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i had sex
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the guy cummed in like 5 minutes
explanations??
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Younger, inexperienced guys don't realize that it takes a woman longer than that to be satisfied; they figure that if it's working for them, it must be working for you.
The solution is to offer some gentle guidance. A decent guy will not have a problem with you showing him how he can make it good for you - he will welcome the opportunity to become a better lover, and for most men there's nothing that's as great a turn-on as a woman who's really into it, so in the end it will be better for him too.
Of course, if he can have his quick shot and be ready for a second round, that's another possible solution. Heck, if women can have multiple orgasms, why can't we men have them too? Equality of the sexes, and all that.
If he shrugs it off or doesn't want to hear how it can be made better for you, then he's being selfish and he doesn't deserve to be intimate with you. Basically, you need to lay down the law - if he's only interested in his own pleasure, then he can provide it himself. You're a woman, not an inflatable doll, and that means that your needs matter too.
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Maybe you're unattractive and he wanted to finish quickly.
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He could be way too used to jacking off. Or he may not be experienced, or maybe you are just great in bed. There's a lot of possible explanations...
-Angel
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Explaination; inexperience and/or immaturity. =)
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Some guys are like that though.
Usually when it's their first time or when it's not I suppose..
Try foreplay, it usually helps.
Talk to him about it, if you continue to have sex.. try to get him to hold it so you can last longer.
Maybe ask him if he usually cums in a couple of minutes. And that you would like it to last longer because you want to enjoy it.
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if you were the first person he had sex with then it's fine, there is a differnce bettween sex and masterbtion, what you should do is ask him to try and hold it, but if that does not wokr, try some floorplay to make it last longer, but on the other hand, some guys are just like that
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