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I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IN THIS SITUATION..I LIKE 2 PEOPLE..B
OKAY..So im 12 and im in the 7th grade.
There is this boy named aaron..he is in the 6th grade he asked me out but there is also this other boy named Ara.He asked me out too.i like them both but i dont know who i should date.btw Ara is in the 8th grade.
I really like them both but Aaron is younger than me..and i dont know is i should date him or Ara.i need some serious help.
love--Sarah
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I think you should ask one to hang out with you one day, and the other to hang out with you the next.
Just try and talk to them and hang out with them and see which treats you nicer, which is funnier, which makes you feel special, which you have more common with and can share interests with. Basically, whichever has the more qualities of what you're looking for in a guy and you think you'd have the best relationship with and less stressful and everything.
Just think of your feelings for both of them at the end of the night, and see whichever guy you think you'd have the best relationship with.
Just remember, you're only 12 - you're going to oodles and oodles of relationships, so just try to have the best time you can and don't stress yourself over all these guys. :)
I hope I helped.
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I have to agree with "queenhearts". I'm not trying to be condescending, but dating at 12 years old is pointless. Every realtionship I had in middle school lasted about 3-4 weeks, and it was the same with almost everyone else I knew. I'm not trying to crush your dreams or anything, but it's the truth. On the other hand, you're getting older and I can definately understand where you're coming from. If you've seen my column, you probably know that I like to do things in 3's, so here it goes. Three things you should/shouldn't consider when choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend:
1) Don't listen to other people. It's not their decision to make.
2) NEVER date someone just because they are "cool" or older than you. Those NEVER turn out good.
3) Choose the one that treats you the best, respects you, doesn't expect you to do "stuff" with him, has the most in common with you, and ultimately the one who you have the most fun with.
Most of all, relax and take it easy. You're young and you're going to have a lot of other boyfriends. Don't rush anything and don't make any decisions that make you uncomfortable. America doesn't need anymore pregnant teenagers.
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Yeah 12 is too young.
But here's some advice:
Don't go out with someone just because they are older or cooler.
But go for the guy that treats you nicely and actually talks to you. Do you have anything in common? Will they hang out with you at school, after school, etc? Just think about it.
Don't let someone pick for you.
If you can't decide, then don't go out with anyone. It wouldn't be fair to keep them thinking you will say yes when you're confused.
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12 is too young for this website....
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