♥[?]♥ I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?
I've always believed that you are too young to be engaging in sex if you can not support a child on your own. I suppose that breaks down to 18, because then a full-time job would be more feasible, seeing as how high school is completed around that time and no longer being a minor, they can legally agree to whichever contracts or finacial loans they need.
♥[?]♥ AWESOME GRADES FROM SO-SO SCHOOL OR SO-SO GRADES FROM AWESOME SCHOOL?
what's the best? see i was thinking if i choose a school like UCLA (good repuation right?) but since everyone's so smart there i'd get so-so grades, or is it better to choose a so-so school where i'd get the best grades?? like lets say i want to becom a doctor, what would be best? do they look at your grades, or where you got your degree, or both? does anyone know??
Awesome grades from a so-so school, would look better. Good grades speak for themselves.
Where as, so-so grades from an awesome school makes them question your level of dedication and responsibility. Getting good grades, regardless of which school you are coming from, will always appeal highly to colleges. It shows that you do what is required of you, and you do it with a mature mind set.
College is a privilege. It is not a right. College is undeniably tough work, for students, professors, and staff alike. No one wants to invest their time, money and energy in a seemingly irresponsible and lazy student that fails to take advantage of their opportunities, when there are thousands of more accomplished students dying for a shot at the education they have to offer.
♥[?]♥ My ex and I have been broken up for a month or so. It was a serious relationship, but we seem to be on a 'friend' level now where we talk/joke around. I love him and would like to get back together to see if things might workout, but everyone is telling me to play hard to get. The advice I get from my friends & family is to act like I don't care and he'll come to me. It has started to work, but I need to know if it will backfire? Does the playing hard to get for a guy or even an ex really work? (18/f)
If someone tried "playing hard to get" with me, I would tell them to go screw themselves, and I would never look back. Call me crazy, but my feelings are not Tonka Trucks, and my heart does break. =/
♥[?]♥ is it normal when you shave your pubic hair for it to itch alot after ?.. thanks in advanced
That is a common complaint, yes.
♥[?]♥ I am just going into the 6th and and alot of my old friends don't have the same classes as me, were are still going to be friends but I want to have some friends to spend the shcool day with too.I'm to nurves to go and talk to the other kids what should i do?
♥[?]♥ how could i make my boobs look WAY bigger when wearing a bikini?
I disagree with your first answer. Sorry, but I think you absolutely should wear one with straps. It will add the extra lift you believe you need. Bottom line is, your breast size is what it is, and you can't change that. The only thing I can suggest is to find a padded top, with straps and an underwire.
♥[?]♥ I am a virgin and I have not done anything with my boyfriend, but my mom is accusing me of having sex? Why would she think that and what can I do? Is she possibly jealous because I have a boyfriend and she doesnt so she is saying things?
I wouldn't assume your mother is jealous of the fact that you have a boyfriend, but I think this has very much to do with her not having a boyfriend. Think about it. She was probably at one point wedded. She isn't anymore. Did a divorce take place? Where is your father? To me, he could be anywhere, because I don't know the situation. I think she is just afraid of the severe life altering changes that come along with the acts of sex, and she every right to worry. She's been there, done that. For one reason or another, your Dad probably isn't in your everyday life. Maybe he's a good guy, or maybe he's not. Your age would have been helpful, but I think it's normal for a single mother to worry about her daughter. Perhaps she is afraid you'll become pregnant, and the father will split. Maybe she is sitting in that same place right now. Either way, that is the very last thing she would ever wish upon her daughter and grandchild.
Sex isn't something to battle over. Make it a way to pull you closer. If you were really having sex, your mother could stomp, scream, sulk, and insult you, but there really isn't anything she can do about it. She can tell you you're forbidden, but not many kids would respect that decision. If a teenager wants to do something, they will find a way to do it, no matter what anyone says. If her true intentions were to protect you, she would speak with you about her thoughts on sex. Why not ask her to? Let her speak her mind without fighting with her. She will feel better if she feels she was heard in full. Tell her you haven't had sex with anyone, and you plan on be extremely cautious and responsibile with your current relationship. Ask your mother to kindly take your word, and promise her that when you get the slightest thought that sex may be in your near future, that you will come to her for assistance in protection.
