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Ok! Me and My boyfriend Logan both are really jealous, and greedy people. So, one day he gets mad at me for going over to my friend Dougs house, so we get into an argument, and I bring up the time he went to his friends house, who he happened to have asked out last year, and he got mad at me saying it's not the same, so we both agreed that he would avoid Brittany if I avoided every guy I knew. But, he took it back today, and said he wanted to be her friend again. So I said I wanted to go to Dougs birthday, and he got mad at me, and said that I was being selfish.
So, basicaly...
Am I being selfish, or do I have the right to be mad? Because, if I have the right to be mad, I don't want to back off, I want to keep arguing until he comes to realize that maybe he screwed up, but if I am just being selfish, I want to appologize so everything will be better again. (link)
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yes you should because he is trying to control you which he doesnt have the right to do. dont let him tell you who you can and cant be friends with. tell him that he is being controlling and overbearing and he needs to let you have your friends as you let him. dont let him be hypocrytical
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Well u may all remember me from "I dont know what to do with my life" but here I am again. I feel as though I am hanging by a thread now. I've never felt this bad in all my life.I have horrible thoughts of walking in front of cars, thinking this will only hurt for a second, if I dont die, at worst Ill end up in hospital and be taken care of for a lil while (I know what u must be thinking). I can cut myself and think, just how deep is too deep. I do it where no one can see-but my boss knows me too well and she knows whats going on. These horrible thoughts take up much of my waking hours when I'm not at work. I wouldnt exactly say i like these thoughts...i would say that i deserve it, i desrve the pain. Whats wrong with me? I need help before I go too far. (link)
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if you are thinking about suicide.. then you need to seek professional help. suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. tell a parent or a friend or talk to your boss. you need to talk to someone it sounds as tough you are depressed and may need medication.
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Well me and my boyfriend of 5 months have been fighting so much lately. It’s killing me inside! I don’t know, were both such jealous people and he doesn’t go to my school and he’s working while I’m at school so like we both made promises not to talk to (me to guys, him to girls.) but like I told him I talked to this nerdy geek kid yesterday and he got like so mad and I was like oh my gosh im sorry but you talked to a girl at the mall, (cause we went to the mall yesterday and someone ran up to him and said OMG HEY.) and I got soo sad, but he doesn’t even care he says its all me and I shouldn’t have talked to the geek and I know, yeah yeah.. but TODAY! K well we were texting eachother and he said if either of us finds out one another talks to a (girl, guy, ya.) that it’s over cause we need to stop lying, blaah but yeah he didn’t believe me this morning and so he started being soo rude and calling me an asshole, dumbass, and stuff and I was like oh my gosh I’m not taking this it’s over! And then I was like AH ITS NOT OVER PLEASE GO BACK OUT WITH ME because I love him so much and do not ever wanna loose him but I’m not gonna be called names and hes like we’ll talk at your house.. and wont answer to go out with me? Its killing me, I love him more than lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! What should I do?!!? (link)
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hunny its not right to be in a relationship where you arent ALOUD to talk to boys and him ALOUD to talk to girls. that is a very unhealthy relationship. boundaries are okay but setting limits is bad. he doesnt have a right to control you and you him. him calling you names is signs of a scumbag. you need to tell him that you love him but you arent going to take this. he cant put an ultamatum on ur relationship saying u will break up if you do this or that. you need to dump him or tell him he needs to change.
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I'm 26 yr old male and my brother passed away a few years ago, leaving his son who is now 12. I'm am still very close to my nephew. I talk to him on the phone alot, email with him, etc. His mom is a terrible mom, who happens to have 2 other kids from 2 other men and wastes the social security money from my brother on cigarettes, alcohol, and frivilous items. She pays no attention to the boy and he stays with his grandma most nights because she doesnt wake him up in time for him to go go school. I'm afraid my nephew might soon turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. I've also noticed quite a lack of self esteem. I know that he has had 'girlfriends' but have yet to see them or meet them. His friends seem to be good, but I believe Im too old to be able to judge 12-13 year olds. He needs a man in his life and everytime Im in the area he always stays with me (I live 2 hours away). I plan to move back into the area soon and feel that he may want to live with me. Heres the questions:
1. How can I help to make sure he stays on the right path until I get there? I've already had the sex, drinking, pot, and cigarette talks with him.
