♥[?]♥ ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?
I wouldn't allow someone to eveR put me in a position like that. If these people aRe youR "fRiends", then I hope to God that they have moRe Respect foR you than that. It's *THEIR* pRoblem if they bReak up, it's simply unfair of them to tRy and make it *YOURS* PeRsonally, I would Refuse to have to select one fRiend and see who stays and who gets pissed and decides that this silly feud is woRth thRowing a fRiendship away oveR, if anyone at all. I wish you well! Hope I helped!!
EveRyone has diffeRent moRals and views, so what's Right to you and I might not be Right to anotheR.
♥[?]♥ Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!?
For that question* im 14..and he just turned 20
I still same the same thing:
"[[You failed to mention youR age heRe, so I'm not exactly shoRe what I'm dealing with,]] but if you wanna date him, what the hell... I say go foR it! HoweveR, if youR paRents aRe against it, peRhaps it would just be best to keep the sexual activity to a low, just to play it safe. Best wishes, and be cautious! Hope I helped!!"
♥[?]♥ Okay well my friend and i want to quit the dance team we are on rite now and we want to go to a dance studio that concentrates mostly on technique and such. I think thats cool, but I also think competing would be fun. Should I quit the dance team to go to the dance studio or do both???
Do both if possible!! But if you find that you only have time foR one oR the otheR, peRhaps you should ask youRself how seRious you aRe about dancing. If you feel it's something you would like to spend youR entiRe life doing, then peRhaps you should go to the dance studio foR pRopeR tRaining. Looking at it fRom a diffeRent pRespective, you Really ought to make the most of youR school yeaRs, they Really do just fly on by, and they'll be oveR befoRe you know it. So ask youRself, which of the two Reasonings aRe most impoRtant to me. Goodluck deciding! I wish you the veRy best! Hope I helped!! =D
WheneveR they feel like it? WheneveR they get theiR cycle peRhaps? Hmm, yeah... that'd be a good idea. But you can actually just staRt off using tampons. HoweveR, many youngeR giRls find tampons uncomfoRtable, because it's difficult to find an appRopRiate fit. Hope I helped??? =D
♥[?]♥ ok so thers a gurl i like and she kinda likes me so i could probably go out with her but i already told another girl that i would go to the dance with her as friends and i dont know what to do so help me out
Peace
I believe if you've made a commitment to alReady go to the dance with someone, it would be extRemely unfaiR and huRtful to cancel on heR just because you changed youR mind when someone else came along.
♥[?]♥ Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean?
Tell him that foR the moment you'Re peRfectly content with being single, and wouldn't have it any otheR way; that should get the point acRoss. That's a NO if I've eveR heaRd one! Hope this helps!!
♥[?]♥ see i have a friend he likes every girl in my class and school hes a perv and he is a guy that got alot of girls but now hes horny and he slaps girls sexually and is despirate to get a girl so what should i tell him i told him only like 1 girl but that didnt work stop being horny and stop wrongfully touching them
Tell him that if he keeps up the slapping and touching of women without theiR consent, one of them could become enRaged... enRaged enough to wheRe they might feel thReaten and feel the need to file chaRges against him. You've discRibed him to be a total disgRace, so chances aRe he'll leaRn his lesson too late. It kind of seems like you've done eveRything you could foR him; you can't MAKE him change, only he has the poweR to do that. Just pat youRself on the back foR tRyin' to help and fRiend and foRget about it - it's his pRoblem, don't make it youRs! Hopefully eveRything woRks out!
♥[?]♥ ok so there is this guy at my school and i dono if i like him or not... but everyone is asking me and i am always like i don't know and we are always flirting so do you think he could like me too b/c ppl are saying that we would be a cute couple and i dono this has been going on for like a week now so do you think he could like me?