Mother's aren't stupid. Somehow, they know everything. =P I'm sure she knows very well that she can't stop you, but if you must have sex, she can make sure you're having safe sex. She can only provide you with as much guidance as you will take in. This may annoy, anger, and hurt you, but she means well. Parents may lead a busy life with far too much on their plate, but when it comes down to it, apparently, their children are everything to them. This is obviously a hard time for both of you, but try to understand where is she coming from. Try not to become frustrated with her for loving her baby... =)
♥[?]♥ why do guys look at my mouth while i talk to them sometimes??
14/f
They're probably young perverts in the making. That or, there's a huge chunk of something funky caught in your teeth...
♥[?]♥ can anyone tell me the name this song and who it is by
it says something like i'm about to brake and repeats itself over with more to it...sorry i couldnt remember much of the lyrics.....i think it is alternative rock nothing like rap....sorry if i didnt explain it much but thanx for any of your help
The song is called "One Step Closer", and it's done by Linkin' Park.
♥[?]♥ in the summer i highlighted my hair blonde and i decided i just dont look good with blonde hair so i wanted to go back to brown. my mom wont let me because she says im going to "regret it." i naturally have light brown hair with a couple natural streaks of blonde and in the middle of the winter it gets a little darker. i have blue eyes that sometimes turn green. i have a darkish tan and no freckles. my hair is straight and 2 inches below shoulders if this helps... would i look good with medium brown hair?? or what shade of brown?? if you could give me pictures of people with the shade of brown you think would look pretty on me, pictures would be great but not neccesary.
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♥[?]♥ my friends say that i look like a guy that they could take home to meet there family is that a good thing or a bad thing
That's a good thing, yes. Many people wouldn't bother dating someone their friends and family disapprove of to help keep friction to a minimal. This is especially true if you're a minor, because then you might not be "allowed" to see this person if your parents didn't take kindly to them.
♥[?]♥ I want to dye my hair lighter, with one of those like 10 dollar boxes you can find at a pharmacy. does anyone reccamend any good brands?
I am tremendously satisfied with Clairol. I believe it was $3.99 or $4.99 at Walmart. They offer numerous shades to compliment a variety of skin tones. The dying process is quick and simple, with easy to understand directions. Also, Clairol offers a program on their website where you can upload your picture and switch your hair color, style and length. The programs works wonders, if you ask me. It's how I found my perfect dye. (=
You will have to go through a painless sign up process, but it is well worth it.
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♥[?]♥ OKAY..So im 12 and im in the 7th grade.
There is this boy named aaron..he is in the 6th grade he asked me out but there is also this other boy named Ara.He asked me out too.i like them both but i dont know who i should date.btw Ara is in the 8th grade.
I really like them both but Aaron is younger than me..and i dont know is i should date him or Ara.i need some serious help.
♥[?]♥ For some reason i somehow managed to pull a muscle or hurt something at least in my leg last night while sleeping and it hurts! Ive done it before, just not recently and im not sure how i do it. Right now my calf area still hurts even though i tried stretching it. Is there any way i can keep myself from pulling a muscle while sleeping? Is this even considered pulling a muscle or something else?
Chances are, it was merely a cramp in your calf. Next time you feel this sneaking up on you, angle your toes upwards and hold them tightly. It practically ends it immediately. =)
♥[?]♥ i had sex
and
the guy cummed in like 5 minutes
explanations??
Explaination; inexperience and/or immaturity. =)
♥[?]♥ How do you make your myspace pictures flash or turn into different colors tu use as a default?
I really don't know, I'm sorry. One would assume you use a picture editting program, such as JASC or Photoshop, but as for step-by-step instructions, I don't know. Maybe if you go to http://www.download.com you can download a free trial version of the software for 15, 30 or maybe even 45 days. Goodluck, sorry I couldn't be of more help.