2. How could I approach to his mother the possibility of him living with me, which I want to happen for his sake.
3. If he were to move in with me, would it be wrong to ask for the social security that HE should be getting for my brother's death so I can start a fund for him for college, car, etc.? (link)
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to answer your first question, talk to him about it. tell him that you want him to be able to tell you the truth about what hes doing. talk to him over and over about the things you stated above. drill them into his head. to answer the second question, sit her down and tell her that you know she has a lot to deal with now and that you are willing to take him into your home and that it would be best for him. make sure you have everything planned out first. every detail from where he would sleep to the school system even to how you would help him. to answer your third question, i think that after you get his mother to agree to let him live with you, maybe a month or so later bring the idea up to her but dont push it because she might take him back because she will think that the only reason you took him was for the money. i hope i helped -helen
p.s. i think that this is a great thing you are trying to do for him!!
(im glad that i could help =])
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is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering
15/m
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it depends. some guys look good with it. i think alot of guys who have it are sexy and its not all looks.
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Okay, so there's this guy, and we'll call him David. He used to and still likes my best friend, and she never liked him, up until now. Last night she made me call him to ask if he still liked her, and tonight he called me saying yes. Now, I understand that if you like someone you're allowed to talk to other people(female friends in this case), and instead of hanging up right away and having her call him back, he kept conversation with me. Now, we're making plans to hang out and what not, and I haven't yet gotten her approval because she went up to another state for Thanksgiving. Any advice on what I should do? I kind of like him, and he's cool and all, but I would NEVER take him away from my best friend, but what should I do? I have no way of communicating with her until Saturday, so...? Any advice?
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well i think that it would be ok for you to hangout as long as thats all ur doing maybe have it be a group. and if anything happens you need to tell her the truth.
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I've been seeing this girl for a while now and things are getting serious. We've talked and I think soon we're going to have sex. But I have a problem. I'm really insecure about the size of my penis. I'm not stupid, I know size matters, but how much does it matter? I mean, is it possible to be good if you aren't average or bigger? (link)
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well size does matter but not to the extent guys think. a guy can be good even if his penis is average. just dont be so worried about it or you will get nervous. maybe just talk to her about your insecurity be honest. girls are more sensitive and she wont be mean or make jokes
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(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so like 5 years ago, i developed this wierd mark on my back. It's grown to take up about 1/8th of my back. It even frightens me and now i'm afraid to take my clothes off. This "mark" prevents me from going swimming and having fun. My parents say its a birth mark but i'm starting to doubt it. It's pretty big and if you'd like to see some pictures of it, just ask but please be prepared with some answers :] (link)
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it may be a mole or something. i actually know someone who had something similar happen. my screenname is on my page to send me pictures =]
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16-f. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 5 months [we go to diff. schools, just incase that helps]. and im TERRIBLY jealous and i hate it. pretty much all of his friends are girls but hes not a player or the type that flirts around, hes only had 3 girlfriends before me [likewise with me], so im only jealous because i freak out that hes going to like some other girl and leave me, but hes never given me a reason to be jealous. he reassures me all the time that he loves me more than anything and would never leave me and wants to be with me forever, and sometimes i can snap myself out of feelin jealous and feel better, but other times it just drives me insane and makes me feel sick to my stomach i worry so much. what can i do to stop feeling like this? ive already talked to him about it and again he keeps reassuring me that he couldnt love anyone else as much as me, and dont say just realize that hes with ME and not them and be greatful, because i know and i respect that but i still feel jealous. even if he just adds a girl to his top 8 or has a random text messsage from one of his friends. ahh! (link)
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i feel exactly the same towards my boyfriend of a year and a half. he goes to a different school. the way i feel is that im a girl and i know how girls can be when they want a guy bad enough and it scares me that he might get dragged in with the wrong "crazy" girl. but you have a right to be jealous its natural but if theres no reason, like theres never been any suspiscion then just think. he is my boyfriend and hes with me and he has been for 5 months .. hes mine! lol hope i helped
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i've heard that hydrogen peroxide is a good acne treatment...is this true? has anybody ever used it on a pimple?
oh and i just tried using it on like an under the skin pimple and it turned its surface white! will this go away? it isn't the actual whitehead it is like it turned my skin right above the zit pure white (i'm talking like snow white). what is this?
