about

advice

Plain & simple ; how can I find the music that plays on Gossip Girl? I've checked cw11.com, but I had no luck.

if you go to the show's website (i forgot what it is =/ just google gossip girl it'll come up)there is a section that has the music they play on every episode with a sample and whatever.


well, it's there so you clearly didn't look hard enough.

[view]

ok so i have been friends with this girl sence she moved her in fifth grade. and i have been frieneds with the other girl since like pre-kay and the sad thing is we got in a fight over the summer and in the middle of the school year we all made up were alll best friends well tahst what i thought but every time i wanna hang out with my best friend the one ive known since 5th grade well she says yeah and the day we are supposed to shes with my other best friend and they never tell me when were supposed to go see a movie they tell me im comeing with them but then they dont call me to tell me what time they are goign an dthen they call me in the movie and say oh we forgot about u sorry i forgive them and now shes like getting on my nerves adn its not fair how they ditch me every time and they are supposed to be my bfflas and they arent really??i have no clue what my question is but why are they still mad at m ei have not done wronge to them even in the fight it was them ganing up on me!some friends riight?

i know how you feel. i went through almost the same exact thing when i was in 7th grade. i was best friends with this girl since 2nd grade. the summer before 6th a girl moved in across the street and we became best friends, until the following summer they basically did what your friends are doing to you.
the girl across the street basically turned my best friend against me and told lies about me, and my best friend didn't realize what she heard was wrong until it was too late. shes all "popular" now and we're kinda friends again, but we're never gonna be best friends like we used to.

i know it's really hard and you probably think you're doing something wrong, but chances are you're not. they're probably just bad friends. i would really consider talking to them seperately and telling them how you feel. if that doesn't help, you have to just realize they're not worth being friends with if they're gonna treat you like that and you can find better friends than them.

good luck

[view]

Has anyone ever seen this workout where you lay on your stomach and lift your arms out infront of you and lift your legs up at the same time?

Does anyone know the name of it and what areas it targets? I know it targets your butt but is it for your back also or no?

yeah it's called the superman.
i usually just feel it in my abs and butt.
its good for defining your abss

[view]

Alright, I'm female and turning fourteen, and I'd like to get a job.

Of course, I'll try to get in at Publix, but, Publix is extremely hard job to get.


The bowling alleys won't hire me. I don't live near any amusment parks...

And, yes, I do baby sit, and other 'jobs' but, I'm looking for a real job.


Also, I've heard a few people say: You can work at a fast food place.

But, every time I go to the website (Not just a website in my state, the website for ALL the reasturants) it says 'no one under the age of 16'

I live in Florida, so keep that in mind, and thank you very much. :)

i'm pretty sure that most grocery stores hire at 14. i asked a girl at whole foods and she said they hire at 14 like baggers and stuff.
so try a local market

[view]

Like I always wondred what goes on in the girls locker room...like i know the guys like are in their boxers and no shirt...but are the girls like freaken in their thongs and training bras?....like i know us guys like wanna be in there when they are getting changed and stuff...but what really happens in "THE GIRLS LOCKER ROOM" (with a voiceover announcer)

it's not like some sort of male fantasy where we're all walking around in thongs and making out haha.
at my school we have stalls (theres no curtain though) and we change with our friends and talk. really not that exiting.

[view]

i'm 15/f/nj is it legal to have sex with a 19 year old guy i know 16 is the age of consent but isnt' there something about if it's with in a certin number of years and your like 14 then its ok

yeah.
he's over 18 and you're under so it would be considerd rape, even though it really isn't. so yeah it's illegal, sorry

[view]

15/f

My handwriting absolutly sucks! Once I forgot to put my name on it and the teacher said it looked like a boys handwriting (since girls are more neater) and when I saw it, it was mine. I'd like to change my handwriting to be neat and clear. Is there any way to make it better?

