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can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!!

Well, most definitely if you have an allergic reaction, but I believe it's really a myth or mind over matter. Chocolate is actually good for your heart, so enjoy ♥

Makeup however- don't put too much, it could aggervate your pores!

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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me

Life is overwhelming, alot. But just calm down, relax, and sit down and just think. ♥

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im 14 and my sister is 17. she has a boyfriend that shes really close with and a just got a car. shes supposed to come every other weekend but since she got her car she never comes. shes always at her boyfriends and if she does come she just leaves anyways. i really love spending time with her and i miss her a lot cause i never see her anymore. i know that shes older and doesnt want to spend time with her family, but i still do. what should i do? i dont know if i could really talk to her.

I'd tell her how much I miss her ♥

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today i was at my boyfriends house. ive known him for 2 years but weve only been going out for a month. we were at his house home alone today and he kept asking what did i want to do. then he started being like oh well your boring you dont want to do anything. (he ment like i didnt want to do IT) and i jsut said...weve only been together for a month! and then he was like...well thats not what you said to that guy that you had sex with!!! (im not a virgin and it was the biggest mistake of my life) and then i just got up and walked away. and he came after me and he was like babe im really sorry and he just kept hugging me and saying he didnt mean to say that and how sorry he is. it just really hurt my feelings. and i know hes not just using me for sex. hes an awesome bf. we hangout all the time and i tell him almost everything. our parents even like eachother. i duno he just really made me mad today. what do i do? do i just let it go? or next time he asks me to come over do i say something and bring up how rude it was of him to say that? i duno im confused..

ps..that wasnt the first time i been to his house..we hangout all the time..

I'd tell him how hurt you feel, that really wasn't nice at all on what he said, but he might have been mad, so try talking to him. ♥

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Oh god, help! My friend Michelle is getting raped as we speak. I already called the cops. The worst to know if that the person raping her is Danny and she's lettting herself! Rada and I heard it while we were talking to her on the cell phone. Oh god, Rada is bleeding and I'm afraid that he might commit suicide because he told me never to forget this day. I was like ok. I'm crying right now and my arm is bleeding loads and so is Rada's. Oh god, help...please...what can I do to make her stop everything?!

I'm sorry but get off the frickin computer and run out of the house and go to a neighbor and wait for the cops...

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i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version)

No being tall is an advantage because most models are tall =] but that doesn't make being short a disadvantage! Appreciate your height no matter what! ♥

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I'm starting a my space..does anyone know how to update journal entries and change the font and backround of the page? thanks..

I think its called Thomas's Myspace/Vspace Editor? I'm not positive.

♥ Hope I've Helped!

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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

They go away on their own! Most of the time you can't notice them anyway.

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Does anyone know if it's possible it increase the size of your breasts without gaining weight? I know that if you gain weight your breasts will grow larger (considering it's all fat tissue anyway). But I'd like to increase the size of my breasts without gaining weight. Is this possible? Thanks, I rate.

I don't get your point? I've had big boobs since I was 12, and when I was 12 I was skinny. I'm not fat now, but I'm not as skinny. I think its just your body composition.

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k, i recently had sex with my ex bf.. and it was for 2 mins and nothing happened. i haven't gotten my period yet - it was suppsoed to come on tuesday, but i haven't gotten it yet. although, i have been very stressed lately (breakup with my boyfriend, dad lost a job, friend almost commited suicide, etc) and i am also very underweight for being my height. could those be reasons for missing my period or could i be pg? please write back!

i'd definitely take a preg. test

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Hey does anyone no if it is normal to not loosse all your baby teeth.. im in 7th grade and i still have liek 5 more teeth to loose. All my friends have lost all of their theeth, so i dont no if its normal or not!

It's normal! Don't worry! Everyone looses them at their own pace.

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O.K please help and fast... my mom has the flu and shes throwing up and stuff... what do i do? is there anything i can give her that will help her feel better?!? (not medicane) please help!
*i rate*

Just talk to her, tell her if theres anything she needs you will do it =] Hope she feels better ♥

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(16/f) I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really do love him. Its just that he doesnt trust me at all. Just because of things people tell him. People dont like the fact that we're going out because we're in an inter-racial relationship. So they make things up to try to get us to break up. I know that they're lying but he doesnt. He just doesnt trust me and I'm constantly telling him not to believe them and " No I didnt flirt with so-and-so today." Im so sick of trying to get him to believe me. He also makes me feel guilty for things I did before we started going out. Im tired of it and I try telling him this but he just doesnt stop. It's getting to the point where we're fighting most of the time instead of getting along. I love him so much and I dont want to have to break up but I want to be happy instead of being sad all the time now. I just dont know if its at the point where I should end it or not. Please help me out I dont know what to do... thanks in advance.

Don't let him ever control you or make you seem like your a sneak. If he loves you he will respect you.

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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15!

I'd be kinda insulted. He might be saying that so you do stuff to make him "stay" yanoo. Just wait it out, he might just be saying it. ♥

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i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off.

Brown, like not to dark or white. Be creative.

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im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!

Alloy

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OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them?

If it says GUCHI , its fake dear :-/ I don't believe that is real if you can't spell Gucci. Anyway, I'd just wear it.

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I havent worn makeup much but now that i am getting older i try to wear it. my everytime i wear some, someone says "your wearing makeup!!" and they sound so shocked, it makes me embaraced so i was wondering if i should just start this summer and when i get back to school it will be different.

Ugh.. tell them to grow up. I'd say "Maybe you should start to" or "I'm a teenager" LOL!

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how can a thirteen year old (me) about 5 feet get a modeling job in something like abercrombie in the tampa area? (locally).thanks!

Try asking salespeople there. Alloy and Delia*s has applications I believe.

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I have plenty of clothes but I never can find something to wear. I'm overweight and its hard to look decent without looking weird. It takes me sometimes 2 hours to find something! Does anyone have any ideas?

I don't know what you consider overweight, but I think theres a place called Torrid.com.. or w/e lol, I'd recommend excersising, you will feel SO much better about yourself!

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