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the bruuunettte.. i am 18 years old. i have been through plenty for my age, so i know what pretty much everything is like. i don't care about ratings, i will answer your question completely honest, and if you don't like it && rate me a 1, i will laugh. it does not phase me. if you're not serious, please do not waste my time. if my advice is not something you like to hear, well too bad, you asked me and that's what i had to say. i am a really [[nice]] girl. i promise. i can give really good advice or really stupid advice if you give me a stupid question. but i guarantee i can help you. just ask! =]



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advice

hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull!

I know this question is really old but I felt like answering it.

Personally, in my opinion, I don't think you could get pregnant. If he went in a little and pulled out and ejactulated on your pubic hairs, then there really is no way to get pregnant. The only way is if the jizz got inside your vagina. I don't know it's my opinion. HOPE i Helped...

♥Amber

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sorry, i have a limmeted time online, but how do you deleat songs off your ipod nano?just deatailed directoins will do, thank you!

you have to get something called "Ipod Updater 2005-03-23" just search for it in www.google.com and then download it.. i had the same problem. so i just download that and you click restore and it deletes alll of your songs off there and then you go on your itunes and take the songs off that you dont want by rick clicking and hitting clear.. and then you update it again.! so yeah ok...

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does anyone know the name of the song by james blunt thats like

"i saw an angel
of that im sure
youre beautiful
youre beautiful"

ya like that...

thanxx ♥

its called.
"You're beautiful"

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i need a cuddle buddy at this time of the year..it makes me sad seein all the couples together =( but whenever me and my friends hang out they are so much more outgoing than me that it kind of intimidates me..like if they arent very outgoing then i am but if they are im not..how can i flirt with these guys when they are also flirting with my other friends..sometimes it makes me jealous..cuz i like alot of attention..like looks and stuff from boys..but yeah im sorta shy at first and im not one to just go up and give hugs or sit close to someone unless they start it..how can i help this. because if i flirt with them im scared they will be like what the heck are you doing..get away from me. also what are some good ways to flirt..im not very good at it hahaha it sucks. well thanks!

well...
i mean if you like attention then you have to show people you do! you cant be shy and quiet you have to be loud and fun! and just let them know whose the life of the party! hahahah well yeah and if a boy does start flirting with you then dont turn it down..flirt back!
XO
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Well i want to have a great winter break..only like 7 more school days WooP wooP! haha but anyways..i want to do somethin sweeeet for new years ..like go to a party or something..but im not one to get invited to parties. i kinda wanna drink a lil and like kiss some boys ;) trust me im not a slut..dont worry. i just need a boy! lol what can i doo.. because i cant have a party..i wouldnt be allowed but i never get invited to any =( hmm..any suggestions?

well..
you dont always have to go to parties..
why dont you go to a friends house and have then invite some people over (not alot) and just kick it and drink... not a party but you know.. and if there is boys there just keep an eyes out for the ones who seem to be flirting with you and maybe if you get drunk enough you can make the first move... haha =) let me know what happens =)

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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear
xoxox

well first off,
you CANT be shy if you want to get with a guy who supposably "gets some" from girls.. so maybe you can have a friend that knows him introduce you guys and just talk to him keep in touch... and if you are that shy ask one of your friends to ask for him number so you can call eachother for the 2 weeks you wont see him... i mean you dont know if he doesnt know you exist.. he could be thiking the exact same thing about you! =) you never know...so just talk to him and see how things work out... tell me what happens tomorrow!!
Xo
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so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked my him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..ad then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

well if he like pushes you around i dont think thats flirting... i think if the girl does that to a guy then thats more like flirting.. mostly what guys do to flirtis they are always asking you "can i have a hug" or telling you that you look hott or something like that! but im not sure if he doesnt like you either he may be the sarcastic type but idk.. maybe you should see what happens omorrow or something and then tell me what happens!

XO
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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?

well i mean you could talk to him for her..and tell him all the good things about her and if he starts to flirt with you then you should be HONEST and be like ok well i think your cute in all but i dont want to hurt my friend because i know how much she likes you and so on and so forth and if you cant get them together then i mean you tried and you cant blame yourself ...
Xo
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do you think having brown eyes and hair is ugly!? cuz usually the boys go for blue eyes..ughhhh i dont know? what could i do to make my eyes like shine and just very big and bold! i dont know how to do the smokey look or whatever so that doesnt help =\ any other suggestions!?
thanks

well i have brown eyes and hair.. so i cant really say its ugly because i would have very low self esteem...but no not alll guys go for blue eyes... brown eyes are pretty too and maybe you can just wear some eyeliner on top and bottom to make it like outline your eyes to make then stand out and you could try some bright eyeshadows i mean you shouldnt not like the way you are (hair/eyes) your beautiful inside and out! and if you have to change your look just for a guy to like you then thats not a god idea..! he should like you for whats on teh inside! ..xo hope i heloed
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so like all the girls hang out with guys..and i never dooO! i wanna but i never have the courage to be like oh yeah we should hang out sometime..i would feel stupid and afraid of rejection..how can i like ask a guy to do something..or even with a group of friends? i dont even like start talking to a guy first usually..they talk to me first and if they dont i dont talk to them..this is a problem! help!!

