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Question Posted Sunday November 14 2004, 10:26 am

Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

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thpsmasta2k answered Saturday December 4 2004, 2:46 pm:
no no no.... dating best-friends ex's is a definite no no unless of course you speak with your friend about it...so ask your friend and if she says ya, go ahead with it... but if she says no, i would just drop it right there

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gsgirl answered Saturday November 20 2004, 7:29 pm:
it seems that he likes u. i say ask him what do u have to lose!

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KrayZeBeaUtyFuL answered Saturday November 20 2004, 7:10 pm:
Well yes it seems he likes you, and that was very sweet of him to say, but think about some things.. would your friend be mad at you if you and him hung out or dated? because no guy is worth getting into a fight wiht your friend! And maybe when he gets his cell phone minutes youll see if he really would call you like he says.. and maybe you should consider talking to your friend and see if shed care that you talked to him or possibly dated him? who knows. hope everything works out for the best.. Goodluck!! =]
-MeGan*

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dinoold answered Saturday November 20 2004, 4:32 pm:
do NOT break the cardinal tule of girl friends..ok...she is your best friend...

Unless you want to lose her..for no matter how cool she is with this..it will come bakc to HAUNT you..do not do this...


alos any guy who dates his ex is also kinda of iffy on the cardianl tule things

but this is up to you...date him..and lose the frend..ok...upt to YOU>

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xlostangelx answered Friday November 19 2004, 12:43 pm:
please dont even start to think about this. dont even try and figure out if he likes you b/c it shouldnt matter. he is your best friends ex...your BEST FRIENDS ex. let it pass you by, hunnie. yea, its perfectly normal to have a crush on your friends boyfriends/ex boyfriends...but dont take it farther than just a crush.

take care and if you neecd help on this more, feel free to ask..ive been in this situation b4...take care hunniee

-ash

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Jenni answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 6:00 pm:
I do think he likes you. Be careful how you break the news to your best friend if you start going out, though. Don't hurt her, and understand if she is upset.

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xplayb0ycutiexx answered Tuesday November 16 2004, 1:26 pm:
I would just forget about him bcuz it's not right to still be friends with the girl and like her x boyfriend.. friends don't date friend's old boyfriends.. you just don't do that.. and it's stupid to try to even get started in any kind of relationship bcuz he doesn't even live near you.. just forget about him.. you WILL find someone else.. and if it's just a little itsy bitsy crush.. u'll get over it like THAT! lol

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cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:21 pm:
Since he is your friends exboyfriend I dont see y you cant go out with him. I think you should say yes if he asks you out bc it sounds like he likes you. and tell him to call as soon as he get min. !!..lol

good luck with that!

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GroverTheStoNer answered Sunday November 14 2004, 9:59 pm:
OOOO! Girl, i think somebodys got a crush on you!!!! Just keep flirting, and give him a call every now and then!! Congrats on your crush!
*Randy T*
:)

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 8:22 pm:
Yea, he likes ya ;) And keep in mind DE and PA arent very far apart if ya catch what im saying *wink wink* Hope i helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Blade answered Sunday November 14 2004, 6:29 pm:
its possible that hes interested but to me hes looking for more of a hook up. thats my oppinion from the little information that you gave. if you write me with more info on your situation i can give you better feed back

Blade

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BaseballBri1818 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 2:20 pm:
IT sure soudns like it. Go for it!

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loochalo answered Sunday November 14 2004, 1:04 pm:
it sounds like to me that he likes you, i would give a chance and adn maybe call him, whats the worst that could happen? lol

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xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:56 pm:
It sounds like he likes you hun... For the holiday gifts, you can give him pre-paid cards and stuff so he can call you! Lol. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:43 pm:
hmm maybe he duz like u...or maybe he thynks of u as a good friend he can talk to n e time! ask him and tell him that u do think u like him a little bit! good luck hun!

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Simple Plan Fan answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:34 pm:
It does sound like he likes you. If he misses you isn't that enough if a hint? But he could still call you on a house phone if he really liked you.

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KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:29 pm:
it defninently sounds like he likes u. it stinx how far apart u 2 live. u 2 should try and talk a lot more often. who knows wut could happen? hope i helped ya!

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Michelley answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:58 am:
Yah...it sounds like he likes you =) You should probably ask your friend if it's ok if you guys get together..and if she says its ok then you def. should! Tell him you like him, and if he doesn't like you back (*which I think he does) then you won't ever have to see him again!! So theres nothing to loose
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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sUnsEt_rOO18 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:55 am:
he either likes you or hes just flirting with you..either way its a good thing for you!!-rachael-

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MrNeWyOrK answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:42 am:
He probaly does like you if he missed you and stuff and wants to come visit you :-)
cya
*Mr.NeWyOrK*

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CheapChineseFood answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:25 am:
It probably does mean he likes you. But here's the catch, he's your best friend's ex boyfriend. First of all, you need to find out who's feelings you are willing to hurt, his or hers. When I was about to go out with my best friend's ex boyfriend she started crying...I couldn't do it. And I loved him alot, but...hmmm....it's all in what you feel that should be done. As I can see now with the evidence of him being young and not having a calling card...and the distance and such...it's not going to be a great relationship, since you two can't see each other. Not even once a month...and the fact that he doesn't always have minutes...Yeah...you might want to wait this out a bit.

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xxxxxx answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:15 am:
it sounds like he does like you a little. he probably does. so just talk to him more and see if the long distance thing will work out.

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xxpinkeyeliner answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:41 am:
Sounds like he feels the same way about you... or he could find you as a very excellent friend. My advice is to open up about your feelings. It may seem like a risky thing but with love don't be afraid of a challenge. Tell him that sometimes it feels like he's "the one" and then wait for him to open up. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, finish it up that you're glad that you guys are such good friends.

xOx Emmz

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babygurl7961 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:35 am:
Ive been in a situation like this before.. yeah it def. sounds like he likes you, n he wants to hook up. since he's your best friends ex, doesnt sound like they were in love, so she shouldn't really care , or if it was really recent maybe wait a little bit then start chillin w/ him wen you can and see wat happens from there, I see it that if yall lived closer you & him would def. be hookin up

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