When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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Does anyone know of any good online game sites for when you're bored??? *other than miniclip*
thanks! (link)
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There is a site www.iwin.com, it has cool games,especially one called family feud.
so have fun.
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I'm 15 and in need of a job. The store I want to work at only hires people 16 and older. Should I add a year to my age? what's the worst thing that can happen & could they easily find out? I'm just wondering... thanks! (link)
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hey,
Sometimes, lying about your age gets you into alot of trouble. So i don't think that you should lie about your age. Besies,there are alot of other places that need you to work for them, it doesn't have to be this shop. You can look for any other. And there are alot of people at your age who work at restraunts and cafes as waiters, or you could work in a clothes shop, or animal shelters or you could make your own bake sales. I am just trying to give you ideas for jobs of your age. You can consider what i said about the different jobs, but one way or another, i am against the idea that you lie about your age.
So take care and if you need any other help, then please be free to contact me.
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i woke up this morning and my wrists hurt and i dont know why. they arent cut or anything they just really hurt .. and its like near the vains. its not like i pulled it or anything. and i dont cut or do lacross or anything to make it hurt. its just realyl random and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was. (link)
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Hey,
Thats sounds alittle unique, its actually the first time i hear about pain in the wrists without cutting or anything. Thats why, i suggest that you consult a doctor and take his opinion,because it could be serious.
And if you need any other help,then please be free to contact me.Goodluck:)
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okay i don't know what is happening. for the past week or 2 weeks i have been tired all the time. i can never feel awake for some reason and im always yawning. i sleep for about 10-11 hours each night and it doesnt help at all so maybe i'm oversleeping or something im not sure. i dont even usually do much during the day. any ideas for why im so tired all the time? (link)
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hey,
I know exactly what you are going through, because i go through it every single day. Now i am very weak and i always need a boost of energy,thats why i sleep day and night.
I practically sleep 16 hours a day,and if i don't, then i always have bags under my eyes,and they feel really heavy. I am just always tired.
Thats why i will tell you what i do, and it really does help sometimes, you can take vitamins and drink juices with lots of sugar, and eat toffees or bonbons to keep you energetic.
And drink lots of water. And exercising also helps alot to keep up one's energy. yOu should go for long walks and you could also run everyday.It all makes you feel fresh and energetic.
Other than that, to be on the safe side, you have to see a doctor and consult him on your condition and take his opinion.
And if you need any other help,or advice. Then please be free to contact me.
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Well, whatever kind of Shampoo and Conditioner I try always makes my hair dry, frizzy and not so soft. I need help to find a perfect shampoo and conditioner that will help all those problems above. But there is on thing...I don't want it to be exspensive! Some plz give me advice, I need major help with my hair! Thanks alot.
-Anonymous- (link)
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Hey,
I have a really good suggestion, that if you try to consider it, it may help.
You can just wash your hair with any shampoo you want,and than when you come out of the shower,use that new hair cream called sunsilk, it is great and has an amazing effect. There are also different kinds of it.There is for curly hair, straight hair,to protect from sun, to stop frizzy hair, and alot of more kinds. So you can get what you want and use it after the shower, it will be great.
And if you need any other help, please be free to contact me.
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OKay. so im 5'3 and im about 115 pounds. is this a good weight to be for my height? i know i have lots of muscle and stuff but i still feel like im always bigger than my friends. or i feel im fat becuz i have all that lower tummy fat and it makes me look bigger from the front. i am not sure what to do. and i eat healthy and everything and im very athletic. but the fat never comes off! im so self conscious! please help!! :/ thanks a bunch! (link)
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Hey,
I read your problem, and i am very happy to find that there is at least one person that posts a question on this website and is self confident about himself,though whatever problem he has. So keep it that way, and always be confident about your self and appearance, because people who judge you and become freinds with you according to your appearance are low, but people who judge you according to your personality and characters which i am sure are great, then these are the true friends who you should be with.
Second of all, ofcourse your are not fat at all,and this weight is exactly suitable with your height, you do not need to lose weight at all. Just keep on running and exercising and you won't gain any more , because this is just suitable ,fit and right.
