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Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
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Age: 13
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Member Since: August 11, 2005
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On november 1st I got a boyfriend, and even though we have only been dating a little while I love him and know he is the one for me! Well here is the other part of the story.
Before me and my boyfriend started dating I had this thing going on with my ex boyfriend. Then my exboyfriend said alot of mean stuff to me. Like im a slut and i cant get any guys and all that stuff. Then when I got my boyfriend (that i am with now) my ex boyfriend apologized. My exboyfriend is in my gym class and everyone says that he keeps looking at me. He even poked my tummy! what is up with that? I mean he insulted me (but he apologized) what is he thinking? THe bad part is I kinda like knowing he is looking at me and stuff...
Whats going on?
I rate well (link)
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Forget him. You have a boyfriend, and your ex sounds kind of mean.
!~*becca*~!
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Im 13/f i have been ridding since i was 5 and i have never till yesturday i didnt get hurt or anything in fact i just got right back on but i never told my parents i just knew if i told them they would never let me ride agian cause they would be so afride for me and i think it is to late to tell them now cause if i told them now they would be even more mad i did not tell them as soon as it happend what should i do? (link)
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Just don't tell them. It's not a big deal, really, if you didn't get hurt. I also don't see why they would get mad.
!~*becca*~!
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right this is so hard to explain here i go well theres this boy called james who when i first saw him i thought yes hes nice and well he asked me out i said no because another boy in school asked me out lets call him Alex. Well i grew to really like alex and alex asked me out and i said no because off james. James took me home the other day and well he tryed to kiss me and he basically tried to force me to kiss him and i really did not like that because i decided i did not want to kiss him but we touched lips not a proper kiss just like a touch. Now i feel kinda bad because i really like alex. Alex is the one i want to kiss but i just can't when he goes to kiss me i kinda back away i think what if i do it wrong will he still like me? ahhh and my friend asked alex for his number and he never gave it to her i was sooo happy... Alex says he loves me all the time and james shows no interest.. What shall i do. But the thing is i like another guy in school who ive never talk to and i kinda told his friend i like his friend and im not sure whats going to happen now. Thank you in advance.x (link)
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Ugh I hate when this happens. Do what you think is right. If you really like Alex and he likes you too, then go for him. He sounds like a better guy than James.
!~*becca*~!
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sorry its long
I like this guy, he is 3 years older than me. but i dont want to liek him. we are really good friends and we hooked up and we started tlaking, he told me stuff about him and i told him thing we were really close we would kiss when we saw eachother wich was alot, but one night he got really drunk and hooked up with this girl. i found out and got really really really upset because i really liked him. even that night he called me up asking me where i live when he knows where i live cuz hes been to my house a million times. the next day he aske dif i was mad at him and i said why did you have to lead me on and then treat me like that and he said i told you it wouldnt work out for us because of our age. so i got upset, then homecoming happend and shit happend so he imed me and he asked me if i was feeling alright and we were actullay talking and he came over that monday after and we hungout but after taht things changed. we would still talk but not romanticly and it was because he met this girl and it turned out they like eachother now, and im upset, i say im over him and stuff but im not. and i even talk to him about how i want someone serious and he says he wants to settle down and not hookup with so many girls and i thinkhe wants somethign with this girl. ANYWAYS, i dont want to have feelings for him, and i want to be his friend. (link)
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Maybe he is too old for you. I don't know because it really depends on what age group you're in.
If you really want to get over him, then don't hang around him. Try to avoid him all the time, because the more you're around a person, the more you like them. Usually. Flirt with other guys. There are others. Keep in mind it's really hard to stay friends with a guy once the relationshop is over, but it's possible. I wouldn't count on it. This guy shoulds like a jerk. Find a better one. Good luck.
!~*becca*~!
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Im 16 and scared! I have been on my period for 28 days (bleeding for 28 days) you only supose to only stay on 5-8 days. I just started using the new Nuva Ring (birthcontrol). I put it in a day after I first came on, could I have been pregnant and not know and killed the baby if there was one? (link)
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This is not supposed to happen. Go see a doctor NOW!!
!~*becca*~!
