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Question Posted Thursday December 13 2007, 12:54 am

so i found a vibrator in my moms stash of things. lol before i use it or even think of using it..would that be totally gross if i did..she doesnt have std's or i would too since i am her daughter..but should i or shouldn't i use it. thanks

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lucyjc90 answered Thursday February 18 2010, 4:02 pm:
maybe not the best thing in thw world to do, but we've all doen it and somtimes you just need to cum so wipe it after you and enjoy yourself

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xO_b_r_i_a_n_a_Ox answered Friday December 14 2007, 11:18 pm:
um no.
just the fact that it's your mom's makes it extremely weird. well i would be weirded out anyway.
buttt. anyway. you never know the risks of using someone elses, so get your own or use something else i guess

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Juelz0587 answered Friday December 14 2007, 9:51 pm:
i dont think you should use it. because just cause you dont have an std doesnt mean she doesn't. i mean she could have gotten one after you were born, and then if you use her vibrator...you would have it. im not saying she does im juss saying its possible.

your moms vibrator is such a personal thing. I think it would be gross if you used it. If you want something like that so bad, get your own. that way you dont have to worry about anything. Ask your mom to get you one...she would much rather get you one than buy you condoms i am pretty sure of that.

Just take your moms feelings into consideration if you did use it. i think you will make the right choice!!! good luck!

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ciao77 answered Thursday December 13 2007, 9:25 pm:
Listen, I know the temptation is there...and you've already got a ton of answers for this question. But do not use your mom's vibrator. The fact that you are even having doubts means you know it's wrong. Just put it back and don't use it, period. Be strong and don't give in- it is very personal..it's not like you're borrowing lipstick or a shirt from her. It's a VIBRATOR. Anyway, like one of the others had said, how would you feel if she did the same to you? You'd cringe. If you really want to use a vibrator, get your own. If that's not an option, there are always other things you could try out. But seriously, your mom's vibrator should not be one of them.

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sillyrob answered Thursday December 13 2007, 8:53 am:
I threw up in my mouth a little.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday December 13 2007, 6:02 am:
Thats more than a little weird.

If you want one buy your own. Generally speaking sex is an area where most people are very territorial. Ive purchased sex toys with a previous girlfriend and I always send those along with her because it would be really weird to me to use them with a new girlfriend.

Its just a little too personal.

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lambo94317 answered Thursday December 13 2007, 5:21 am:
REALLY?!?!? YOU CAN'T BE SERIOUS?
1st of all if your mom violated your "stash" how would you feel? would you complain of a lack of trust and privacy? young people often complain that they have no privacy yet have no problem rifling through their parents private matters.
anything you may have found while being on a secret recon mission should be left alone. i am certain this is not an item that was left on the kitchen table in plain view...... therefore it is none of your business. there is nothing wrong with self exploration, but there is something wrong with your invasion.
even if your mother has no diseases there is still a chance of yeast infections, and other problems araising out of using others sexual toys. here is a life lesson, NEVER ever use someone else's sexual toys without washing them and using protection on them just like you would with a man. if this is not clear !!PUT A CONDOM ON IT!!!
you may want to believe that your boyfriend is being clever and bought something like that soley for your usage but the truth is, you never know. there is still a danger present.

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ilovedevon7 answered Thursday December 13 2007, 4:01 am:
No...thats your moms not yours lol.

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LoveNJstyle answered Thursday December 13 2007, 3:09 am:
well i doubt it would be harmful if you washed it a lotttt or put a condom on it [just so it isn't completely gross] but honestly, i think you should just get your own. i mean, if you want to steal her makeup, that's one thing but a personal toy... not a great idea. you can use other everyday objects or some kind of back massager if you don't wanna go to spencers and get yourself one. LOL. <3

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thelaura answered Thursday December 13 2007, 3:02 am:
Don't.
You never know, you might misplace it or do something which will lead to her knowing you've used it.
It doesn't matter if she doesn't have STD's.. it's not the type of thing you'd want to share - especially if it's your mums.
If for some reason you do use it, wash it before and after.. and put a condom on it..

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divatothemax01 answered Thursday December 13 2007, 2:44 am:
idk. its kinda weird. like. you never knoww. and just the fact that like. she uses it "downn yonderrr" :] thats like kinda gross. but if you do use it, which isnt really a big deal, just like take a damp cloth and like attempt to clean it. ahaa.
and even if it is weird to like use your moms vibrator (im sure your not the first personn) its not like anybody would really know so its whatever.
:] kayyy. stay stellarrrrrrr.

you could always buy one too. :]

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