I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks
why don't you make the first move...because he sounds like a shy kid... so ask him out i am sure you will be happy when you find out that he will most likely say yes... i don't realy know what else to say... but just take the initiative and ask him out
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okay so ive been goin out with brian for 4 months and i really really really likehim alot i think that i may even b falling in love but im not quite shua cuz i dunno wut love is like buti knoe i luv to spend time with him and i luv to look at him and i luv to talk to him but im scared cuz like i always find my self flirting with everyone! and i hate it! i mean i feel un loyal or w/e wut am i gonna do??! how can i make it stop?
flirting is such a casual thing now-a-days... i would not get all bent out of shape... but just don't take the flirting to far... like it is ok to flirt...just make sure that what you do doesn't look wrong... like put yourself in his shoes and if you think that he would be ok with what your doing then go ahead...but the moment you start wondering if you are flirting a bit to much with someone then just stop... that is all i gotta say
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how can i become a faster runner with in 1 month?!?! im kinda lazy but i really wanna run so i will put my mind to it and get up every mornigna t 2 if thats wut it takes but please help
umm... ha ha that is an easy one... the only thing is to run as often as you can... but the trick is run really hard one day like 2-3 miles then the next day do like a light run you know like 1-2 miles and run really slow...
hope i helped
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My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!
TELL HER EXACTALLY WHAT YOU SAID HERE...i am serious.. just tell her how much she means to you... but don't being up the cutting... tell her how much she means to you... that is about the only thing... i am sure you are over reacting... but still just tell her
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ok....i no its right before christmas...but is it rude to dump my boyfriend... i mean i don't like him anymore...im worried about breaking up because im worried he'll do stuff to himself...he said he would try suicide if we ever broke up....but at the same time im not happy! PLEASE HELP ME!
I THINK it is to late for the christmas thing because he probably already got a really nice gift for you... so i say fight through it for a couple more weeks... but when you do break up LET HIM DOWN EASY... make it seem like there is still a chance for you two to go out again (but you know there won't be, but he won't know that) just be really nice about it and make him feel real special when you do it... now normally i wouldn't say something like this but i would just be nice cause you don't want to force this kid to hurt himself... oh i thought of a decent excuse i know it is overused but it really works ... just tell him (you would say something like) "well i was thinking about it, and i would much rather have you as a friend, because i want you to be there for me when times go bad," and tell him "i would rather have us break up before we get more attached to each other, and i would rather us still be friends after we break up, than be at each others throats" but just try to be as nice as possible...because it sounds like this kid has got some problems that he needs to work out himself... and after you do break up keep a firm grip on your stance... because i guarantee he will try to tell you some dumb things that will make you feel bad for him... but jsut listen to him... AND REMEMBER BE AS NICE AS POSSIBLE...
hope i helped
good luck
kev
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!
oh GOD NO... absolutly not...
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Well, I hope this doesnt get deleted because I really need some advice. If anybody knows how to handle Geometry proofs and knows how I can get ahold of it, that would be great. It is over Finding congruance of triangles, by using a proof. Please Help!!! ^_^
_-Devin-_
UMM i went through the same thing as a freshman... and there is no easy way around them...EXCEPT knowing that this is the only point in time in math that you have to work with them... because i am in PRE-CALC as a junior in high school and we have never touched those stupid proofs since geometry... so just bear with it because it is almost over...and contrary to what MATH TEACHERS say "YOU NEVER TOUCH PROOFS AGAIN... i PROMISE!!!"
