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there is this girl in school who i am in love with..she is really hot and everything but i like her for who she is not the way she looks. she knows about how i feel obviously since i told her..and she used to like me a lot. we have made out and everything several times. she told me not to tell anyone because the first time, she was still going out with her boyfriend but she liked me not him and the 2nd time, it was the night she dumped him for me..it seems like after she dumped him she stopped liking me..she comes over almost every weekend but she was mad at me for a while because i told my best friend that me and her had made out...heres what happened..my friend knows how to annoy the shit out of me and he did just that...she took my arm and put it behind my back and pushed it up and it hurts sooooo damn bad and he wouldnt let go until i told him :(...please dont tell me i need to get new friends, theyre the only ones i have. so anyways, now she likes another guy, hes a sophomore, a pothead, and i think hes using her. i found out on halloween that her and him have hooked up and shit and it kills me to think about it. she acts like nothing happened and she constantly makes me mad by telling me about him and everything, she knows it pisses me off and that i love her. i cant move on, i have tried. i have told her how i feel.

*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you* - have you ever heard that? i wish she could do that..i just want her back so bad so things could be like they used to be, she said she doesnt know why she suddenly stopped liking me but one of the reasons is she cant picture me as her boyfriend because of my personality...she pictures me as a bestfriend not a boyfriend AND I HATE IT!!! i dont want to be her bestfriend, i want to be her boyfriend...it hurts to think about it all and i dont know what to do i am soo confused. i think about her all day..i asked her out at homecoming during the last slow dance and she said no..i went home and cried, she hadnt told me she didnt like me anymore and everyone told me it was so sweet and romantic and w/e and she would surely say yes...i love her so much! i need her...

*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you*..i rather choose who i love b.c i cudnt MAKE myself love someone...

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well, theres this girl lets just call her leslie and her initials spell out lez, but that has nothing to do with this. anyways, we're friends and stuff, but everytime im talking to her she starts getting all touchy feely with me and touches me so much i think shes a lez...and she gets really defensive about her initials being l.e.z so maybe she IS a les? how can i find out?

well wut to u mean by "touches" u like me n my friends hug and we go arm in arm lol...

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Ok, There is this boy, Lets call him J, Well J is a good friend Of mine, Well there is this girl called Alissa, she is sorta my friend but she likes him because he is hot and because he is a prep and because me and my friend Brandi like him, so she thinks she can have him, Well she is going to ask him out and I am not going to do anything about it and I warned J that I will hate him if he gos out with her and also why she wants him. He said he doesn't know what he is going to say if she asks him, I dont want this to happen...Anything I can do?

well there isnt really anything you can do except hope she doesnt ask him out or if she does hope he listens to u

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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?

-heart-
Amanda

never let a boy become between friends..never..

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ok theres this teacher at my school lets call him mr maning well neways one day at school he asked me to stay after to do some make up work which i didnt no i had ne make up work!!

so anyways we went into his classroom and sat at a table and he sat next to me. he started scooting his chair closer to me and then started rubbing my leg and dumb old me i wore a mini skirt with a thong on that day

so THEN he easily took off my bottoms and started fingering me!! he goes do u like it? and i said ya bc i didnt no what to do! plus it felt kinda good then we got on the table and i started givin him head and HE had an orgasm!!

then he took out a condom THANKFULLY and slipped it on and started effin me!!!! and i was on my period that day!!!! earlier he took out my tampon newayz then the condom snappen in half and he kept on goin!!!

he took my virginity and maybe even gotten me pregnant and it was at school with a 26 year old teacher who i have to face everyday!!!!! what shud i do?

PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I RATE REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALY HIGH!!!!! thx a bunch!!!!!!!!!!

signed,
future mom??

wait so how old r u ? and if ur underage he can go to jail so i think u shud get urself checked and tell someone like RIGHT NOWW

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

at 13?? well im not sure if its normal or not cuz im 13..but im pretty sure u'll be regrettin cuz i have friends (guys) who r like idk 15 n they've uhhh $#@%ed alot of girls n they regret it..in a way but u no there guys though

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i just got a filling and i had the novacain thing. and now its all numb. i was woundering how long does it take to make it back to normal. cause im drinking soda now and i cant taste it on the side of my mouth. so aproximately how long would it take ? thanks.

hmm the numbess should go away in about 1 1/2 hour dependss

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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help

yeah most girls go for the star QB of the football team..

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Hey, I heard that if you were born after 1990, you can't get your temporary lisence until you are 16. Is this true?

it depends on the state u live in like in ny it use to be u can get ur permit at 16 n then get ur license like the same day if u wanted but now u can get ur permit at 16 and u have to wait 6 months until u get ur license

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OK. Anyone out there have "Irish twins"(basically babies born within a year of each other.)Well, my wife is pregnant with #2!Is it easier or more difficult with the second child?

well im #2 but we're 7 years apart n its diffcult for me lol

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alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.

1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.

2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)

3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.

4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.

ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.

so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!

please! i'm so confused!

4 guys at once?? lol wow

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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!

hmm well has she ever had sex??

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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!


Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

omg everyone feels that way, but for me things get better just calm down and think abut the gud things

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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

omg i read the answers n they said 13/14 but cuz of my religion i cant date.PERIOD. so it suxs..but if i cud n had a child i'd say 13/14

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hey .. i wrote a few days ago about my boyfriend that's in the hospital .. hes in intensive care for his head injury .. well, this is the update .. the doctors recently had to cut open his head and take a part of his brain out so that they can run tests and all or sumthin lyk that..(i still quite dont understand it) .. and then they will put it back in and all that ..and hes still in the drug induced coma.. but now that this has happened, all those people that said he'll be okay .... do you still feel that way??

aww hun keep ur hopes high.and may god be with u

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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks

he had sex w. ur friend n u want to pretend not care? OMG i wud kill them well ok not kill them but bee soooo freakin madd

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omg...i cant even sit still to write this!! I am so cruching on this guy at my school. I swear, everytime I see him, i just wanna run up to him and give him a big smack on da lipps. I love hanging around him, and i love just having evryday conversatons with him!! i lOvE evrythang bout him; the way he walks, the way he stands when he opens his locker,hmm..Im goin crazy just thinkin about him!! bUt i guess my butterflies are whats stopping me from telling him i think hes soo pErFeCtT!!! pLeAzE hElP mE wItH tHiS oNe lAdIeS!! well, i guess if youre a guy and you know how you would like be told youre soo pErFeCtT, you could answer me too! aNd pLeAzE hUrRy..i dOnT kNoW hOw mUcH lOnGeR i cAn tAkE tHeEsE bUtTeRfLiEs!! :-*lUv YaLL!!

i feel the same way abut this one dude omg even if his hair is messed up and hes half asleep i still think hes hot the hottest guy ever.

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ok so theres this boy thats like 4'7 or sumthing in 7th grade and im like 5'7 in the same grade....(i just turned 13) and he supposedly likes me, but is too shy to tell me cuz he thinks...i dunno wut he thinks! anyways, hes so cute(like a little baby) and i have this thing that when i find out that ppl like me, i feel like i like them too, even if i dont...i wanna go out with him, but at the same time, i dont.... i dont wanna be going out with a guy so much shorter than me cuz i wont b able to kiss him and hug him and sutff...sorry this question is so long, but i need advice....thanx mucho

4'7 woaa?? n i thought i was short i was like 4'11 in 7th grade lol

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14/f/9th grade

Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...

His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!

-cOnFuSeD-

P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean?

well talk to him and say that it's been 2 years and he shud move on n u just cant fall out of love..u either love some1 or dont

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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 ..

miracles do happen right? keep ur hopes high and pray every chance u get. may god be with u.

*hope i helped*

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