Finally, if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me. Goodluck:)
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okay..so im not really good with running long distances without losing my breath..and i know may is far away..but we have a big race at school and i really want to be top 6 for my grade..and i know that if i run and run ill get better and better..but ive been so busy and i can never motivate myself to run!! i have no idea what to do..what are some good ways to make me not run out of breath!! thanks so muchh! :] (link)
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hey,
I have read your problem, and i have been in the same situation before. So i know what you are talking about. Its really hard to start running fast from the beginning. Like for example, when you come to run the track, you start by walking fast , then jogging, and then running slowly, and then like the wind.you just have to keep a rhythm and dont run too fast until you get used to it. Thats when you are practising before the race,but by the time the race comes. you will be able to run like the wind from beginning to end. Trust me. But you have to practise everyday early in the morning.
So goodluck:) and if you need any other help or advice, then please be free to contact me.
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Im getting Dizzy all the time and I dont know why Im not pregnant cause Ive not had sex but I am bout to die cause Im getting dizzy so much (link)
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Hey,
I have read your problem and that sounds really bad. So i have a couple of suggestions, but first of all, i just want to asure you that you will not die, so do not ever put that possibility or chance in your mind. You still have a long life ahead of you.
Now, i think that you should consult a doctor about your dizziness, and if he gives you any medications,then go on them and follow up with him. But don't take any medicines else than what he writes to you in the prescription. And you have to go to the doctor, don't just ignore the idea. Because it could be something serious that you have to know about. But don't just sit there with a horrible dizziness and say that you are going to die.
You should also make sure that you eat well and alot. and consult the doctor to make you a healthy food plan consisting of the four food groups.And drink fresh juices with lots of sugar to prevent dizziness, and eat honey and take vitamins.
So please try to consider all i said, because it could really help you. goodluck:). And if you need any other help or advice, then please be free to contact me.
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Sorry if im being like super-annoying! but..
Tonight I went to my relatives house for dinner and I wore a white T-shirt [it was loose on me] & shorts. the T shirt is 100% cotton & the shorts are 92% cotton & 8% polyester .. guess what! i didn't sweat at all and i used the deodarent i had been using when i was sweating in my other clothes [hco, a&f, jc etc.] I pulled out 5 random Hollister T-shirts [all dif. colors] from my closet and the tag says 100% cotton, which means that the white T i wore tonight that i didn't sweat in, is made of the same material of the hollister clothes i wear all the time but i sweat in the hollister clothes. What's going on?! but also, the hco clothes are tighter on me than the white T i wore tonight, could that be the problem? Oh and btw, my mom also sweats a lot too and her doctor asked her if she was losing weight and she said yes & the doctor said 'while in the process of losing weight, excessive sweating can occur' is this true? because i've been on a diet and losing weight too. I'm 5'11" & around 170. And about seeing a doctor about my sweating -- Do I go to a specific doctor for sweating or my regular doctor I go to for my yearly check-up?
Sorry for all these questions but if you can answer these questions, thank you SO much. You've helped me a lot so far! ♥ xOxO (link)
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Hey,
First of all, about the whole t-shirts thingy, its sounds to me alittle mixed up, but i will tell you something. I want you to wear t-shirts which are 100% cotton and loose, most definetely not tight,because it could make you sweat if it is tight. And keep putting the deodrants all the time and shower alot with cold water like i told you.
Second of all, there is a point that i would like to clarify to you. When a person wants to lose weight, so he goes running for example or exercising or simply just quits junk food and eats healthy food with no fats, then there are things that help him lose weight, things that excrete from his body, example sweat.
Because when a person goes running for example, and he sweats alot, then he loses weight.
I hope you understand what i mean. So if you are trying to lose weight and as well as your mom, then sweat means that its excreting from your body so you could lose the weight.
But still, to be on the safe side, i think that you should go to a doctor, ( a different doctor than the one you go to for your yearly check up),someone who is experienced and knows alot about this, and you see what he tells you.
And if there are any problems or troubles, worries or concerns. Then please be free to contact me ,and tell me if there is any improvment.