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hello,iam 23 years old female ,my name is amanda
i met a 3o year old man online, and he lives in another country.i havent seen him before but we talked on the phone. from the way he chats and talks with me he seems to be so honest.and iam saying so honest means u can never have any doubt that he could be a liar.
this relation has been on for4 monthes now but i started to lose confidence in him.
2 monthes ago he said is going to travel to canada for his urgent eye operation but after 25 days when he came back and talked on the phone i asked him how did ur operation go?he answered i didnt do it, i was in(our origin country)cus his uncle died and his mother entered to the hospital.i was shocked that if he were in (our origin country)why didnt he call me?
next after one month he said he is comming to (our country)and he will see me but when he came he called as a wrong number just to hear my voice(i guess), and no respond till now, he keeps his mobile off. although iam sure he is still here and didnt travel yet.
what makes him far away from me although he said he is in love with me?
If he is having fun,what he expects to get from me though idont talk love with him and i dont even say that i love him.
how could i know that he really wants me?is he honest.plz i need your advice (link)
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Okay well you really don't know this guy so if you accually meet him in real life he could rape you or whatever. There have been cases like this so just be on your guard.
I really don't know how to help you with your "relationship" besides saying that it isn't real and go find a real boyfriend who you accually know. no offence. don't rate, please.
!~*becca*~!
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does anyone know where you can go online to listen to music... (the whole songs not samples) without having to download anything...
easy 5's for help (link)
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Yahoo music!! All you have to do is sign up to Yahoo.com.
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can you get any STD's from being fingerd....i didnt cum or anything like that ...but i was fingerd and it was my first time and i worried (link)
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Yes, if there were tears on his fingers. If he was bleeding the tiniest bit, you could get AIDS or whatever. Get tested! Keep me posted! I hope you don't have AIDS.
!~*becca*~!
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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true? (link)
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Depends on how long you've been chewing it lol.
!~*becca*~!
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Does anybody know a website of a place that sells cute women's vintage-style sweater vests? Any help is appreciated.
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Try ebay. They have everything for cheap. Oh and they ebay staff check that they people accually have the stuff, because I know someone who got jipped by yahoo, but said ebay makes sure they have it. Most people don't sell things that are pieces of crap. Don't buy anything that doesn't have a picture!!!
!~*becca*~!
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Okay I really like this guy. Well I have heard he liked me too but I don't know I am a freshman and he is a Jr. (same age as my older brother and they have conflicts) Well I want to see if he likes me but I am scared too. His cousin says he always talks about me and he is really sweet to me. He will come up and hug me and tell me that I am looking good and stuff like that. I want to ask him out but I am scared to. I guess I am afraid of rejection. Then one of my friends likes him too. and if she found out how I feel about him she would hate me... but he like hates her cuz she acts like a big ole' whore and stuff like that. So I am stuck... I also told his sister (which is my age) and when she found out that girl liked him too she was MAD cuz she HATES her. but she made me feel better when she told me he would never go after her. but I still don't know..
What should I do?
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I think you should go out with him. That other girl should realize that she has no chance with him and then get over it. Talk to her though. You don't want to lose a friend. But don't not go out with him just because she sorta likes him. It really depends on your situation. If this girl is one of your BEST friends, then I would ask her if it was okay first, because I've liked this guy once (a lot) and this one girl went out with him and I got really mad because she didn't talk to me about it. I would've been (almost) okay with it if she talked to me first. Good luck in getting that guy!!
!~*becca*~!
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me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me? (link)
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Stay away from from him!! He sounds like a total ass and if you get involved with him more then he could end up doing more than slapping you! Do tell someone! If you let him get away with that then he'll think he can get away with more! Guys like that are DANGEROUS and can end up seriously hurting you, physically and emotionally. I hope he doesn't hurt you any more. Keep me posted!
!~*becca*~!
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ok look it has been about 5 weeks now that i had sex.. well i didnt want to.. wat happended is that my brother had one of his friends coming up and im 13 and the guy was 17.. and wen i went in my room he was on the bed just sitting there and starring at me. he told me to come over and i did well he started to kiss me.. and wen he did all i said is that i just wanted to kiss.. but he started to touch me down there and i was scared i pullrd bak and said dont i just wanna kiss. and he said ok well we started kissing and he did it again he was kinda forcing himself on me well then it lead to ''''sex'''' i dont no if i should tell someody about it i mean i did it but i didny want to... help (link)
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Make it COMPLETELY CLEAR to him that you don't want to have sex. If he doesn't listen then get help!! Don't worry about getting in trouble. He could seriously hurt you.