It's entiRely possible he could like you, of couRse. On the otheR hand, it's entiRely possible that his "fliRting" is unintentional. These days it seems you can't even talk to a paRtneR of the oppisite sex and NOT have it consideRed "fliRting". HoweveR, since I'm not actually THERE when the two of you aRe "fliRting", it's haRd foR me to judge, but peRhaps you should tRy inviting him to the movies, oR studying with him in the libRaRy to see if any spaRks fly! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ Short versions of a verrrry confusing story:
this guy likes me so much. hes nice, soo sweet, easy to talk to, pretty cute and funny. but i keep comparing him to this guy i used to like. the guy that likes me now. he seems like the perfect guy, but always tells me about his feelings for me..i think its clingy and annoying. hes soo perfect but i just don't have feelings for him! i keep trying to stop comparing him and i think if i give it time, i might like him. but, i just don't see that happening. he likes me soo much and thinks i like him a lot too and thats my fault because i let him think that. but WHAT should i do! i'm not into talking about feelings and he is, its like hes obsesed w.me. should i break it off now or just wait?? PLEASE HELP!!!
If you'Re not inteRested, then don't botheR leading him on - it'd be huRtful and unecessaRy, and that's unfaiR.
♥[?]♥ he and his girlfriend broke up about two months ago almost
so now we hang out a lot because we're getting to be close friends, last week he asked if i wantd him to walk me to the door...this week he came over, we sortof snuggled/had heads on eachothers shoulders. then he gave me a huge hug, spun me around and gave me two kisses on my forehead at the end of the night.
two days later he IMed me and was like "i missed you today" ..is this just stuff a classy guy would do with a close friend....or is there something else there??
Classy guys have otheR ways of showing theiR matuRity and chaRm otheR than sending signals. Sounds to me like theRe's most definitely something else theRe! =D
♥[?]♥ Is it possible to loose a few pounds by just eating healthier (with some physical activitey but not alot) If so, can you tell me some good health foods to subsitute with my normal junk food? Thanx i rate high! :)
It's completely possible to shed some weight by simply choosing healthieR foods!! TRy cutting soda out of youR diet COMPLETELY! You'll be AMAZED at how much weight loss is accomplished by simply doing that!! And if you eat stuff like cake and chips... nix those, and gRab an apple oR some stRing cheese instead. CRackeRs and yoguRt aRe also good foR diets. Always Replace ALL WHITE BREAD with WHEAT bRead!! White bRead is the ENEMY; L.O.A.D.E.D with sugaR, just LOADED!! Also, it's impoRtant to RemembeR to dRink LOTS of wateR, and *DO* get some daily exeRcise. Hope this helps!! =D
♥[?]♥ i have really bad bags under my eyes all the time. no matter how much sleep i get they never go away. can sumone help
ill rate
I've done the eveR populaR fRozen spoon thing, and most of the time it does it's job, but I've found that it's not a guaRantee, so you could use some foundation and blush if necessaRy. Goodluck! Hope this helps!! =D
♥[?]♥ I have alot of friends at school/church/cheer. But no one invites me to do stuff with them on the weekends! I spend my time on the computer cus no one invites me over, what should I do?
Have you eveR stopped to wondeR how many of these people have the same pRoblem because THEY aRe all waiting at home on theiR bums waiting foR an invitation that won't come because eveRyone is doing the same thing? You need to be bold and get out theRe and invite THEM to hang out. Goodluck! Hope this helps!! =D
♥[?]♥ ok..well..to start this off...I am a prep and most of my friends are...my best friends are Ashley, Samantha, and Vicky (all preps)...Well lately Samantha has been soo soo so snobby!...Me, Vicky, and Ashley have all tried talkin to her but she just goes well I am Snobby so get over it!...I mean me and her have been best friends for over 6 years!...shes like soo stuck up and it makes me Vicky and Ashley soo mad!...I still wanna be friends with her and stuff but not if shes gonna act like this...What can i do to make her stop???...sry its long I Rate high
Just don't pay attention to it; don't focus on it -- don't play into heR games. Think of it this way.... an infant is moRe likely to thRow a fit when theRe is an audience, so just pRetend like it's no big deal, and don't comment on it, foR betteR oR woRse. Hope this helps??