P.S: Your most definitely not annoying , thats my job to help you!!!!!:)
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idk why..but for some reason i get embarressed or shy or even nervous if a guy calls or comes over to my house..and i dont wanna be anti social with guys..but im always like afraid of what my parents might think or something. or im scared to have a boyfriend because im afraid of what my parents might think? anything helps!! thanks a bunch! =) (link)
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Hey,
I have read your problem and i have a point of view in that. The reason that you get embarrassed or shy is because you probably just feel alittle strange and not at ease when there is a guy around you because you are simply not used to that, or to having a boyfriend or someone to love you and be with you.
And i understand how you do not want to be anti social with guys. Believe me, they are not that bad, they could say rude comments and be mean sometimes, but not all of them are, some are really freindly and loving . So if they call or come over, just act natural and have normal conversations with them and don't show them that you are shy or embarrased.
Moreover, i know alot of friends of mine who hang out with guys all the time and there parents are really cool about it, and i am sure that your parents are too.
They even sit with them sometimes and talk and joke around. So its cool.
The thing thats making you scared about your parents opinion about that all, is because this is a new experience knowing a guy ,hanging out with him and having him as your boyfreind. But everyone loves and has a boyfreind. So go and have fun and live your life, and i promise that your parents will be the first to support you and be there for you.Because its your right to have fun and date and be like everyone else. So try to change this shy, embarressed, worried personality,and just simply act natural.
And if you have any other problems ,troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me. Goodluck:)
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Is there any possible way to get your period sooner? (link)
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Hey,
A period has a regular time that it comes in ,every month and you can not get it sooner at all. Although you can postpone it by taking pills and stuff, but you can not get your period sooner.
So contact me if you need any other help.
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Okay so i need a way to boost my energy im 13 years old and i do not smoke any suggestions? thans?? (link)
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hey,
Guess what? I am 13 years old too, and i am in the same situation as you are. I am very weak and i need some energy too. So here is what i do. I don't eat junk food, i only eat really healthy stuff. So you can consult a doctor to make you a healthy food plan consisting of the four food groups. And you should take some vitamins, and keep up your energy and be fit by running the track in the club every day, to be fit and make you energetic. And when you get hungry, don't keep eating junk, just drink water and fresh juices.
Thats what i do, and it really helps so much. I even feel alot better. So try to consider this and if you need any other help, please be free to contact me.
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Hey, thanks for the advice, but I need just a little more help:
"there are just certain people who sweat to much during the summer because their body can't take all the heat."
^ You said to me in the advice column, but the thing is I also sweat just as much in the colder seaons like Winter! I'm taking your advice on what to do during the summer to stop sweating but hat should I do in the Winter to keep me from sweating then too?
Thanks so much ! (link)
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Hey,
I read your problem this morning, and after that i asked my father (he's a doctor) for advice,and he said that this could be a serious problem, so you need medical examination and check up at a doctor.
Don't worry or stress yourself, but you have to consult a doctor to be on the safe side. So sit with your mom and tell her that this is serious and that you sweat alot in summer and winter.And make an appointment with a doctor.
And then if you need any more advice or help ,please be free to contact me, even on my personal email that you will find in my column.
Goodluck:)
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Hey Advicenators.
Life has gotten really hard for me over the past month or so. I met a wonderful guy, and I hung out with him a few times and we're crazy about each other, unfortunetly my parents won't let me see him anymore. They forbid it, and it's awful. I can talk to him on the phone. He's like the one person I can easily tell anything & it's just sad because I feel so close to him, yet; I'm not close to him in the slightest.
Also, I really wanted to go back to my hometown, I live like 30 hours away from where I used to live, and I wanted so much to go back & visit, this summer - it would've been exactly a year since I moved away. I built my hopes up ever since January 2006 thinking I'd be going home for a few days to visit my friends, and then I asked if I could & my mom said, I'm too young to travel alone. When I've traveled on planes by myself A LOT, even alone.
Everything's just gotten so confusing and hard & I'm like always crying, it's so weird. I'm usually a really happy person, and I'm cheerful & such, but I have all these worries carried around, and I just want them to go away.
