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i love her
there is this girl in school who i am in love with..she is really hot and everything but i like her for who she is not the way she looks. she knows about how i feel obviously since i told her..and she used to like me a lot. we have made out and everything several times. she told me not to tell anyone because the first time, she was still going out with her boyfriend but she liked me not him and the 2nd time, it was the night she dumped him for me..it seems like after she dumped him she stopped liking me..she comes over almost every weekend but she was mad at me for a while because i told my best friend that me and her had made out...heres what happened..my friend knows how to annoy the shit out of me and he did just that...she took my arm and put it behind my back and pushed it up and it hurts sooooo damn bad and he wouldnt let go until i told him :(...please dont tell me i need to get new friends, theyre the only ones i have. so anyways, now she likes another guy, hes a sophomore, a pothead, and i think hes using her. i found out on halloween that her and him have hooked up and shit and it kills me to think about it. she acts like nothing happened and she constantly makes me mad by telling me about him and everything, she knows it pisses me off and that i love her. i cant move on, i have tried. i have told her how i feel.
*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you* - have you ever heard that? i wish she could do that..i just want her back so bad so things could be like they used to be, she said she doesnt know why she suddenly stopped liking me but one of the reasons is she cant picture me as her boyfriend because of my personality...she pictures me as a bestfriend not a boyfriend AND I HATE IT!!! i dont want to be her bestfriend, i want to be her boyfriend...it hurts to think about it all and i dont know what to do i am soo confused. i think about her all day..i asked her out at homecoming during the last slow dance and she said no..i went home and cried, she hadnt told me she didnt like me anymore and everyone told me it was so sweet and romantic and w/e and she would surely say yes...i love her so much! i need her...
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Tell her, that u love her and u need her and just spill everything. End it with something like "If you dont feel the same way, then this is goodbye, i dont wanna be ur best friend. And if you're gonna continue to treat me bad and mess with my mind, it's over." and walk off, if she's worth it, she'll call ur name or something. U seem like an awesome guy, and i say if she still blows u off, screw her. U prolly have girls who watch ur ever move and u dont even kno it. Just take one last chance with the girl, if that doesn't work, just open ur eyes to the world around u. Hope i helped, write back if ya want
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the only thing you can do is make her jelous,
once she sees you talking with other girls shell
remember that it used to be her and shell want you back, just remember when she does come back
dont be all over her, play it cool and ease into it, make her feel like she needs you not the other way around. but dont be an ash*le, be her friend. Im kind of in the same situation and its satrting to work, i didint call her i didint go over her house, or work and whenever i saw her at a party i would go over and say hi and chat a little but i didint hang around her all night long and now shes the one that calls me and comes over to my house.
i know its sux that you have to be away from her
for so long but you do at least a month. she has to have time to miss you.
good luck dude
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good 4 yuuu.
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*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you*..i rather choose who i love b.c i cudnt MAKE myself love someone...
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wow, i am very impressed with the way you put this. okay anyway, if you are asking how to get her to like you as a boyfriend? well i would say... keep trying. but DO NOT stalk her, annoy her, buy her tons of things, call her 24/7, nothing like that. just BE there for her when shes having trouble, call her occasionaly to talk, surprise her with things once in awhile, and just show her that YOU can be a better guy than all these other guys (which you are) and you need to tell her how you feel, straight out that you would rather be her BOYFRIEND instead of a bestfriend. tell her how much that DANCE meant to you. and if you feel that strongly about her that you Love her, you need to make it obvious so she knows and maybe she can seriously think this over. you need a straightforward answer from her on how she feels about you in return. you have to take my advice. if you think that you've TRIED everything in the book, theres always things that still can be done. did you see the movie "the notebook" ? well i suggest you seeing it. because thats how you feel about this girl. maybe take tips from the guy in the movie and see what he does. but honestly i think maybe you should write her a note or something with lots of meaning telling her how you feel about her, not just that you like her. you need to make it deep and worth reading and tell her how much you CARE. apologize for telling your friend that you guys made out. (and no i wouldnt tell you to get new friends because all guys are like that, and i'll let him slide) so yeah definitly apologize, and if you REALLY care about her, spend more time around her because maybe she will begin to like you more. wow i just typed up that whole thing, thats insane. ok you can IM me or something if you want cause i like hearing about these things. plus im a girl so i understand. okay good luck with this chick, i honestly hope it works out. i'll keep you in my prayers ok? good luck!
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Heres some more sayings *You never know you have made the wrong choice by not going out with someone until you meet the WRONG person* -- *If you love her let her go. If she comes back then she really does love you* -- I hope they help.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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it sounds like ur really inlove..:-/. im really sorry that ur going thru that. but number 1- u needa start playing HARD TO GET!! i know she doesnt like u that way, but since she knows how much u love her, shes useto the attention and is taking it for granit..if u stop giving her that attention and pretend that u dont care nemore and that u dont like her, i can almost garauntee that she will come back to u..im like 60% sure she would come back..thast just how it is..when u know that some1 is like totally inlove with u, u take it for granit and not care but when the attention isnt there nemore u want it back and start talking to that person more and give THEM attention so u can get attentiOn baCk, etCetC...just try that..dOnt wait for hEr after class, dOnt lOok at hEr, dOnt call her, pick up her calls but 5 minutes into it be like hey i really gotta go but it was nice talking ttul bye!, dont text her, dont tell her u love her, if she asks u if u still like her be like i dunno my feelings kinda changed, etcetc..and take it from there..if she starts comin back to u then ull know what to do..
love kristin
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