♥[?]♥ Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh
Awww!! OMG, how cute! You definitely need to appRoach him!! He obviously wants to heaR fRom you if he has alReady opened the lines of commuinication, so don't waste anymoRe time and get all oveR that! You can do it, I have faith in you! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope this helps!!
♥[?]♥ ok like all the guys and some of the girls at my school are really mean they tell me all the time that im ugly and that i have no friends or life and that no one will ever love me and this other group of kids at lunch came up to me and told me that they thought i was ugly and then laughed right in my face . i wanted to cry so bad .and all my friends tell me to just ignore them but thats easy for them to say because they are popular .and ihave already told the principal and he said that there was nothing he could do and i just want another opinon on this.
Bullshit. That's assualt, and you can veRy well file foR haRRassment oveR that. So let me get this stRaight: you've told the pRincipal and he Refuses to take action? K, well... next time these bitches bug you, go see this jeRkwad you've titled the pRincipal again, and RepoRt it once moRe. If he STILL doesn't do anything, then tell him he'll "be heaRing fRom" youR paRents, and have youR paRents schedule a meeting between the two of them. I'm so soRRie to heaR that this is happening to you - it shouldn't be so. Kids aRe always so Ruthless, immatuRe, and disRespectful to one anotheR, and quite fRankly... it makes me ill. I'm *POSITIVE* that you'Re not ugly like these giRls say you aRe! It's impoRtant to neveR foRget that the *ONLY* thing that matteRs is what *YOU* think of *YOURSELF*. And if it helps any, you'Re b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l to me!! Just RemembeR to keep youR chin up and youR head held high! I wish theRe weRe something moRe I could do foR you, but I'm afRaid this is about it. Know that you can always come to me if you eveR feel you'Re in need of anotheR opinion. I wish you the veRy best of luck - hopefully eveRything woRks out!!
♥[?]♥ i am 13 122pounds and five foot three is that overweight? also can someone tell me the average range of my weight? i am also a boy.
You seem to be a peRfect weight the way you aRe now. You shouldn't woRRie about it eitheR way, I'm shoRe you'Re one studdly knock-out, so chin up! =D [[[[actually, I just say "suRe" with an accent when I speak, like "shoRe", and wanted to get that acRoss =D]]]]
♥[?]♥ How do you make Live journal/xanga icons? Thanks!
Well you could tRy going heRe : http://www.couplandesque.net/icons/ foR some alReady made ones, and if you insist on making one of youR own... to be honest heRe, I'm not exactly positive if this is the way eveRyone else does it, but it will woRk just fine. Simply find a medium to small size pictuRe/image [peRhaps the size of half a dollaR bill], put it in some soRt of PhotoShop oR Windows paint pRogRam, and make the image smalleR until you find that it is an acceptable size. And if you so choose as to go with Windows paint, you can make the image smalleR by highlighting it with the top left coRneR thing on the little toolbox [the outlined Rectangle], and then going to "Image", "StRetch/Skew", and gRadually decReased the peRcentage. UnfoRtunately, you'll have to keep saving and Re-editing until it's the pRopeR pixels. I wish you the best of luck -- I Really hope this helps!
♥[?]♥ Ok so theres this guy that Ive liked for about a month now and I told him I liked him on Wensday. So since then weve been talking, hugging, flirting stuff like that and he says he likes me back. Saturday he wanted to go to laser tag with me but his mom took his car so he culdnt then he called me later that nite and said he wanted me to come over to his house but i didnt answer the phone. And he texted my friends phone Monday before school and said "why doesnt she kiss me." "would she do anything with me" stuff like that. Then I get to school Monday and he didnt come up to me and talk to me. Now Ive heard he might be talking to some other girl, even though he still flirted with me and stuff today during bowling. What do you think is going through his head?
I think you shouldn't always believe what you heaR, that's what I think. ShoRe it's absolutely quite possible that theRe may be some otheR giRl who has just Recently come into the pictuRe, but the only way to find out anything foR shoRe is to diRectly question him on this. TheRe's Really no point on my saying what I *believe* is going thRough his head if you don't know if all the heaR say is fact oR not. Goodluck to you though, I wish you the best. Hope I helped!