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hydrogen peroxide get the dirt from under the skin to the top clearing it fully to prevent more but using it will cause whiteheads at first
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soo i have this friend right and his name is marc.. well marc has a girlfriend named ashley and me and her use to be really good friends and so did me and marc but one day marc had said some suff that he shouldent have said and i have a really bad temper so i slaped him, his girlfriend and i had it out and now were not friends and rele dont want to be friends with her ever agin because she starts a whole bunch of stuff... well me and marc appoligized to each other but sence this girl ashley keeps bringing it up to him he keeps getting pissed and he want talk to me... and well now him and ashley broke up. so i thowt things would be good between me and him ((also marc and my boyfriend are bestfriends, so i want to be friends with marc so my boyfrined can just relax and have no proplems)) well any who today me and marc were talking and i asked him why he aint talkin to me any more and he said that he lost all respect for me, i reminded him that we both had appoligized for what we did and told him that i made a mistake... and now all i want to do is be his friend agin i mean i know it would mean a whole lot to my boyfriend of almost 2 years if me an marc made up, so please tell me what to do to make up with one of my oldest friends... please... (link)
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maybe prove to him that you are really sorry and that being his friend again would be really important not to just you but to your boyfriend. if he at least respects ur boyfriend than he should forgive you. it was a stupid mistakes everyone makes them
(write him a letter with everything you want to say and read it to him or give it to him in person. try to involve him in your relationship invite him to hang out with u and ur bf just show him that you want ur friendship to happen again. but be careful not to make ur bf jealous)
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ive been talking to this guy for almost 2 months. we have sex and everything, and im 17 and hes 20, but weve been friends ever since we were little kids. and we wouldnt be able to have a relationship because people would say stuff about it and i dont like that. and now i think im starting to develope feelings for him and i dont want to if we cant be anything.. cause im still in high school, and i dont think he has feelings for me cause he has a history with girls, like cheating and stuff.. and i dont think hes in for that.. and since im younger, i think he just wants to have sex and thats it. like when we have sex as soon as were done, he puts his clothes on and drops me off.. but when i talk to other guys, he gets mad and i dont know if hes acting like he cares.. what do you think? (link)
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well he obviously cares about you but maybe he just doesnt want to get involved because he knows its illegal until your 18. just ask him about it.
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Okay, there is this guy I've been going out with now for a bit over a month. When my friend hooked us up, we had never even talked to each other before, but she insisted that he liked me, so I said yes to give him a chance. His friends say it's hard for him to admit to things. My boyfriend talks about this girl a lot, but he told me that he USED to like her and that it wouldn't be fair for him to like her while he's going out with me. But sometimes I wonder if he's going out with me because he likes me, or if he's going out with me because he wants to have a girlfriend. He's never had a girlfriend before me. He honestly doesn't show much interest, but he is shy. His friends say he never talks about me. I don't know..is there a way to get him interested if he's not? I don't even know if I should bring up these issues if he has a hard time admitting things. Ugh..I really like him, and it would hurt to have him not like me at all. Please help?! (link)
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just ask him whats going on. ask him for the truth because your relationship needs to be based on honesty =]
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so i've liked the same guy since 10th grade, so it's been 2 years. he's already a freshmen in college and i haven't seen him since this past summer, anyways, i can't get over him and i can't stop thinking about him. gahh. it's really annoying. what should i do? (link)
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do you talk to him? why dont you try to talk to him online or email each other. otherwise try to keep busy and not think abot him.