I've been soo much more then depressed lately. I don't know how to put this into a question. But, if anyone had any advice for my situation, it'd be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much. :[ (link)
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Hey,
Alot of people have this character , in which they are mostly cheerful and happy and life is usually good with only a few problems. And other people who have messed up lives, come to envy the others for being cheerful or happy. But they were wrong. We are all the same,we have moments where we laugh and smile and have loads of fun, and times when we fall down on our knees and cry out in the greatest voice" i have fallen down, and i just can't go on'. But its usually just moments that come and go, its actually always like that.Because you can't expect a person to have a perfect life, because no one is perfect and no one's life is perfect.
Now i have learnt that you have fallen in love with someone who loves you and cares for you and listens to you when you are feeling down. But then your family forbade you from talking to him. How unreasonable? why don't you try to sit and talk about this with them. And tell them how you love him and how you like talking to him and how you are so depressed because you really miss him and want to be with him. They are your parents and they could understand you.
And about going back to your hometown, and that your parents disagreed again, then maybe they are just busy these days or worked up or tired, and thats why they keep turning everything down. And all you need is to give everything sometime, and everything will fall in place.
And believe me when i say that i know exactly how it feels when you just keep on crying and feeling depressed and how you are really stressed out. But when these times and moments come, we have to deal with them, because if we don't and if we just run away from our problems, then we are just nothing but cowards and we will never be able to do anything in out lives. But i know that you aren't and i know that you are a good person, and that you can cope with whats going on around you. So hold on and try to cheer yourself up a little, and go out with friends and talk on the phone and watch tv and do anything that gives you pleasure and makes you happy.And trust me, things will be okay.
Finally, if you need any other advice or help or if you have any problems, troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me.
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Okay so i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me. Hes one of my cousins good friends. He says alot of nice stuff to me like that i have really pretty eyes and that im pretty. On the last day of school it was me him and my cousin [we all walk home] and he acts so different when ben [ my cousin] is around. He`ll be mean to me and like mostly joking around though. He`ll belike you know what DYKE, go play in traffic. And hes like gosh go away. But as soon asmy cousin leave hes all nice and is like yeah your really cool and stuff like that. Its hard to tell if he likes me because he just acts different. And he calls me allot and i call him because were good friends. Most of the time we talk on the phone for like 2 hours. Our max. is 4. I just need advice on in your opinion he likes me at all? (link)
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Hey,
I have read your problems and i understand the situation pretty well.
Now i have been in my school for 6 years, and during that time, i have been through similar situations before.And i have seen that in boys alot.
Now in my opinion,i think that he does like you.But what he is doing is one of the things that boys often do. He talks to you in a really nice way when you guys are alone, and he could even reach the extent of flirting which he is doing when he compliments you.But then when someone else you know from school or else where shows up, he doesn't want him to know that he likes you or that he was flirting with you, so he wouldn't be made fun of ( you know boys). And so he starts acting like any other boy, being mean and teasing you and all that stuff.
I usually hate that character in boys, and i think that it makes them look like cowards ,but they soon come around and stop caring about what people think about them.
I could have told you to just come straight and ask him why he is doing that, but he will probably just get all mad and embarrassed and not talk to you for a while.
Thats why i am just telling you to let go and leave him come around on his own, because he does love you and he does flirt with you when he says all these things to you. and maybe if you try to get even more close to him and hang out more with him, that would encourage him to be a little braver and start standing up for himself and not care what other people will think of him when they see him with you.
But i want to tell you something, that he may be doing all these mood swings and changes, but if you have a problem and you really need him beside you, then he will be there comforting you and caring for you.
So try to consider what i said, and if need any further advice or help, then please be free to contact me.
P.S: Try to ignore these mean things he says, and how he suddenly starts teasing you and joking around. At least ignore it for a while.
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Could I please get some good suggestions on what to do to get over someone? I just want to move on, but I can't seem to. Any ideas? Thanks so much. ps: i'm 22 and female :) (link)
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Hey,
First of all, i want to clarify a point for you. When a person often loses someone really special to him and close to his heart. He keeps crying and feels so depressed and miserable and its just like he will never get over this person.
