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ok well this all stared when someone close to me passed away and i still haven't really gotten over it he pased away in october so you can imagine how much i loved him and now it seems like everyone is dealing with the same thing like have you ever had something happen to your family like a death or someone gets cancer and then it seems like more people are going through the same thing and u didn't even know it before well thats how it is and it is kinda stressful for me does ne one have ne ideas on how i can kinda get it off my mind thanks
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thats nothing thats strange, believe me i know. all you can do is think of all of the good times you had with the person and think to yourself, would they want you to just mope around all the time! you have to stay postitive no matter what! *good and bad happens but you just keep living and believing*~annomynous
feel better sweetie!
~Haley~
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my sister passed away from cancer.. you will never get over it and its gonna be hard to get your mind off of it. i will tell you what i do.. i pray to her everynight. i write her letters. and some people listen to crazy music lol *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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love..does not get..well gotten over fast. Since he died..you are grieving..this is normal...some people grieve for a long time. Me..i do not think there is anythng wrong with showing others that you loved someone. Now if it affects you so much that you cannot function..then it is a problem.
October is not that far away. if he dies of some disease..why not volunteer there..to help you work through this process and honor his memory.
He was very lucky to have someone like you care for him.
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You have probably heard people say... "It'll get easier with time"... and they're right. It's difficult to believe, but the pain subsides a bit and you can move on. I've lost a lot of people in my life... and you just have to honor their memory by living your life to the fullest, and doing your best to be the person they'd be proud of. Hope you feel better soon! There are people out there who will understand and be there for you to talk and to listen!
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boy this is tough let me think about it... you know the only thing that keeps poppin into my mind is to stay busy... and not to really think about it... i know it is hard to get over losing someone close to you...someone in my family passed away about a month ago... but umm ya stay busy and dont constantly think about it (i hope i am not offending you by talking about this)... i think one of the best ways is just to accept it... you could wear a reminder like a bracelet, or make a sign for yourself... just so you have something to look at that will reassure you that this person has passed away and that they will be happy in heaven... i actually started to do this Advicenators thing to keep my mind off of it... because i get no better feeling than knowin that my advice will help someone make tough decisions in thier life... and just because you have moved on doesn't mean that you have to completly forget about your loved ones... crying is probably one of the best ways to vent... i mean i still sometimes think about the times i have had with my uncle and i start to cry and it actually makes me feel better cause i know i was able to share memories with him and even though i miss him i know he is looking down on me now helping me through these tough times
really hoped i helped
and good luck also
kev
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