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i was wondering if anyone had any good song suggestions for me. i want songs that are kind of gangster and punk and slow, so basically a variety. please list the title and artish
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hate me-Blue October
face down-red jumpsuit apparatus
cold and invincible-crossfade
through the glass-stone sour
shimmy shimmy quarter turn-hellogoodbye
what hurts the most-rascal flatts
leave the pieces-the wreckers
not ready to make nice-dixie chicks
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see, theres this boy that i used to hookup with and i was friends with for the longest time, and see we got into a fight over nuthin really but now we haven't talked in a LONG time, but i know for a FACT that he's cheating on his girlfriend.. and i sometimes (on/off) get along with her, but idk wether to tell her or not.. i kno it would be right to.. but i dont want to hurt he & my friednship even if we aren't talking at the moment.. you know?? what should i do? (link)
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you should have someone else tell her if you want her to know but not ruin your and his friendship. =]
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Alright. My boyfriend and I have thought a LOT about having sex with each other. I really want to and I'm ready but I'm only 15, and if I explained to my folks that I need birth control, they'd kill me. I know I'm ready because we've been dating for quite sometime, and I'm very in love with him and I want him to be my first. We've planned to stay together for a while and I'm not one of those girls who just blabber on and on about how I love this person so so so much. I take things seriously and I don't say I love you every 5 minutes because it's something very special to say. Not only do you have a healthy, good physical relationship with each other, we've got an amazing emotional one too. We're so open with each other, it throws me off guard sometimes. He's my best friend in the whole wide world and we even broke up with each other a few months ago but we never stopped talking like we do now and we didn't stop seeing other. He's amazing, I love him, and we can't ever get enough of each other. At school, we're together, and then after school we're on the phone until bedtime. Then on weekends we're together. Theres always things to talk about when we're together and theres always things to do. We get along amazingly and we have a really strong connection. Hes so practical and logical too. He's very smart with his decisions and he's helped me along so well. I've had a lot happen to me the past few years and I went off track but now my life is great and things are going smoothly. See now I want to have sex with him, and I already think my parents suspect that we fool around. Would fooling around be considered sexually active? Do I sound ready for sex? Someone please help me, I've talked to him about this as well and he doesn't know what to do. We need some clearing up!! (link)
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well no one can actually tell you if you are ready for sex .. you need to make that choice .. although you sound extremely confident in your relationship and with your boyfriend. which is always great in a relationship.
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I like my best guy friend. He doesn't know it. But I get extremely jealous when he spends time with this one girl. I don't care if he spends time with girls, there's just this certain girl I'm worried about. I KNOW they're just friends, and that he for sure doesn't like her, but why do I get so jealous? I cry myself to sleep every night they hang out/talk. I know I can't control him, he's not mine. We've talked about it, he knows I don't like her, etc. Whenever they talk/hang out I never get mad I just get seriously depressed, I can cry for up to 2 hours. What is wrong with me? I think I just don't understand why he's spending time with her, and not me, but I'm not sure. Is there any tips you guys can give me about how to calm down when I get jealous? Thanks. (link)
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just tell yourself that he doesnt like her you know that FOR A FACT. that you two are good friends .. maybe you should tell him you have feelings for him. although theire are consequences to that but you have to fight for the ones you love/like =]
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My ex boyfriend (of 2 months) was amazing. I loved him to bits! The first day I met him, I ended up kissing him with tounges. Then later on he called me and told me about his girlfriend, he said they were on a break and things would never work out between them so he was going to dump her.
He did the next day and asked me out. I obviously said yes!
He then went on holiday for 2 weeks. We talked online and we said how much we missed each other!
He was so sweet.
About a week later he went away to camp with his friends and scouts (he was a young leader)
When he got back I went to his house and he told me he had something to tell me.
He told me he had cheated on me with his ex (she had given him a bj)
After lots of thought i decided to stay with him.
I stayed with him for another 2 weeks, then I met this guy. He was really sweet and funny. He kissed me just on the cheek and I knew it was over with my boyfriend!
So we ended it, much to his upset.
This was a month and a half ago!
He still follows me home asking if we can get back together and he calls me all the time!
I don't know what to do because I still really love him. And I lost my virginity to him after knowing that he had cheated on me.
I don't know how to get rid of him nicely because I don't want to hurt his feelings! (link)
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well do you love him? if you do then maybe you should give him another chance. and what about the other nice sweet boy? did you give him a chance. you should talk to you exbf and tell him that because of what he did (cheating) than it would be hard to be in a relationship because you cant trust him. if you want to be with him than be with him. follow your heart. it all comes down to who you think about before you falls asleep =]
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kk well me and ex broke up almost 3 weeks ago and i still have feelings for him but am in the process of moving on. He still has feelings for me too but just doesnt act on them. Anyway today while i was working (@ a grocery store) his parents met and spoke to me-im a cashier and they went through my cash....anyway i guess when they got home they told him all about it and how i had changed cause he spoke to me! and told me all about what his parents said.I tried talking to him before and he seemed all cocky and mean but this time he was nice and friendly. However I played it cool and pretended i had homework to do so i didnt talk too much but what do you think of this? is he intrested and what would be my next step to get him to come back to me? or should i just continue with my process of letting go? Thanks a Bunch! (link)
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well first things first .. do you want him back .. if you do possibly you should play a little hard to get but not too much or he will think you dont like him. if you arent sure if you want to be together again then let him go just be friends
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