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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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k so i like this guy who goes to a different school then me lets call him John. so one time some friends dared me and john to kiss so we did..and we had never really talked before then...but now we talk online like once a weeek cuz he doenst go online much..and he like gave me his phone number and i gave him mine and hes like call me and i say the same thing but we both dont call each other and we try to make plans but they fall through...he also has a neighbor whos gorgeous who likes him and im not sure if he likes her back. and im going to the movies this weekend and i want to invite him...
do u think he likes me and should i invite him to the movies?

Take your chances babe. Call him and be like hey i am going to the movies this weekend wanna come?.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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my bf and i hav been goin out for 2 months or so.then we started to not see each other. also w/ xmas break. but we hardly talk to each other. every1 says hes cheating on me. i dunno wat 2 do. anyway, other ppl says he still likes me. wat should i do?:/...

Confront him. Threaten that you will break up with him if he lies and even if he is cheating on you that you won't dump him. That should get the answer out of them. Then dump him.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?

If you like him and he asks you out. Talk to your friend. But maybe what you could do is try to hook him up with your friend so you dont have to worry about it.

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Charmed-Cherry21

I was rated a 5


first of all, my boyfriend and i have been together for two years, and about three months. i love him with all my heart, and i know he loves me as well. well, last month i was going through his sidekick and i went through his text messages. i wasnt looking for anything particular really, i just wanted to read my texts that i sent him. i came across a message from another female, and i guess he was trying to talk to her. i approached him right away about it. he told me that, yes, he hangs out with other girls, drinks with them, etc. im already aware of that, and thats perfectly fine with me. but then he told me that when he sees a cute female, that he does try to get her number for the challenge, and flirts with them. he said he's never done anything sexual with any other girl, he just likes to get to know other people. i let him know that bothers me and that if he still wants to be with me, he needs to stop approaching other females because thats unneccesary when he already has me. he said he'd stop. i really love my boyfriend, and i used to trust him, but after some of this stuff, its hard to trust him. im kind of stuck, and i dont know what to do because i find myself worrying about him cheating on me and things along that line. so.. i'd like to know, what would you do if you came across this situation. thanks. sorry about the length ;\

Well relationships are built on trust and if you don't trust him as much and you are worried about him cheating on you then maybe you should end it. Your 18 and your boyfriend lives near you. I am 13 and my boyfriend of 4 months moved to Virginia and we are still going out and it takes alot of trust for that, but I trust him. I mean sure I worry about that but I am going to trust him until he proves me wrong. Just either end it or keep a very close eye on him and just pray that he won't cheat on you. Good Luck.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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okay.. this guy who i have been "talking" to for a while.. came over to my house.. like he does everydayy.. and this time.. he asked me for a kiss.. and we made out for a long time.. but then...i went bak inside.. and got on the computer and (i didnt tell anyone!!) everyone was telling me that he got a girlfriend that morning.. and then.. i was on the phone with him earlier and i was like.. " do you know what i hate? i hate it when guys have girlfriends.. but hook up with other girls.. " and he started acting all defensive.. so. PLEASE help me.. i need ur help sooo bad!! i have no clue what to do?

He's not worth it. Find out who his girlfriend is and tell her that ya'll were making out but you didn't know he had a girlfriend until afterwards.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."

Friends, Newlyweds with Nick and Jessica, Charmed ((when it comes out on February 1)), Angel((my friend likes this)), Buffy The Vampire Slayer ((my friend likes this)).

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Charmed-Cherry21

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mmk sorry i didn't knoe wut ta put this under but me and my mom are planning to go on a vacation like spring break or like soon but money is a big issue when it comes to vacations with my family so has n e one been n e where that was really nice with a beach and alot of hot guys! that would have something fun for me to do then sumthing fun for my mom to do aswell thats not THAT expensive?!?

Yes. Where I live. FLORIDA. There is also where my boyfriend moved to VIRGINIA. There is also Georgia and California. There are also North Carolina and South Carolina. Those are the best places I have been.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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In my house, all I have is a small stand-up shower (no tub!). It sucks. So that makes it more difficult to shave my legs. I tried shaving out of the shower using the sink with a towel on the floor to catch loose water...but it takes forever! Does anybody have any ideas to make it quicker? Or anything I can do? Thanks

Use nair. All you do is spread like this lotion on your legs and then use this slip of plastic that comes and scrape it off and then rinse it off. It doesn't hurt it actually feels good.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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ok does anyone know any websites where you can like use a picture of yourself and put different hair on it or something??? does anyone know what im talking about??? i really wanna give myselfbangs but i wanna see what it looks like first! so it would be great if someone knew of any websites like that! thanks!!
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There is a link on www.bored.com

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Charmed-Cherry21

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my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?

How old are you? You should tell people because thats important. And I know you may not like being center of attention but still I think that you should.

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Charmed-Cherry21

I was rated a 5


hey i know you all know the feeling.. im bored out of my brains! im at work at the moment im filling in for someone as a receptionist on my school holidays.. im on the computer all day and i get REAL BORED does anyone know any entertaining sites that dont involve sound or sex..?

www.pogo.com some of the games have sound but its something to do and its fun.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

I became friends with my best friend in like a month. And we are like sisters too. We basicly are. We have been friends for like two years this month. Plus me and my boyfriend started going out within a month of meeting each other and we're in love now after 4 months. Hope this helps.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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I overheard one of my friends telling a boy how I had criend over what she oviously thought was nothing and laughing over it. Sometimes she runs away from some of her other friends (who are also my friends) and me with her bitchy friend, then pretends it was nothing and that Im over reacting. Then she is really friendly again.She has done this so many times now I secretly don't like her at all. However, she is really popular and I think if I stopped being her friend all my friends would still be with her as she has this way of making people side with her. I don't know what to do about it..(Sorry about the length).
Zoinatrobe.

I know how you feel. Lots of people talk about me behind my back. You may think popularity is everything but really it's not. As long as you have a few CLOSE friends then thats good. And a boyfriend is good too, but you don't HAVE to have one. Good Luck. Oh and tell her to shove a sock in it and stop talking bad about you.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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hey i made my site on July 30th, 12 days after you. do you think i have an old account too where i can do the same cool stuff you can?

You might. And by "cool stuff" what do you mean? E-Mail me at Smartblonde213@aol.com and I will help you out.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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why did you get rid of the pic of u n ur bf?

Because some rude person asked if me and my boyfriend were retarded.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette


Antoinette**-I think that you should break up with him because he doesn't need to be calling you a bitch. The next time he does it call him an asshole and walk away. Then if that doesn't get the point through then break up with him.-**Haleigh

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Charmed-Cherry21

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what does "pop ur cherry" mean?

To lose your virginity. Or in other words to have sex for the first time.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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i straighten my hair in sections and like the bottom layer is always nice and straight but the very very top layer always turns out frizzy looking. its straight but i always have little pieces of hair sticking out or it just looks frizzy. how come? is there anything i can do to make it look non frizzy? ive used some frizz free stuff and it didnt work!

Because you are supposed to start from the top and go down and it works better that way.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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OK so I have my period, and Im really just not in the mood. You know cramps all that fun stuff. But what I really wanna know is well... this is embarassing but I wanna shave down there and every time i try the hair gets stuck inside the blade and it really hurts. What am I doing wrong?

thanks~

Use lots of shaving cream. Do it in the bath not the shower. Do bits at a time. Trim the hairs short with scissors before shaving it.

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Charmed-Cherry21

I was rated a 5


whats "nibbled" mean in a sexual way?

Basicly what it means in a unsexual but done on breasts usually.

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