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right this is so hard to explain here i go well theres this boy called james who when i first saw him i thought yes hes nice and well he asked me out i said no because another boy in school asked me out lets call him Alex. Well i grew to really like alex and alex asked me out and i said no because off james. James took me home the other day and well he tryed to kiss me and he basically tried to force me to kiss him and i really did not like that because i decided i did not want to kiss him but we touched lips not a proper kiss just like a touch. Now i feel kinda bad because i really like alex. Alex is the one i want to kiss but i just can't when he goes to kiss me i kinda back away i think what if i do it wrong will he still like me? ahhh and my friend asked alex for his number and he never gave it to her i was sooo happy... Alex says he loves me all the time and james shows no interest.. What shall i do. But the thing is i like another guy in school who ive never talk to and i kinda told his friend i like his friend and im not sure whats going to happen now. Thank you in advance.x
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Well, I say sit down and really try to think about who is right for you. It doesn't help to lead all these boys on if you don't plan on dating them. I suggest making up a Pro/Con list for each of them and see who comes out with the most Pros. Try to be really honest with yourself on the list too so you don't end up with a tie or something. Good luck!!
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Ugh I hate when this happens. Do what you think is right. If you really like Alex and he likes you too, then go for him. He sounds like a better guy than James.
!~*becca*~!
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Don't go out with James, if you don't want to be kissed and a guy forces you to when he knows you don't want it, that's right in line with rape. It sounds like all that James wants from you is "sex". It sounds like you like Alex a lot so I would say you should say yes to him. Don't be worried or scared about kissing. He won't stop liking you. Even if you've never kissed anyone before you aren't a bad kisser. If you don't think about it and just do what feels right you will do fine. The only way to get better at kissing is to practice. Once you make that first jump it will come so easily and so naturally to you. It's okay to be nervous, but don't be afraid! It seems like Alex really likes you and for the right reasons. Well, good luck with everything and I hope it all turns out the way you want it to.
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Whoa, girl! What's going on in your head? You have to pick one of these guys and get your feelings straight before messing with one of these guys over and over. Listen to what your mind and heart says, and in your mind, ask yourself, "Who do I really want to be with?" and pay attention to the way the guys act around you. Alex says he really loves you, and you said that Jason shows no interest, so I suggest going for the guy who really cares about you, and who you really care about. Don't waste your time on a guy who won't show interest in you, go for the one who will.
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whoooooaaa okay you have to straighten out your feelings before you do anything with anyone. it's not fair to james who is your bf but then again you do want to be happy. you don't seem that interested in james er anything so maybe you should dump him & try things with alex. it's all up to you, you juss gotta get your feelings straightened out first & then work from there & talk to them & let them know how you feel.
-hope that helped!♥
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