Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
I'm nowhere near perfect. I'm a busy girl,so I don't have much time to get on as I used to. I'll hit you up immediately if you inbox me.
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ok i know im not ready to have sex NOW but i dont know if i want to wait until marriage either..i mean what do you guys think?
a part of me says
"hey who knows if your husband will even be a virgin..then its kind of pointless that you waited..and besides if you wait until your married, thats the only guy your going to have sex with .."
then again anothher part of me says "sex would be more special if you waited to have it with your husband"
any input? (link)
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Wait untill marriage, because sex would be more special with a husband, your parents most likely would want you to wait, you don't want to embarras yourself getting birth control or condoms, there is a risk of having a baby, it HURTS, it is better if you only have sex with 1 guy, and I personally think its morally correct to wait untill marriage.
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I wasnt exactly sure which category to put this under, but here goes...
Shaving is a BITCH! yes, yes it is. My question is:
Has anyone tried those bladeless shaving kits? do they really work? Does it last longer than shaving? does it remove ingrown hairs too, or should i just go for the wax?
yeah i know, kinda stupid, but im sick of shaving and at least dont want to walk around band camp with a bunch of nix and cuts.
thanks! (link)
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They don't last longer, they smell, and irritate. Stick to shaving. I've tried Nair and Veet, and they suck. Go for the wax, but prepare for pain!
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hey.
i am 13/f & i have this cousin that is 10 & she asked me if i have had sex before & i said no & she said that she could "show me" & gave me the choices of having sex with her, her giving me lessons, giving me oral or fingerfucking me! & i went with it just so she would leave me alone & now i am scared of what she might do & i dont know how to react to this & am so creeped out... What should i do? plz help!!! i rate high!!!!
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She just molested you and you didn't know it. Does this senario sound weird to you AT ALL? YOUR LITTLE COUSIN SHOULDN'T ASK YOU TO HAVE LESBIAN SEX, WHICH IS PRACTICALLY WHAT IT IS!!! Tell sumone, or confront her yourself, but just don't agree to do nasty stuff like that.
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wow ok I just got side sweep bangs and they are aweful... the lady that cut them must have been drunk or something!! Does anyone know how I could fix them?... I don't really want to wait until they grow out (link)
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thats exactly why i diy. Comb them into your hair, slick it down, style hair in the way you want, then do the simplest thing. Take a brush and brush forward a section of hair and pull towards your ear on the side you made the bang. Spray with holding oil sheen.
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okay.
i asked my b/f what he wants, and he always says, whatever you want, and we have been doing w/e i want, i keep asking him and i ask him so much he gets mad, i mean, does he even care? please help me...i will rate SO fucking high.
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hes a bastard. just tell him to chose what he wants to do for once, and if he gets pissed, do something you know he hates untill he choses, or ditch him.
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heyy advicenators. i just recently looked in the august 2005 teen people magazine with the blonde lindsay lohan on the cover and i found these red kabbalah string bracelets on page 68 under the article seeing red britney spears, lindsay lohan, and ashton kutcher have them on. i like them and i was wondering where can i purchase one of them for me? i`ll rate a 5 to anyone who DOESNT suggest e-bay. thanks in advance. love always ashlee (link)
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its just like a bunch of weaved red thread. Christian bookstore, since it loves jewish stuff, and kabbalah is a jewish religion, or make one.
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How can I make 200$$ in a week. Witth -out baby sitting, paper routes, and a job? (link)
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stock market???
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i have this thing in my way of getting a tampon into my vagina is that normal? and wat is that? (link)
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It's your hymen. I'm guessing your a virgin, or you just didn't break your hymen yet. It is a thin membrane that covers the vagina. It's completely normal, everyone has it. All you have to do is push the tampon with more force to get past it.
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ok, i lost my virginity july 2004, the nxt time i had sex was July 2005 (a year later) after i was bleeding like crazzy, it was almost like i had my period for a few hours, eventually it stopped but it was kinda gross and i dono wat to think . . . gimme your advise PLEASE (link)
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You didn't break your hymen as well the first time, so you bleeded more then. chill. most ppl bleed alot.Tthats exactly why i'm scared of losing my virginity.