He's too old for you! You're 13, you're too young for sex. He's probably used to older girls who are used to that kind of thing. Make sure he knows your boundaries. Don't be afraid to stand up to him! Good luck!
!~*becca*~!
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theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me? (link)
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You should wait. I wouldn't want anyone knowing my secret. Get to know him more and wait for him to open up to you more. Don't pester him about it.
!~*becca*~!
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19/f
I met someone who was only in my hometown for a week, and we kissed, talked, and really connected. I seriously fell for him.
Of course, some people will think we were only together as rebounds, because he lost a friend and I was getting out of a serious relationship with someone. Regardless, he made me feel happy and alive.
I gave him my email address and phone number, he gave me his favorite hat. It's been over a week, and I have not heard from him. Should I just forget him, or make an effort to contact him?
I've been searching for a phone number/email but my search so far has come up fruitless. I don't know what to do. He's in the military and I would just love to talk to him before he has to go to Iraq again. However, I don't want to completely freak him out and seem "stalkerish." So even if I found a number, I don't know if I'd have the guts to call it.
It worries me that he hasn't tried contacting me yet. Maybe he thinks that since I was going through a lot that he should just back off. Maybe he felt nothing for me and really is a jerk. I don't know. Should I be patient, or make a move?
I am trying to forget about him and trying not to make the relationship anymore than what it was. It's hard because I keep thinking about him. I just need to tell him thanks (the reason is very personal and complicated so I don't want to go into detail.) Maybe if I could just tell him that, then I could move on. But for now, I feel like I have something I seriously need to get off my chest and it's driving me insane not being about to explain things!! (link)
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Know this: long distance relationships suck, so don't even bother trying it. You should keep in contact with him, though.
He probably wouldn't think it's "stalkerish" if you called him, but if he put no effort into contacting you, then don't waste your time with him. I think you should forget about him, because you're probably not going to see him again (not anytime soon at least).
!~*becca*~!
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Hey, I'm a fourteen year old female, and I have been smoking for around eight months. I'm sure that there are a huge quantity of smokers here, or people who know about smoking, and I have a few questions I would like answered, please.
1. Which is worse for you, cigars or cigarrettes?
2. [for the smokers] How old were you when you started?
3. Does smoking have a major impact on your voice, or is it only slight?
4. Recently, I tried to stop, and I threw a bitch fit at my friends.. I just went crazy! Was that an impact of the cigs? Am I addicted?
thanks... I'll rate, I promise! (link)
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Quit now, the longer you smoke the harder it is to stop. I started to smoke when I was in my early teens and am now in my 40's. You can easily become addicted even after only a couple of months. Smoking effects not only your voice but your lungs, heart and blood vessels. I am a nurse and I have seen people who have quit 10 years ago suffer the effects of smoking. No matter what you smoke they are all bad. If you need help ask your doctor, he can offer advice on what you can do, it's hard, but you can do it if you try.
I got my mother to answer that because i don't really know that much about it. She's so cool, i know.
!~*becca*~! and donna(mom)
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My boyfriends birthday is coming up and I have no clue what to get him! I've asked him for some ideas but he doesn't give me any good ones. Any Ideas???? (link)
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It really depends on how long you've been together. I recomend cupcakes. Everyone loves food (almost everyone)!! Maybe a little framed picture of you two together.
!~*becca*~!
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can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives. (link)
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Of course. Just not too late in the pregnancy. A lot of people have sex while pregnant, and I don't know of anyone who harmed the baby. If it's worrying you, check the internet or ask your doctor, just to be on the safe side.
Congratulations!!!
!~*becca*~!
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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s
thanks for helping
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Ok, first of all, a one month anniversary isn't an anniversary. No one seems to understand that.
ANYWAY....I think you should wait for the weekend. Sneaking out if never good, because it's almost impossible that you're gonna get caught. Then you can't hang out at all for a while. Just wait. Good luck!
!~*becca*~!
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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!
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It's very simple. If you want to make a good impression, be polite, but not too timid. Look nice, but not slutty. Be yourself! People don't like others who seems fake.
!~*becca*~!
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