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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?

yeah! if u didnt tell him ud regret it...n at leas the knows now so theres no secrets. gl w. the whole thing

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hey... does anyone know how to delete some questions you've asked in the past on "Your Questions" thing. And can you delete an advice you've answered on your advice column??

-thanks

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no u cant delete questions on ur "my questions thing" n the only way u can erase questions on ur page is by erasing ur answer..but i think the question will still b there

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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.

hun dont do anything ur not ready for. its 100% normal 4 a woman to be scared of men after rape..so its ok..do things at ur own speed. and yes tell someone! or else ull keep it all inside you and you'll let that man get away with a crime..n not just the 1 abou tthe law..but u will have let him hurt u in a way thatcant be fixed. so yes, tell someone, a shrink, ur mom, ur bf, ur best friend, anyone. im sry tht hpnd n gl hun!!

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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do?

tlk 2 her about it! ask her why she dumped u n ask he rif she wants 2 give it another chance. tell her u still like her!! :D

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HELP! Can you delete a picturetrail album??? I dont wanna delete the whole thing.. just one album of it!! please help!!! FAST!!!

when u sign in u go to edit album n then click "go to delete pics" n then it says "delete an entire album" n hten u chose tht album n walah! lol

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my doctor does check-ups on me, im a 13 female, and he's a male. he always checks my breasts for things so he knows nothings wrong--like for lumps or something .. none of my other friends have their doctor do this .. my doctor practically squeezes me, and he always unzips my pants and looks down them and feels around. like i said, none of my friend's doctor's do this, and some of them have the same doctor as me. what do you think is going on? is he doing this sexually, or just being a doctor?

he might be sexually harassing u...but talk to ur mom about it. if she says that docters arent sposed to do that and its not something hes allowed to do, then its SH. but if he really is supposed to do that, then ur gunna have 2 deal with it lol. but this is something 4 u to tlk 2 ur mom about. gl hun

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ok, im a 12 year old girk and ive neva officially gone out with some1. well, this nice guy, whoz a grade older than me asked me out. well, i had known him 4 awhile and i thot he seemed like a great guy. well, i said yes, partly becauz i just wanted a boyfriend. now im not sure if i shud continue goin out with him. i mean, and i goin out with him 4 the wrong reasons. i just dont no. i think i shud continue goin out with him but wont other people in my grade think im weird if im goin out with an 8th grader? well, i dunno if i shud break up with him or just give it a try.... HELP!!! he also always acts shy around me, i try 2 get him 2 loosen up but he still acts weird. THANZ I RATE!!! *****:)

people normally dont care who you go out with as long as the guy isnt younger than the girl..thats when most people think its wierd! i think its all bs..other people shouldnt be concerned about relationships theyr not in!! but if u rly like the guy n wish he was more open, then stay with him n make him feel comfortable around u. but if u dont liek him n ur just in it for the label, thats a bad idea. dont lead him on! ask urself why ur really goin out w. him..n if its the right reasons...stay in it n if its the wrong reasons then break ^ w. him!!

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How do I get a popular girl to like me, she flirts with me all the time, but claims she doesnt like me, what should I do?

u cant make any1 like u...jus tell her u like her. she might liek u, she might not! flirting duznt always mean sum1 lieks u...but hey it wouldnt hurt to ask her out!! maybe she really does like u but is embarrassed cuz she thinks u dont like her! jus ask her out or tell her u like her or sumthn!!

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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.

i love people like that!! theres never a dull moment when theyr around! n i think theyr funny!! boring people suck...n people like u just described arent boring! keep up whatur doin cuz its cool ;)

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What are some websites that are like xprofiles, that you can put pictures and graphics on? I tried live journal and xanga, but you cant put lots of graphic stuff on those. Do you know any more?

www.easydesigner.com www.tripod.com -- tose work 4 me!!

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how do you rate people, or you have to ask a questian to rate them, not many people are rated

u have 2 ask them a question or they have 2 answer ur ? if u wanna rate them

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I am 16, been on varsity football since my freshman year, im going to be a sophomore, im not really worried about having a girlfriend, sometimes i just wish i had one, do you girls like to get close with a guy before you date them, as in like a best friend relationship, or do you like to meet guys and find something new about him day in and day out....?? i dont no anymore lol

i like to get 2 kno them...mayb not like a BEST FRIEND but at least so i know hes not a doorknob lol. n plus its fun to have lil suprises about the person ur dating! so idk i like 2 kno them some n then date them lol

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my sisters and me are fighting alot and they are herting me like big bleading scarches what do i do

sit down n tlk 2 them!! theyll never kno unless u tell them how ur feelin. n if they dont stop then tell ur mom!

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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do?

tell him!! ull never kno unless u tell him..n if he duznt feel the same way then just move on n stay friends!

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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~

you could at least try it..but itd be really hard!!! if u do try it..dont be suprised if it ends soon after!! but if u think yll r tht in love w. each other then it wouldnt hurt 2 try! gl w. the whole thing

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OK
every1 always tells me that impopular just becuz i have lots of friends well all summer my bestfriends and i have been hangin out and im kinda getting sick of them and now im going into middleschool and i kina wanna hang out wit other people but i dono wut to do. i have lots of other friends but i dont wanna abandin my bestfriends.

Wut Should I Do?

u ALWAYS have room for more friends! theres no reason u cant have new and old friends..so just make more and keep them all!!! everyone wins ;)

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did you take your picture with a sprint camera phone?? lol i was jw cuz it looks like mine

haha yeah me n my friend got bored in the car going shopping lol!!

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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant?

no not if u have ur pd

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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer.

depends on how u do it...if u mean it as a compliment then its good...but if u do it in a rude way or sumthn then its kinda disrespectful...jus b nice n ull get good replys most of the time!

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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?

yup..if the condom breaks or comes off or isnt on right or sumthn

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