good luck
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ok well this all stared when someone close to me passed away and i still haven't really gotten over it he pased away in october so you can imagine how much i loved him and now it seems like everyone is dealing with the same thing like have you ever had something happen to your family like a death or someone gets cancer and then it seems like more people are going through the same thing and u didn't even know it before well thats how it is and it is kinda stressful for me does ne one have ne ideas on how i can kinda get it off my mind thanks
boy this is tough let me think about it... you know the only thing that keeps poppin into my mind is to stay busy... and not to really think about it... i know it is hard to get over losing someone close to you...someone in my family passed away about a month ago... but umm ya stay busy and dont constantly think about it (i hope i am not offending you by talking about this)... i think one of the best ways is just to accept it... you could wear a reminder like a bracelet, or make a sign for yourself... just so you have something to look at that will reassure you that this person has passed away and that they will be happy in heaven... i actually started to do this Advicenators thing to keep my mind off of it... because i get no better feeling than knowin that my advice will help someone make tough decisions in thier life... and just because you have moved on doesn't mean that you have to completly forget about your loved ones... crying is probably one of the best ways to vent... i mean i still sometimes think about the times i have had with my uncle and i start to cry and it actually makes me feel better cause i know i was able to share memories with him and even though i miss him i know he is looking down on me now helping me through these tough times
really hoped i helped
and good luck also
kev
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ive been dating this guy for awhile now and were not b/f and g/f but neither of us has been seeing anyone else and only see each other and when im with him hes the sweetest guy in the world and when we go out he shows me off and is always like "thats my baby :)" but at school we dont really see each other except like b4 1st period and during one period change.. and each day i walk past him like seriously 1 foot away from him and no one would be able to tell what we have between us.. and i want to go up to him but i dont know if he wants me to.. cause i dont know his friends and im worried that hes afraid what theyll think of me and him.. but i dont know cause its as much my fault as his that we dont talk at school.. i once asked him if he was mad that i never come up to him and he said no its okay.. some of my friends just say hes shy ( which is true ) and hes not trying to like push me away and others say it sounds kinda suspicious.. but i dont know.. is he ashamed of me or is it that were both too shy to walk up to one another when the other is with friends?
No he is not trying to push you away...people in general act really different in school...because me personally all the girls i hangout with outside of school... but during school we walk by and just say hello nothing more... and i think it is because we are all a little bit timid to act affectionate during school because we are scared of what people think of us...so i say don't worry about it but when you see him in the hall just say hello and keep walking...and don't get frustrated if he doesn't say hello back... because you know that outside of school the two of you are really close...i hope i made sense
hope i helped
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do?
i am sure she isn't bragging you just think she is bragging...cause i bet she is really excited about it...my only suggestion is this... jealousy is sometimes a good thing cause without jealousy how else would we strive to do better... so i say it is ok to be jealous but DON't LET IT RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP... because after your theater act if over you two are gonna be close whether she had this part or you had this part... besides be happy you got a part... so basically it is ok to be jealous just don't let it get to you and don't let it ruin your relaionship because that is what you don't want NO MATTER WHAT!!!
hope i helped
kev
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!
umm GET BACK WITH HIM at all costs... actually my friend and i were talkin about something like this the other day... and we decided that when we are dating someone we need to feel like they are much better than us because it makes us feel so special to have them... but i say if you really love him get back together and besides if he feels like he is to good then he will end it...but it doesn't sound like that is the case... i say call him asap before he starts to get over you..because that is one thing you do not want...
good luck hope i helped
kev
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.
UMM....YOU CAN ALWAYS GET A CONDOM...THEY ARE SO EASY TO GET... AND IF YOU FEEL EMBARASSED ABOUT IT JUST GO TO A GAS STATION AND GO TO THE BATHROOM THERE... AND THEY USUALLY HAVE COMDOM DISPENSERS THERE (most do at least) that is probably the safest bet i would say
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Okie dokie...well maybe someone can help me on this one. I've liked this guy for hmm man I don't even know how long. It's just been a long time! Well I know I've always liked him I don't know if he has always liked me but sometimes he says he stops liking me because I don't talk to him enough. But then randomly he starts to like me again. I try to talk to him more when he says this because I don't want to loose him but then I give up and try and forget about him and not talk to him and stuff but that is when he starts to like me again. This has happened so many times before it's almost predictable that he will come back but I always am scared he won't. The time he just liked me he got me so attached. He told me that he has always loved me and he is always like I'm in love with the greatest thing. The times before he didn't even tell me he loved me!! So I don't know. I miss him so much. I don't think it would help if I talked to him about that because I have tried and he gets mad at me and says YOU NEVER CALL ME ENOUGH OR TALK TO ME and then I tell him I try to but he just doesn't listen. So is there anything I can do to get him back besides saying the same things I have? Thanks :)
ok umm you were on the right track to begin with... talk to him and just keep in touch with him because he is probably really confused about this whole situation also... so i say just keep in touch with him and do the same things you were doing because even if you two don't end up hookin up you will still make a friend out of this whole situation...make sense... and it sounds to me like the two of you get really close and then start drifting apart because the sparks don't fly (dumb saying, i know)... and then after the two of you stop talking he tries to attempt and save it by telling you he likes you...i think i understood what you were saying... ok here is my advice... this next time around talk to him and keep talking to him AND DON't GIVE UP... because us guys like to know we are important... AND start talking to him knowing that you two are only gonna be friends...as hard as it may sound... but start to become friends and start hangin out and doing stuff together and then after a while start making your move on him and see if it will work...(and maybe try talking to him about dating, BUT only if you want to)...and hey if your love life falls through you still have a good friend.. so anyway i know my answer was long winded but i hope i helped
hope i helped
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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!
