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CHEATiNG!!!
see, theres this boy that i used to hookup with and i was friends with for the longest time, and see we got into a fight over nuthin really but now we haven't talked in a LONG time, but i know for a FACT that he's cheating on his girlfriend.. and i sometimes (on/off) get along with her, but idk wether to tell her or not.. i kno it would be right to.. but i dont want to hurt he & my friednship even if we aren't talking at the moment.. you know?? what should i do?
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The best thing to do is stay out of it.. It's not your business.
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you should have someone else tell her if you want her to know but not ruin your and his friendship. =]
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Well, I draw the line at friendship and family...I'll get involved if it includes either, but thats it. And when I say 'friendship' I don't mean acquaintances, I mean friends...close friends. Otherwise, I dont feel its worth it to even get involved...I'm not the police of the dating world. If its not either friends or family, I just dont want to get drawn in to some serious drama...which can happen if you do stick your nose in. I'm not saying I think its ok to cheat, I dont, but is it worth getting involved with?
Given what I said above, I wouldn't get involved with this if I were you, and I would stay away. You aren't friends with the boy, you 'used' to hook up with him, and you havent talked in some time. The girl...you say you sometimes get along with her, but that seems to me to mean that sometimes you dont get along with her, either.
If in the end you are determined to get involved, well thats your decision...but in that case I would advise either writing her an anonymous letter or something else along those lines, unless you want your name coming up and having people angry at you for getting involved.
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