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I am SOOOOO Fat i am 5'12 and 250 pounds what are some ways of losing weight fast? (link)
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Well actually your 6'0, but that aint important. crunches and yogurt are a good way to trim down the belly area.
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I was wondering...is 5'5, 5'6, or 5'7 average height for a 13-year-old, who is going to be in the 8th grade this August. Also, do girls with long legs look good with mini skirts? Thanks! (link)
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Yea, long legs and mini skirts look kool, but make sure they aren't skinny and full of veins, because that looks bad. And for the height thing, it depends on the weight and the height to see if its normal, not heigt alone, but I would say yes, those are normal heights for a 13 year old, but 5'5 is kinda short, because I was that tall in 6th grade, and I was 10!
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i think i have artheritis in my arm. what sign should i be aware of. i know that its something to do with the joints and thats were the pain is..it happens anytime i lift something or add a little pressure to it. am a too young to have artheritis?? 13//totally FEMALE (link)
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My friend is 12 and she has athritis, so its normal.
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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is? (link)
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Chill its just discarge. Its completely normal, so don't freak out. there is rally no need to tell anyone, but trust me, its normal. btw you're right,it is under the wrong category
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I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;
I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..
Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...
and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!
I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??
What should I do?!
PS. Sorry for the lengthy question (link)
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MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE STARTEDTO SMOKE IN THE FIRST PLACE. do you remember 2nd grade health class at ALL?? They don't even sell cigaretts to minors!! where do you get them?? Yea you can die, and most likely you will get cancer. Stop smoking. use niccorete gum because you will get the nicotine you want slowly untill you stop. Your parents are doctors don't you listen to them???? What were you thinking??? like 14 minutes get snatched from your life with each ciggarete, and i bet a smoker like you has gotten a gillion hours taken out if you smoke packs. Chest pain is a sign of cancer, so don't be surprised if you get cancer and die prematurley. Shouldhave payed attention in health all these years, and you sholdhave listend to your parents. doctors children. IM A DOCTORS CHILD MYSELF!! just stop smoking, even if it means going psyco if you want to save your life. i detest smokers.
Have a nice rest of your life btw
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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help
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Chill. The summer going into 6th grade whas when I got my period, just like the girls in your grade. You may get cramps, you may not. Ask your mom if she did because if she did, you most likely will too. I wouldn't use tampons yet because if you wait a year it would be more comfortable. Ask your mom what year she got hers, and expect it around the same time. Stick to pads. And do't drink caffine because you will get cramps. www.puberty101.com may beable to help.
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Alright...well my hair is extremely thick and frizzy and poofy in the humidity. I straighten it and that seems to help. but i was wondering...is it true that if you get your hair thinned out it grows back thicker? thanks ill rate (link)
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Relaxer is your friend. And no, it doesn't grow back thicker, unless you wash it every day and don't straighten your hair from then. Just the roots though. btw, relaxer is a chemichal that de frizzes hair to make it straighter.
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me and my friends grind at partys and we sandwhich is this normal like grinding with girls and im a girl alike if a bot asked me to dance and we started grinding i would keep on doing it me and my friends also sanwhich im not sure if this is normal we dont do anything gross if thats what you think because we dont we just grind and sandwhich please helpp (link)
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Chill it's normal, it's just a sandwitch, and it's harmless fun. I bet nobody else thinks anything sexual of it, just make sure your parents don't see you!
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My boyfriend and I are having a debate about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits the air. Sometimes after we have sex (we use a condum) sperm will be on me or him and he worries that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've always heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. Who's right? (link)
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the guy. sperm can hit the outside of the vagina open to air and swim into the fallopian tubes to hand out with the egg,but it dies in 3 days, so to be safe. don't do it often and use a condom always.
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how do you grind, as in the dancing? (link)
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rub your ass on a guys dick and make he will hump you back.
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ok well..im 11 yeears old, and like.. im 115lb. and im 5'2 and i abouslty hate it. People say im fat, behind my back..and im always hungry ..and i try to eat healthy but i still gain weight ..help? (link)
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Hey chill. When I was 11, I was 130 lbsand 5'3, and still normal. Even bmi charts say i was normal. Don't lose weight, cuz even if you were 5 inches shorter you would still be normal. Ignore the bastards who call you fat, cuz your not, ok?
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