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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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0hKay ;; So.
My Name Is Rachel && I Am Ultraaa Cool !
I'm Like ,,, WAY Popular.
Like ,,, Seriously . OhKay ;;
But See ;; I've Got This Friend ,,,
That Is Also Pretty Popular ...
But She's Not As Popular As Me !!!
But Anyway;; She Told My Crush That I Liked Him;;
Although I Told Her Not To !!!
She Said That She Thought He Liked Me Too ...
She Said That He Asked Her If I Liked Him ...
AND SHE SAID YES !!!
I Hate Her !!! ;;;
I Told Her That I Hated Her ,,,
Infront Of Everyone !!!
[[[Yes I Am Cool Like That]]]
And She Teared Up And Didn't Say Anything ,,,
Then Everyone Like ;;;
GLARED At MEEEE !!!
When I Was The One That Was Betrayed !!!
I Heard That He Was Going To Ask Me Out (YAY)
When He Found Out That I Liked Him!!!
=]]]]]]
But , What Should I Do To Her?
Because ;;; What She Did Is Not Right ;;;
I Want To Get Her Back!
UGH!

THANKS !!! :]
;;;;
LOVE, LEENA !!!

You seem like the immaturest little bitch. Grow up, and apologize to your friend. She did you a favor & you tore her apart shred by shred in front of everyone.

I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do?

Either tell him you wanna be felt up, or put his hands on your chest. Either way, he'll get the picture.

On the show "The Next Pussycat Doll" where is Asia from? Where is her accent from? I can't recognize that accent from anywhere.

I know she's from New York, so she might have a new york accent, but for her ethnicity or whatever, I'm not sure.

You'd need to Google it.

is it illegal in the state of massachusetts for an 18 year old girl who is dating a 16 year old boy to have sex? like wut is the age of consent type of thing?

It'd be legal.

He's been like a brother to me for about 2 years now. I've liked him as long as i have known him. I would have already said something but he has already told some of my friends who tried with him that he thought of them as sisters and nothing else. But now I have people coming to me telling me that he does like me. But I don't know if I want to take the chance of being rejected like some of my friends were. What do you think I should do?

Tell him how you feel. Rejection sucks, but you'll never know what's gonna happen until you say something.

Okay theres this kid.I really like...we dated last year and i like him again...the only problem is i think he doesnt like me even though some of the signs point to it....plz dont tell me to tell himhow i feel...What do i Do?

My theory: When you date someone, and it doesn't work out, don't date again. If it didn't work out before, it won't work out now, so it's best to just give up, & find someone else.

Does it show that you're "idle" if you use AIM express? If so, is there a way to turn off being idle?

Thanks.

Yeah, it'll show up. Just move your mouse or start talking to someone so people will know that you're there. Same way you would if you were away.

Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'(

If you tell him now, his girlfriend will be on you like a hawk, and she'll hate you. Not only that, but she'll give you drama, & things to worry about. Wait until they're not together anymore to tell him.

And you can't make him leave her. I mean, you could always tell him what a slut she is, but that wouldn't work without proof. Just wait for them to break up because if you break them up yourself, you're gonna ruin your reputation & no one's gonna like you.

I'm a 17 year old guy. I have been dating this girl for a long fun while now, and we have an awesome relationship. We talk and joke around like best friends and get jiggy with it as lovers do. The only thing is that a road block just recently popped up. Throughout the relationship she had been telling me that she was a virgin and never saw a penis before and all that stuff. Then we were wasted one night and she decided to give me this big confession that infact she wasn't a virgin. She had touched, licked, and sure enough had sex with an ex that before this point she always spoke lowly of him. A lot of the time she would even bring him up in common conversation. So, now she tells me this and first I feel betrayed because I have been lied to for so long. Second, I feel confused because you think she wouldn't talk so bad about this guy if he took her virginity. Third and lastly, I feel scared because thinking that she was a virgin, we fooled around a little without a condom. That brings up worries of STD's and so forth. What should I think or say or do? Am I mad at her? When she says she regets it do I believe her? Does she still of feelings for this guy (who, if I might say myself is 100% full of nasty)? Should I trust that she isn't keeping anymore lies from me?