And i have been in the same situation, as well as millions of other people. I couldn't get over someone for 3 whole years, can you imagine.
After these years, I decided that i had to let go, and live my life. Can you imagine? 3 whole years in depression and misery and weeping and moaning and crying and wasting my time obessessing about this person. And at the end, i found out that this person had moved on with his life years ago, and he doesn't even care about me anymore, and sometimes i think that he doesn't even recognize me.
And when i moved on, i knew that i had been in alot of pain all these years,so i started advicing alot of people and telling them how they have to move on with their lives, whenever someone broke up with someone really close to his heart. And guess what, now i am advising you, so listen when i tell you that you have to move on and change who you are .
I will tell you something that i have always pitured life to be. Life is like a race, and you have to keep running no matter what, sometimes you can fall on your knees when you face a problem and shout out with the loudest voice you have " i have fallen down! and i can't get up" and then sometimes you do get up and go on with the race, as well as you go on with your life.
but there are sometimes when you need help and support and someone to advise you and guide you to the right path. and now you have fallen in to the second situation, and i am the one supporting you and helping you.
i understand how this person is really special to you, and how you love dearly and that you are crazy about him. But for what ever reason it was, you have to let it go, and move on with your life, the life you had before this person even showed up in your life. And i am sure that you have alot of freinds, so go spend sometime with them, and if you go to college or you have a job, concentrate on that. And just try to occupy your life with anything that could keep you busy, and try hard not to think of this person at all. And this empty space in your heart may be filled again with someone better that could love you and care about you even more.I know that you are probably thinking, that no one can ever replace this loved one of yours. But we have to be realistic. So try to look forward in your life, into the future, because thats where your going, and dont' you dare ever look behind your back in life, or you'll just end up as a suicidal depressed person as other people did. But these people were nothing , but dumb idiots and cowards, they were too weak to face their problems and feelings, and they did this to themselves. But you know you aren't like that. But you are a really good person, and you have a family, and lots of freinds, a life, people who love and care about you, and you have alot of things that you can take advantage of, which some people, on the other hand, are down on their knees begging god to have a friend, or get back a family member who had died and left him all alone.
You have to look at the bright side and take advantage of anything good that you have.
And there is something that i have always told myself ,and you may think of it as silly,but i memorized it and kept saying it to myself day and night.
Hope is there believe it or not
But sadness can control alot
Don't let it get you
Don't let it beat you
And let faith grow from the inside
So when you come to ask me about suggestions to get over someone, i will just tell you to move on with your life. And it may be hard, but its not impossible, because impossible is nothing.
Finally,if you need any other help or advice then please contact me.
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hi theres this guy i like he and i go to the same school and we neve talked or anything but then i had to escort him to the office and we talked alittle then after awhile i went to another school and i haven't seen him since i left the first school and the my brothers started their baseball season and they play in his town. so i would go to every game and practice hoping to see him. theres a skate park right next to the baseball field and knowing he skates i went up there and fionally saw him one day with my ex two of my exes and i talked to them and i would watch them skatboard and everynow and then we would say something to each other. then finally one day he and my ex came up to me my crush said hi and hugged me. then about two months later when summer was almost over i saw him in the mall and i thought he wouldn't even notice me walking by but he did he said hi and said well aren't you going to give me ahug so i did then we said bye and now i wonder if he likes me or if he ever will? (link)
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Hey,
First of all, its really nice that you guys started talking and hugging and stuff. I am really happy for you. That means that he totally definitely noticed you.
And its not everyday that you see a boy going up to a girl and asking her for a hug, it has to be someone special, or someone that he is trying to impress or take a step further with.
I can't say if he actually loves you or not, but i can tell you that there is something between you and him.
You said that at first, you were in the same school but you never talked, and then when you did, you had to leave school. So i guess that time you talked in wasn't really enough for him to get to know you.So all you need to do is to go to this skateboarding thing more often, and you start conversations with him, and talk about alot of stuff, and things that maybe happen in your school, and ask him about his school and how it has changed since you laughed.
