i asked my b/f what he wants, and he always says, whatever you want, and we have been doing w/e i want, i keep asking him and i ask him so much he gets mad, i mean, does he even care? please help me...i will rate SO fucking high.
Another option is to tell him to surprise you. You may not always get what you expected (I got took deer hunting on a cold, freezing wind day lol.) but at least you're spending the time together and he's getting to do something he enjoys.
AskAndy answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 9:12 pm: hes a bastard. just tell him to chose what he wants to do for once, and if he gets pissed, do something you know he hates untill he choses, or ditch him. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 8:33 pm: Okay. I will try to make this make as much sense as possible. I bet at first it seemed like your boyfriend was being caring, and wanted to be nice and do what you wanted to do. Then of course you probably got bored of doing the same stuff, or feel shelfish or not being fair, right? But no, you were just doing what your boyfriend "wanted"...Why he says "whatever you want" is because he probably doesn't care very much what you do...and he gets mad because HE DOESN'T CARE. But just tell him he shouldn't get mad at you for CARING ABOUT HIM, ok? I hope I helped. [ ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US's advice column | Ask ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 8:22 pm: ok, take a chill pill! its ok! you need to talk to him. tell him that you want to do what he wants to do every once in a while. tell him that its a little weird to do just what you want to do. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
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