I could get banned for this, but I'm taking my chances -- If you feel she's lying to you, get her wasted. Alcohol works like a truth serum. But then again, I'm not to promote underage drinking. So, just talk to her about it when you feel she's lying to you about something.

Second, you have the right to feel this way. Not only did she lie to you, & come clean when she was wasted, but she had you believing something for the longest time. I understand the confusion about her degrading her ex by her words, but it's bound to happen. The guy who took my virginity was a jealous asshole. He's a nice guy, but he's too jealous for me.

If you're worried about STD's & possibly AIDS, you need to get tested right away, and always wear a condom. I can't tell you if you're mad at her because only you would know that. I don't know if she still has feelings for him, but you need to ask her that. But definitely don't trust her. She lied to you, & trust is a fragile thing. She just broke it.

I have my school's spring dance 2 weeks from now. How do I get guys to come up and grind? What should I wear (casual) to attract the eye? Skirts or jeans? Low-cut or reg? Thx!

Wear a tanktop & some jeans.

wht r some good indie rock bands?

What is Google? And, what exactly is MySpace Music?

Hmmm...

what are some indie bands that are kinda like unknown?
or some that aren't super popular?
that sound like
- death cab for cutie
- plain white t's
- mayday parade
like myspace bands that only have like 70,000 plays compared to other bands at 13 million?

thnks

Search the Indie section on MySpace.

is it normal for you to have a goey like discharge stuff and for it to have an odor??

Yeah.

14f this is so gross but im a virgin and my v seems to produce alot of cum and i cant seem to find anything to make it stop i shower daily (always have) but still no luck does anyone know what to try?

It's not cum honey, it's discharge. Every girl gets it, there is no stopping it. You need it. Just wear a pantiliner & change it when you need to so you don't feel like you're ruining your panties. Also, it's a sign your period is coming, so if you haven't gotten it yet, then it's coming soon. And if you do have it, it means the same thing. That your period is gonna come soon.

Okay well my best friend and i have been best friends FOREVERRRR and she just recently got a boyfriend... and i like him. i told her that i liked him.. and shes fine with it. and she knows that i will NEVER do anything to break them up. But i dont know what i do.. do i wait??? should i tell him?? or what.. please HELP!

Wait, your friend KNEW you liked him, and she still went out with him? If my friend & I liked the same guy, I'd have the both of us give up to prevent jealousy & anger.

Talk to her about it, she's obviously not clear on that.

can someone explain to me like, the difference between the imperfect and the preterite tense? and give examples of ar, er and ir verbs. i'm just really confused & google isn't helping. i can't ask my teacher anyway + she's totally weird and would probably confuse me even more. thanks :)

I haven't taken Spanish in about a year and a half, so I don't remember examples of a preterite tense or an imperfect tense. But I know the verbs

AR
cantar -- to sing.
bailar -- to dance.
tocar -- to play [an instrument, not a game. a game would be jugar, i believe]
hablar -- to talk.

IR
escribir -- to write.
vivir -- to live.
vendir -- to sell.

I don't remember any ER verbs. =( Sorry.

hi. i can't make default layouts or skinny layouts for myspace. ive tried to look at codes of layouts to see if theres any special HTML to either of them but i can't find it. regular layouts are easy, because all you need is a generator, but i could never find out how to make any other. can anyone tell me if theres a code, or if thers a specific site that helps make skinny/default layouts? thanks.