Do not tell me to write slower and take my time because I need to be able to write fast in school. (lots of notes)

any suggestions?

it might be the way your holding your pen.
look at the way another girl with good handwriting is holding hers, that might make a difference.
also, just keep practicing writing really neat and eventually it will improve

[view]

i got my period in school yesterday and now everyones making suchhh a big deal out of it and being really mean :( im already not very popular but ugh..i got an honesty box message about it on facebook and its beginning to get me down a lot, what do i do?

that's really immature of them.
it's not like the same thing doesn't happen to them every month.
even if it makes you feel bad when people make fun of you, don't let them know it. it will only let them know they're affecting you. just roll your eyes and tell them they're being immature. eventually it will blow over and no one will care anymore

[view]

I had had an eating disorder on and off for 7 years. Right now i am 5'6 and 105 and im 18 and i just turned 18. i really to lose weight.. maybe only like 5lbs. I know from my height and weight, i sound thin, but i do have a couple pounds i could lose. Im not one of those people who thinks theyre enormous when they aren't, but i really want to lose weight. What do you guys think?

you're actually pretty underweight. you really shouldn't lose weight because that would be really unhealthy, but you probably feel, idk, not toned? so to tone up and gain muscle which actually helps burn fat, you should do things like crunches, lunges, maybe running, use dumbels, stuff like that. it will make you feel more defined and look better.

[view]

I need help! Im 13 and all my freinds have gotten there periods but not me. My boobs are big and my sister and my mom got there periods while they were 11. Why am i the only left out one. I read a whole bunch of articals and i predict i will get mine in 6 months minimum. But please help in any way possible!

dont worry about it my mom got it when she was like 11 but i just got it like a month ago haha and i'm 14. it's weird because even though the rest of your body seems to be going through puberty you still don't have your period. so yeah it's totally normal, you should be getting it sometime soon.

[view]

My skin looks like it's chapped, why is it doing this? It usually happens when I get out of the shower, and after putting on my make-up.


Should I put lotion on before applying make-up? Please help, it's really embarrasing!

i have the same problem. you should definitelyyy use moisturizer before putting on makeup as long as after you wash your face. also, to get rid of dead skin that's usually there in the winter, use a toner or exfoliator occasionally

[view]

okay, so this may end up being a tad bit long, but bear with me pleasee :]

ok, so there is this kid at school, and i dont exactly "like him" pursay, but i think i might be starting to.

i dont really have any experience in relationships, but im good with helping friends out and crap. so i really need some help in seeing if this kid likes me or not. i mean i asked my friends, but they usually just assume the best to make me feel better, so it helps to have someones point of view that i dont know.

ok well heres the story,theres this kid, lets call him billy. so me and billy really never talked before, but we knew of each other, you know what i mean? well he was going out with a friend of mine, whos dating him right after billy and her best friend broke up, so i hope you get that shes dating her best friends ex, which is billy. so they were going out and stuff for a while, and me and him started talking.

well eventually they broke up, they didnt last too long. and we kept talking. well we have lunch together, and i sit with his ex at lunch. so we all have lunch together and i walk with billy after study hall on the way too lunch.

well a few days ago, after this school thing, he ended up being behind me, and we started talking. then we were going through a busy hallway and he sort of grabbed me by the hips and led me through. im not sure if thats flirting or what?

we always see each other in the hallway and he stops to talk to me. at another school function, we were talking for a while, and he wanted to give me a hug, i told him i had to go so he said just a really quick hug, and i was like okayy whatever. so he grabbed me and squeezed me really tight and wouldnt let go. it felt really good for some reason, like i wanted it to happen. it felt really nice because ive been distancing myself from guys for a while.

i cant tell if he likes me or not. like i walk down the hallway and see him, but i look out of the corner of my eye at him, you know like not looking at him but seeing him. well i always see him see me, no matter what and he always playfully punches me. its really cute and stuff, but im not sure if he does this with every girl.

so i need some help, do you think he likes me? and do you think his ex/my friend would be really mad at me if i dated him? andd i need something more to talk about with him, now that i think he likes me i starve for words haha.

hes also kind of a player. hes good to his girlfriend when hes dating them, but when they break on he moves on really fast. is that bad?