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no no no.... dating best-friends ex's is a definite no no unless of course you speak with your friend about it...so ask your friend and if she says ya, go ahead with it... but if she says no, i would just drop it right there
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So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!
trying to have friends is like being popular they are the exact same thing just different ways of saying it... LOL... i say cut back on trying to meet every single person in your school...and at the same time also try to inculde your friend into the things that you do with your new fiends...because i guarantee she is just lonely and misses your company so...like i said do two things 1.) cut back on meeting every single person in your school and 2.) try to inculde your friend into the things you do with your new friends...
heop i helped
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Ok, so I like this guy and hes my best friends other best friend. And so we havnt MET in person yet, but we talk to eachother a lot and its not dangerous or anything because you know, its my best friends other best friend. Anyways he had sex with this girl the past weekend....and hes 13. It hurt me, but now he says that he doesnt really like her anymore and that if he met me that he would probably like me. But I dont know if I would be able to deal with the fact that he had sex with another girl so recently. SO I guess what Im asking is what would any of you out there do?! Because I really need some help....thanks.
i am still shocked he is 13... but i say forget him because if he was interested in you before the fact and then he went and slept with someother chick... he sounds like "A REAL WINNER" (that was sarcasm)....i say forget him i mean if you do say forget it, it is not like you have really lost a lot and it is not like you have met him in person either...i mean it would be better to sy NO now and not be hurt than no later when he does it again and you end up being hurt alot more
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The guy who likes me is one of my best friends' friends i guess and he told her and no one else that he liked me. My friend is VERY trustworthy and she wont tell a secret EVER. And even tho she's my best friend, she wont tell me.
it sounds to me like your friend is being arogant.. because she is the only person who is stopping the two of you from being together... because who knows he could be the man of your dreams...i would definatly tell your friend that she is the one holding back this possible relationship....because knowing this guy unless he is a big puss will be happy she told you when he is going out with you
hope i helped
kev
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at school there is this one guy who i sort of like that isn't popular or anything but he is my ex-bf and im one of those people who is right in the middle with alot of friends and stuff who doesn't dress "showy" or wear a bunch of make-up because i dont dress to impress. anyway a bunch of my friends try to tell me he stil likes me when hes the one who broke up with me because we never talked or saw each other and that he thinks im really hott. i think its all a bunch of bologna but i don't know what i should do. should i ask him about it or just let it go or what?
i say just let it go... he broke up with you in the first place... and it sounds like his only reasons were because you never talked or saw each other....if you ask me those are pretty lame excuses because if you really try you can always spend time with someone whether it is on the phone over the internet or at their house... but those just sound like lame excuses because he messed up... and the worst part is that he is "telling your friends" that he still likes you instead of telling it to your face...i dunno... it sounds like this kid just doesn't try very hard at keeping a relationship going...i mean 1.) it sounds like he never really tried in the first place and 2.) becasue he messed up he is try to mend things up ( which is fine) but he won't talk to you...i say don't do anything....atleast until he makes the first move then see where it goes from there...
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I have a secret admirer ( but my best friend knows who it is). What kind of thing can i have my friend say to this dude from me to let me know who he is? Any ideas? I REALLY want to know who he is, i dont want any dumb answers. Thanks!
wait your best friend knows who it is and she won't tell you...well that is sort of sketchy...i am not to sure what your asking so maybe refine your question and just send me a meesage and i will sty to help ya
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What do you personally think about girls wearing make up and showy clothing?
well you know i think make-up is great and all... and the showy clothing... ya it is great to look at now and then... but the girls who don't need make-up or don't wear so much that it is plainly obvious are the girls i am attracted to... and i also think that the girls who are comfortable with me enough to come over and hang out in like sweat pants and a shirt is even more attractive
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