubbing alcohol one, but I *HAVE* heaRd the lemon juice one. HoweveR, this is something I have just *HEARD*, and neveR tRied!! I've also heaRd lemon juice helps with fReckles!! And people say the toothpaste woRks, but it neveR woRked foR me!! SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help?? I wish you the best of luck!! =D

♥[?]♥ i Met this guy at a festival about 3 weeks ago called Shane.We got each others numbers and talked like alot but then last monday he said that we should wait a while till he calls agian cuz theres not really that much to talk about hes said ill call you in a few days and ill make shure sumpthing happens and if nuthing happens then ill make suttin up but ill ttyl.Its been 7 days since he last called do you think hell ever call agian???i know this is a really stupid post but im worried i really liked him
Uhm, well I think that seems kind of Ridiculous, but if I weRe to take a stab at it.. I say yeah.. he will call again. I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ whenever i walk my left ankle always seems to click! its really loud and people say i should get it checked out, but the thing is it doesnt hurt at all!! what do you think i should do?
Well, that would scaRe the cRap out of me! I'd get it checked out. I'm shoRe it's nothing, but who knows if oveR time it will Result with some foRm of damage!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Can you still get breasts after you've had your period like 9 times?
Uhm, of couRse you can!! You'll continue to develop until age 18-20. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ how can you tell if you have a yeast infection and what do you do to treat it with out going to the doctors.. like what are the symptomns.. ill rate!!
Uhm.. symptons of a yeast infection include vaginal itching, vaginal buRning, vaginal iRRitation, painful uRination, painful sexual inteRcouRse, odoRless vaginal dischaRge [may be thick whitish-gRay and cottage-cheese-like, oR may be wateRy in consistency]. I wish you the best; hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx
PRobably not. They most likely WILL be expecting foR it, and they will definitely tRy to get it. If you know you don't want to paRticipate in these kinds of encounteRs, I suggest using some good judgement and don't botheR to even place youRself in such a situation. Goodluck deciding. Hope I helped! =D

♥[?]♥ has anyone heard that lemon juice will help ance? has anyone ever tryed it? does it work
Well, I've neveR tRied it peRsonally, but I've always heaRd that it DOES help; I've also heaRd the same foR lightening fReckles. Again.. this is only something I've heaRd, but woRth a shot I suppose! SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!!


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