ok.. well first of all if you want to hang out with a guy or do something you cant be shy.. which it seeems you are because you are afraid to ask.. trust me the girls who talk to the guys are more couragable.. and its not hard to do it... like if you are good friends with the person or watever just be like so what are you doing this weekend.. and if he automatically says hes doing something the whollleee weekend.. then you know he doesnt wanna hang out with you... but if hes like oh nothing or idont know yet just be like oh well a bunch of us should all hang out this weekend.. something like that! dont be afraid!
XO
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well i shave "down there" or like the bottom part i do..i dont know its confusing but anyways how often should you shave it? or like keep it clean..everyday? and is it normal to feel kind of itchy and like prickles down there .. lol thanks.

well you shouldnt shave it like everyday because that causes irritation and bumbs and razor burn... you should maybe shave like 2 or 3 times a week.. and you should always keep it clean! everyday!! and yes it is normal to feel itchy after you have shaved... so dont worry! xo anything else..let me know!

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ont he about me section i can't get my lines to do this....
i want it to look like this
but it wont does anyone know what i mean?
please help!

type.. these : < > and in between those type
br make sure theres no spaces in betweeen though...=)

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Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!

i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it

Abercrombie & Fitch is an amazing store, expensive, but it has a lot of cute clothes. Why should you anybody tell you what your style should be? Its what you like its your opinion. but in my opinion I say Yes, because their clothes are comfortable and cute. =)
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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?

you will get use to it..
since it was your first time you were probably reely tight so of course it will be sore.. but you wont be uncomfortable after all the times that he does that! you will get use to it. trust me

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kinda of very weird question ever asked---- seriously is there any way to judge whether a female had sex earlier in her part of life or not? jus by looking at her....? No offense...jus info

well theres no way you could judge and actually know FOR SURE, but if a girl is dressed like a slut, all hoochie and is with guys all the time touching then and flirting and stuff basically saying "I WANT YOU" then yeah i think you would know she has had sex before..

XO
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my boyfriend asked me if he could touch me in 'places'. what exactly could that mean?
i'm 13/f in the 8th grade.. HELP

it could mean a lot of things..
he probably wants to get in your pants..
feel you up..ya know?
touch your boobs butt vagina..etc..

XO
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when you wear an OB tampon...should you wear a pad too? can you feel if you leak when you have a tampon in?

no you dont normally need to wear a pad with a tampon.. but sometimes people tend to leak.. so you may want to wear a pantyliner.. but thats up to you!.. and if you have a heavy flow, and dont want to wear a pantyliner just by a tampon that is for a heavyer flow...
xo hope i helped you if not, then leave me a message in my inbox and i will do my best!

XO
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Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? I getting sick of it! please help! XO

do you mean it gets all loose and just eventually falls out?!
yes it has happened to me before... like only when i run, because i am in softball but maybe you could just tie it a little tighter, like if you loop it around twice.. try looping it 3 times.. or 4... it should stay put!..you can also get hair ties called "scuncii" they are tight and wont fall out...
hope i helped you!!!!
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okay heres the thing- i started my period on july 4. i haven't had it since then, and today is december 6. umm yeah tell me this is normal or not normal? and also.. is there some way that i might have been stopped or something? im 13/f (im not sexually active) and umm i do competitive soccer and cheerleading 4 my school if that gives u a clue. thanks!
OX

Aww hey sweetie..
well if you are not sexually active then theres no way that you are pregnant so dont worry about that! but i remember the same thing happened to me i started and then didnt start for a while... i guess you could say its normal.. because your body cycle could have skipped a couple of periods.. or it just stopped it untill your body is ready to handle it.. it probably wasnt the right time for you to start your period.. but just in case always carry tampons/pads in your purse and maybe even wear a pantyliner just in case you start at school..you dont want to leak. so i hope this helped you and if you have more questions feel free to ask !!! XO

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

it seems to me like you wear bikini underwear.. and if he loves you he won't care what kind you wear. so yeah im pretty sure it will all work out

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