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Would this ruin our friendship?
Okay, so there's this guy, and we'll call him David. He used to and still likes my best friend, and she never liked him, up until now. Last night she made me call him to ask if he still liked her, and tonight he called me saying yes. Now, I understand that if you like someone you're allowed to talk to other people(female friends in this case), and instead of hanging up right away and having her call him back, he kept conversation with me. Now, we're making plans to hang out and what not, and I haven't yet gotten her approval because she went up to another state for Thanksgiving. Any advice on what I should do? I kind of like him, and he's cool and all, but I would NEVER take him away from my best friend, but what should I do? I have no way of communicating with her until Saturday, so...? Any advice?
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of course it should be ok, and if shes not ok with it, shes not someone hed want for a girlfriend anyways,
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well i think that it would be ok for you to hangout as long as thats all ur doing maybe have it be a group. and if anything happens you need to tell her the truth.
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Chill out dear.
He said he still liked her. Hanging out with you doesn't mean he likes you too and making plans doesn't mean you are going on a 'date'. People are allowed to hang out as friends. You don't need your friend’s permission to hang out with him innocently.
If you say you'll never take him away from her, then don't. Don't flirt, just hang out and have some fun.
Don't make a problem out of nothing. If you are really uncomfortable about hanging out with him, call and cancel with some excuse about family or the long weekend.
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