thanks so much to whoever read that and actually cared :]

i thinkkk he definetaly likes you.
show that you like him back and are interested by being flirty and stuff. if he does like you, he should catch on and maybe you will start dating.

as for your friend, it depends. if they recently broke up, it could be a little akward so you should probably wait. but if it's been a while, it should be fine. in any case, you should talk to your friend to make sure she's okay with it just in case she still has any feelings for him.

good luck, i hope things work out for you and him :]

[view]

hey. well i'm 15/f. k so i love the hills and i really like the way audrina dresses. kinda dark but really cute. where can i get clothes like that, that aren't really expensive? i've asked a question somewhat like this before, but the websites i were givin didn't have anything. like macys and nordstroms, yeah they dont' have much like that. places like the buckle and stuff are what i'm talking about. i just really want clothes like hers. please help!! thanks! o yea, i wear like, large to extra large. thanks a bunch!!

definitely urban outfitters, forever 21, h&m, charlotte russe, nordstrom

you can find good pieces almost anywhere. plus, accessories can make an outfit. bangles, layered necklaces, cute rings, stuff like that.

[view]

okay so me and 11 other girls are hosting a christmas party. we told most of the people to wear like semi-slutty clothes, kind of like booty shorts and a beater or those victoria secret santa skirts, stuff like that. BUT WE DONT KNOW WHAT WE"RE WEARING! any cute ideas thats sexy but not slutty??

i thinkk you can look hot without having to wear like booty shorts. i think like jeans with a vs corset or tank top with a santa hat and pumps could be really cute. or just wear what you told your guests to wear.

[view]

so i found a vibrator in my moms stash of things. lol before i use it or even think of using it..would that be totally gross if i did..she doesnt have std's or i would too since i am her daughter..but should i or shouldn't i use it. thanks

um no.
just the fact that it's your mom's makes it extremely weird. well i would be weirded out anyway.
buttt. anyway. you never know the risks of using someone elses, so get your own or use something else i guess

[view]

In movies, when they have sex scenes, do the actors/actresses actually have sex with eachother? and do they use a condom or anything when doing it? How does that work?

noo, that'd be a little too akward.
in porn, they do of course, but not actual movies.
they just try to make it look real.

[view]

i need a free program that is for photo editing. a really good one too. if you know of any please tell me and remember they have to be free and not illegal. also include the website i get it from.

picasa is pretty goodd. just go to picasa.com and download it it's free

[view]

Hi, I just moved and I really like this boy in my new school. He used to be in all my classes, but now he's only in 2. He's never talked 2 me before, except to say like "excuse me" in the hall or something. I really REALLY want to ask him out, but I just can't. Like today, I was going the same way as him in the hall, so I figured, what the heck I'll ask him out now, cuz nobody knows me anyways. So, I go to ask him, but I end up stepping on the back of his foot!=( I got so embarrassed I could barely say sorry. (But, noone else saw, it was just personal embarrassment) I REALLY want to ask him out, but I just can't, and I don't have many friends yet. PLEASE help me!
by the way, I've never asked a boy out before, or had a boyfriend before.

well you shouldn't ask someone out that you've never even talked to before, because truthfully, he'll say no. start talking to him in your classes casually, like compliment him or something. be flirty, and once you get to know him better and you think he might feel the same, you should ask him out. or you never know, maybe HE'LL ask YOU out :]

[view]

why was the simple life canceled? and why didnt they finish the season first?

it wasn't cancled.. the finale was sunday night. it was the series finale. it didn't just like, get cancled randomly. this is just the last season becausee idk they wanted it to be i guess lol

[view]

which one helps more to get rid of a belly fat? running on a treadmill or other exercises, such as working out the muscles?

ok the only thing that will get rid of belly fat is cardio.. like running,biking,dancing, whatever. doing crunches and stuff DOES NOT BURN FAT. people don't understand that. it tones muscles, so you would have to lose fat in order to even see abs. so try the tredmill and also do muscle exercises to get more results

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker