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Question Posted Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:23 am

Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:58 am:
Well, think about what youR fRiends would do. Would they just go with the flow oR consideR youR feelings? If they just went with it.. how would YOU feel about it? I suggest you talk to them. Ask 'em how they would feel if the two of you got togetheR. Don't beat aRound the bush.. just come stRaight out and ask to avoid the confusion. I wish you the best! Hope I helped!!

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silent_x_cry answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:00 pm:
Talk to your friends about it and see what they say. Tell them you really like him and that he likes you, and ask if they'd be upset if you went out with him. If ANY of them seems uncomfortable, don't do it. That's the Cardinal rule! x)

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ljk88 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 4:39 pm:
haha been there done that. talk to your friends (i forgot that part!) becuase they will always be with you... friends are there even after a breakup. i personly would say not to go out with him but i can't say i've done that. I was a bad girl!

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LostAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 3:05 pm:
Well it was his choice ,and no one elses..I dont see why your too friends should even be mad or hurt or w.e..It may show that they might need to act my like your something..-hope I helped

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paradiei3abii3x answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 2:26 pm:
Try talking to your friend about it. If she seems hurt, I wouldn't go out with him, but if she is totally fine with it, go for it! Good luck. Tell me what happens!


<3 Katie

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orphans answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:11 pm:
i no how that is. me and my 2 friends like this one guy but he likes one of my friends. even though i really like this guy and i feel bad that he likes my friend it's not fair 4 me to tell my friend not to go out wit him. i would say go out wit him but maybe u should ask them first cuz u have to be respectful of their feelings!! if they give u the ok then i wouldn't like kiss him or anything in front of them cuz they might get mad at u for it cuz they might think ur showing off. hope i helped and hope everything works out.

~Reenie~

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Karen answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 11:49 am:
You should talk to your friend about this to see if it's alright to go out with him. Also, it's not his fault that he likes you instead of your friends. Hope I helped and good luck :)

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HollisterBabe13 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 11:26 am:
Talk to ur friend about it.Say that u wont go with him unless you get the okay from her.That was she wont get mad.GoodLuck Babe!Much <33

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x1xRock_Faeriex3x answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:45 am:
Talk to your friend and see if it's O.K. with her if you go out with the guy, trust me, you do not want to lose a friend over a guy

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xoMarisox answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:05 am:
First, ask your friend how she feels. If she says I'm ok with it, go out with him. If she feels a lil uncomfortable, don't. The only thing is, you also like him too, I don't think you should just make the world revolve around your friend. I mean what would she say in this situation? Also, I TRUE friend would say yes to you for going out with him. Overall, I think you should ask your friend and go with it. Make sure your friend knows how you feel! Hope I helped! Good luck! Rate me please!

xoxo, Maris

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brittishbaby answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:53 am:
ask them if it would be wrong to go out w/ him and if they said no then go otu w/ him if they say no and they are truely your friend then stay w/ ur friend and just be friends w/ ur crush. hope i helped!

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cutie_babee answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:42 am:
well if he likes you back go for it...she can't be made at you you both loved him it's that he likes you to bad...she never had him she can't get mad at you for dating him simple as that...and if it does screw up your friends ship well u'll have to um talk to her and explain it to her and if she hates so badly the fact of you 2 together dump him so you wont break the friendship but ask her if it'll bother her ok....well hope I helped

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fallenforyoohxo answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:39 am:
explain to your friend that you have strong feelings towards him and that he is returning the feelings and tell her that you gusy want to get together if she is a true friend she will understand! :)

xoxoxo steffy plz rate

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italianbabe0692 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:28 am:
you should talk to your other friend who likes him...ask her if she would truly mind if you went out with him because if she does she should speak now until its too late tell her that you wouldnt feel comfterable if she wasnt ok with it and make sure shes totaly honest dont make her feel like she has to lie and say she is just to make u happy

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UnluckyWishes answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:20 am:
I would ask your friends how they feel about it.If they say its ok and your sure they really are.Ask him out.your friends will pry be happy that one of you three got him.hope everything works out.

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