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Age: 14
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My best friend and I have gotten really close in the past year or so. He is such a sweet heart and I love him to death. He treats me like a queen. Whenever I see him we always make out and stuff. We havent done more then that, but lately I have been like really horny and I just want to seee him and have sex with him. I dont kno what to do? I am always horny. It's practically as bad as a guy. Even if he and I dont have sex I just want to get closer because I am in love with him and I kno that he loves me. What should I do???


**Samantha** (link)
well if you told him you wanted to have sex with him i definatly think that he would be ok with that. just tell him how you feel.


my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
its his responsibility to his son and to YOU to provide. tell him that.


I'm not sure how to explain this. For example, I'm trying to lose weight, see. And my Aunt tells me that I've lost some weight. I don't like to hear those things from her.

At first I thought it was because I fear success. But if my wife gives me an encouraging comment like that then I take it good. I feel good. I feel encouraged. And it's like that with everyone. But from my Aunt... well, with the weight thing, it'll make me feel like eating more and gaining weight to make her wrong.

It might help if I explain a little bit more about my relationship with my Aunt. She raised me and for a long time I felt like she was my mother; even after she told me she wasn't. In the last few years though I've thought like that somewhat less. I still feel somewhat like she's my mother but not as strongly as I once did.

So what could be the problem? (link)
even if you want your aunt to be wrong, which would you rather- to prove your aunt wrong or lose weight.
all teens want to be right and their parents to be wrong its normal


ok, i'm about to make some prayer bracelets for myself, but i have no clue what to pray on. any ideas??? (link)
if you don't know what to pray for then ask yourself why you are making prayer bracelets


Hey! i am like head over hills in love with this hot boy at my school but my best friend just broke up with him! i do not know if that would be wrong! what do u think???? (link)
talk to your bf and ask her if she would feel comfortable and if she's over him, and if she's not thats just a sacrifice you make by putting your friends before a guy you like. and if your bf doesnt know you like the guy you should definatly tell her. i mean she can't get mad at you, she liked him too!! what better reason to understand.


I hate stress! I have stress but thats not all! I'm a sophomore and 15. I hate my job but my parents wont let me quit. I hate school like every other person because its hard even though I try so hard. I dont have much of a best friend because shes to busy bragging about her life like if some like likes her or not, guy she wants, etc. Then she also acts like shes better then me and she makes every thing a compettion. Other thing I dont like or have stress about is guys my x-bf, I dont know how I feel about him if I like him or not. Last is not having a bf when I go somewhere I see COUPLEs everywhere. What makes me upset is guys say Im pretty and all then how come I dont have a bf?
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i need help by seeing what i can do to get a bf or at least get all this stress out of me and if I got someone like a guy to go out w me thats one less thing to worry about! well please Id really liek your help! (link)
your friend is obviously insecure about herself and her life if she is constantly wanting to make it semm desirable to you by talking about how its so great. that means its not. also making everything a competition shows it, she wants to prove to you that she's better than you. she might be jealous. and as for a bf, just go after what you want. FLIRT!
stress is a part of EVERYONES life.


i just went to the doctor because i was having this problem at night where i cant do anything but breathe (kinda long story)and the doctors said i have someting called absence seizures or something and they said i have to get a "brain scan" or "mri" done..whats an MRI?? i heard that its a big black thing, and im really scared..i feel really uncomfortable with the problem to and i hate it... i dont wanna go to the hospital and stick my head into something...this is really bad, and im 14 and STILL somewhat frightened of the dark!! does anyone know anything to help me?? someone just please say something anything will help! thanks (link)
i had an mri when i was about 12. you lie down and its kinda loud but its not scary at all. its almost like getting an xray except that it takes longer. you really have nothing to worry about. well, yea you should worry about the brain seizure problem i guess but don't worry about the mri. its nothing.


hey..well okay here it is..

..last saturday i slept with my friends boyfriend while she was on a trip..she found out..hates me now and so do a bunch of other people and they wanna beat me up i guess..im going to a dance tonight at my old school cuz i switched schools at the beginning of the year and im really nervous..do you think theyd try something there??..or should i go and just have fun?!..i know i shouldnt care what other people say but when people talk about me it bugs me..so please hellllp:-/

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definatly go to the dance because since you've screwed things up with your other friends you really should meet some new people. dont worry about it just go and have fun with a new beginning.


Please help.

My husband is in the Military overseas in Iraq. He has been gone since Feb 2004, he was still my boyfriend then. In May, he called me to tell me that they were granting him leave in July and wasked me to marry him, much to the dismay of his family. Before the wedding, I had never met any of his family. Now, he is still gone and I am having trouble writing my new family Christmas cards. My sister in-law sent me a list of who I should send cards to, but I just don't know what to say. Should I come up with a few "generic" lines or should I try to make it all little more personal. Should I sign his name? I've never met or even spoken with 99% of his family. On top of it all, while he was home, I got pregnant. I know they are not happy about that. My friend said I should send out a Christmas card with the ultrasound. That doesn't seem appropriate, but I just don't know the etiquette on this type of unusual situation. I know I am under the microscope right now, and I want to do the right thing. Any advice would be appreciated. (link)
if you're at a loss for what to say, just say that you are really looking forward to getting to know them and wish you had gotten more time with them before the wedding to talk to them, that you love their son (or nephew or whatever) very much and are overjoyed to be a part of their family. even though yor aren't close to your in laws, speak in a very personal way because that will give off the closeness vibe and they will feel it. if you say something generic like "happy holidays!!" then they will consequently feel the distance between you and them. let them know you, and they probably will loosen up.


Okay!Well since christmas is coming up I really want to get my best friend a really good gift for christmas. He is an amazing guy and we have been best friends for well over a year now. We have gotten really close and I have fallin in love with him. I dont want to just get him something cheap and ugly. I want to get him something that he will remember and really like.I have never really gotten a guy a gift for xmas. I honestly have no clue what to get him. I want him to really love his gift. What should I get him? (link)
get him something that you can't just go to the mall and pick up from a chain store. don't get him something generic and cliche like cologne, because that doesn't take any thought. that could be a present for any of your guy friends. get something that would only be special to HIM. order something from online like memorabilia of his favorite band or sports team. try ebay ( i know it sounds cheap if you've never been there but they have some realy great NEW things as well as vintage. for cheap!)


How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ???????? (link)
when you find the right person, you won't be wondering. so since your wondering, the person is not the right person. you'll just KNOW.


okay ive been dieting for the past like 3 dayz...ive been eating about 3 healthy meals a day and stop eating around 6. but today i dunno if i ruined it. I have an orange, an apple and a banana for breakfast, then for lunch i had a portion of turkey and a turkey sandwich with wheat bread, and then for dinner i had a bowl of chicken soup..But inbetween the meals i had another orange, a boiled egg, another apple, and another banana, and a bite of a pickle... it sounds like alot but it was through out the whole day..is this gunna affect my diet because i kinda over did eating the fruits?? thanks! (link)
ok, first thats not overeating. if your going to eat 6 fruits which is good, try to eat 6 different fruits, not doubling. not that its bad to have too much, its just that if your going to eat the calories (which isnt much) you might as well get the variety that you need. or try 3 veggies instead of the 3 double fruits.




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