Just try to talk and be friendly and show him that you have a sense of humour and that you are loads of fun. You could even give him something cute or anything small to remember you with, and just try to make him fall in love with you even more.
And i have read enough in your problem, to know that you are a very sweet ,kind and magnificient person, and if you want any boy to be with you, you can most definitely do it with out even asking for advice. So go out there and have some fun, and know the guy you love and hang out with him. But remember, that all it needs, is just a little time and he'll come around after he gets to know you better.
And if you need any further help or advice, then please be free to contact me.
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I'm 13/f. My clothing style consists of Hollister, Juicy, Chanel, Abercrombie, etc. I ALWAYS sweat in these clothes. Is it the material they're made of? Or is it just my body. Because my friends where these clothes too & they don't sweat AT ALL. I told my mom about this & she said to just take showers twice a day instead of once - it worked a LITTLE but I'm STILL sweating. I told my mom to take me to a doctor and see what's wrong but she said it's a serious problem - ppl who sweat like NON-STOP have a SERIOUS sweating problem. Does anyone have any ideas on what new deoderant I should switch to or anything like that? I'LL TAKE ANYTHING! xO` (link)
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Hey,
I've read your problem and i don't want you to worry at all. Alot of people have this sweating problem in common. And it is not serious at all.
I have a friend of mine. She has to shower three times a day, and she keeps putting on these deodrants and sprays , and she still sweats alot. So its not something serious, there are just certain people who sweat to much during the summer because their body can't take all the heat. But its no big deal. Just keep on showering alot, and try new deodrants , maybe the ones you buy are not that good, and don't run alot or do anything that could make you sweat.But its okay, and i don't want you to worry.
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I got this sunsilk shampoo and conditioner and this straighten up cream.
The brand is sunsilk. And i tihnk its new. Its in purple bottles.
I was wondering if anyone ever used it? did you like it? would you buy it again?Did it work? anything i should know?
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Hey,
I have been using sunsilk cream for more than 2 years now, and i love it. I think it has a really great effect and it smells really good. But it depends what type of hair you have, because for example, the orange bottle, is for curly hair, and the purple to straighten it up, and the yellow is to protect it from the sun. They are all great especially the purple, because it holds every hair in place and its really good.
So i hope you like it, and if you need any other advice, then please be free to contact me.
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me and my boyfriend fight quite alot, we have been going out for 5 and a half months now. And he always is saying our relationship is crapy. i dont want our relationship to be crappy. Mostly we fight because im a jealous person an dhe has alot of girls that are friends. Any advice on how to not care so much about all these girl friends of his. And any advice on how to stop fighting. And any advice on how to spice up our relationship alittle? Sorry its alot my i apreciate anything =) thanx muchly (link)
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Hey,
First of all, this jealousy couldn't only be dealt with by trust. If you trust the person infront of you and actually believe in him,and believe that he loves you and wants you and not any of the other girls, then you wouldn't be jealous. Number one rule in any relationship is trust,and if its not there, then i am sorry, then your frienship is not only crappy, but it will never work out.
why didn't you ever think for a minute, that instead of being jealous, think that maybe your boyfriend loves you so much that he chose you over all those other girls that your jealous from.
You are a good person and i am sure that you have a great personality, so don't throw this all behind your back and give your boyfriend the idea that you are nothing but a jealous person.
You can care for him and be afraid to lose him, but don't be jealous of him.
On the other hand, about the advice on how on how to spice up your relationship which will lead to you guys to stop fighting, is that you can simply show him the good side of you and your personality, because you know and i know, that you are not only a jealous person, but that you are caring and loving and sweet and lots of fun. so why don't you try hanging out more with him,and talking to him about the things he likes to talk about,and maybe you could do something special for him, and get him something that he wants and would like so much, and show him that your fun and try to change a little of your character and be a little hyper active and spend your time loving him instead of feeling jealous, and show him all that, and show him that you changed,and kiss him and make out with him if he thinks thats the thing that would make your relationship better.
So try to make things a little better from your side, and i am sure that he will cooperate, and it will all be bette when you get rid of this jealousy feeling. So consider what i said, and if you need any further advice, then please be free to contact me.
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