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I like this guy, he is 3 years older than me. but i dont want to liek him. we are really good friends and we hooked up and we started tlaking, he told me stuff about him and i told him thing we were really close we would kiss when we saw eachother wich was alot, but one night he got really drunk and hooked up with this girl. i found out and got really really really upset because i really liked him. even that night he called me up asking me where i live when he knows where i live cuz hes been to my house a million times. the next day he aske dif i was mad at him and i said why did you have to lead me on and then treat me like that and he said i told you it wouldnt work out for us because of our age. so i got upset, then homecoming happend and shit happend so he imed me and he asked me if i was feeling alright and we were actullay talking and he came over that monday after and we hungout but after taht things changed. we would still talk but not romanticly and it was because he met this girl and it turned out they like eachother now, and im upset, i say im over him and stuff but im not. and i even talk to him about how i want someone serious and he says he wants to settle down and not hookup with so many girls and i thinkhe wants somethign with this girl. ANYWAYS, i dont want to have feelings for him, and i want to be his friend.
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Wow. I know exactly how you feel. I've been in this position. I'm sorry to say, but you're going to have to try to cut him out of your life, at least for a little time. Don't call him, don't arrange to "hang out" or anything like that. I'm not saying to completley ignore him. I mean, if you see him around, acknowledge his presence with a hi, but seriously honey, if you call him and hang out with him. You're going to find yourself yearning for him.
I did this and soon I realized "wow, I really don't need this guy anymore".
Good luck honey!
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Maybe he is too old for you. I don't know because it really depends on what age group you're in.
If you really want to get over him, then don't hang around him. Try to avoid him all the time, because the more you're around a person, the more you like them. Usually. Flirt with other guys. There are others. Keep in mind it's really hard to stay friends with a guy once the relationshop is over, but it's possible. I wouldn't count on it. This guy shoulds like a jerk. Find a better one. Good luck.
!~*becca*~!
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you juss need to look around. talk to other guys, make new guy friends etc. you can't juss randomly not have any feelings for him, yet a lot of people wish it did work that way. if he does hook up with that many girls, he's totally not worth it anyway & that wouldn't make a great boyfriend er 1 that you should deserve. maybe you should try to stay away from him & juss talk to him every so often. look around a bit & stay strong!!!
hope that helped!♥
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