Just search google for the generators.

ok so theres this popular girl in my school.. lets call her kelly. i dont know kelly, but i played a prank on some kid my friend liked because i was bored, and the kid didnt know my aim s/n either. well he asked me who i was and i didnt tell him cause i didnt wanna be discovered that way.. its like, so much for first impressions. since the dare was to tell him that like my mom shaves my armpits or something, when its not true. anyways that kid told his friend who is kelly and then she kept asking me and then for a couple months it didnt happen anymore, then like today she IMed me again and she forgot about the incident, so she was just wondering who i was since she added me to her buddylist, and i was online. i told her my name, and its kind of like an unique name so she asked if i was telling the truth.. i dunno if she thought i was some like random pedo, haha. so i told her that my oher friend (lets call her susan) susan told me that she knew kelly, and she went to our school, which is why i told her my name. and then kelly was asking for susan's screenname and susan said she didnt want kelly to have it.. i guess they arent really friends. then sometimes i left gaps inbetween and kelly is like "sorry for being nice about it, you didnt have to be so bitchy" just because i didnt answer in a little while, when i was thinking on whether to tell her my name. anyway, after i said that susan didnt want me to tell her her screenname, shes like "what did i do to her"? and im like "idk" and then shes like "okay, bye. peace out" then im like "kay" and shes like "PEACE" and that was all that happened. my other friend said that her friend said that kelly was kinda bitchy.. and none of my friends really seem to be friends with her, but i checked on her aim profile and she seems to have lots of friends. i dont like sucking up to people or anything, but like im wondering.. like should i try and be her friend even though i didnt really want to before, and my friend's have negative comments about her? a part of her doesnt seem that bad.. but i dunno. also, if i should talk to her again, what should i say?" "hey whats up?" that would be if i were her friends. like what could i say that would be more friendly but not like sucking-up-ish, and what could i say if shes like "why are you still IMing me" or something? i dont know.. think of all the possibilities. sorry that this is kinda long too, thank you!

13/f

She sounds like a bitch & someone you don't wanna consume your time with. Stay away from her & let her be rude to her friends. =)

ok well i like my best friend. and we are cool and all i mean we have all these inside jokes and he is really sweet and all. just a little background. i used to like him. he didnt like me back/ didnt want a gf. so i kinda got over him and let him know i didnt like him anymore. after that i guess i just started liking him again. then after that i guess we got even closer as friends.
well i do like him and all but find it very difficult to believe that he likes me back. the reason is that i find it hard to trust his clues. he can be very misleading like he led me on once already and i dont want that again. also lately he has been starting to annoy me. like whenver i hang out with him he will say stupid things and i just roll my eyes and laugh. and he sometimes just clings onto me too much. i am suppposed to like that. but for some reason he sometimes comes off as annoying and clingy. how can i change that? i asked my brother. he said its obvious this guy likes you back thats why hes behaving so weird lately. but how can i trust that he really does like me??
i really do like him a lot. its so cute the way his face lights up when he sees me. he yells my name and puts his arms out to hug me. then he puts his arm around me. he always wants to be near me. but this all may be my inagination. trust me i dont want to get hurt. not again. i cant deal with it anymore. i dont want an awkward relatiopnship/friendship with him. i want wats best for both of us.

thank you so much. i really need help on this one!
SAM

If your friend is starting to annoy you, don't tell him. Talk to him & ask if you guys can take a break from hanging out all the time. Still talk, but hang out with other people, stuff like that. If he's your friend, he'll understand & go along with it. Besides, you need some time for your girls just like he needs time for his guys.

Well i didn't really brush my teeth when i was younger and now my teeth are hurting very bad.. I didn't lose any teeth. Is it possible to lose all my teeth at this age? I am going to start brushin my teeth 4 times a day now for 2 minutes? will i still lose my teeth at a young age??

Yeah. When you don't brush your teeth, your teeth become fragile, and soft. You might bleed when you brush them, & it'll hurt you. I asked my dentist because I was wondering why some other kids lose their teeth early, and she said if they never brush their teeth, they can end up losing most if not all of their teeth at a young age, like 18-21 or so.

See your dentist & see what you can do to fix them. Start brushing, flossing, and & using mouthwash if you haven't done so already. Don't be scared if they bleed though because your teeth aren't used to it, so something like that is normal. Just see your dentist & they'll get you back on track.

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