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Question Posted Tuesday December 14 2004, 8:40 pm

ive been dating this guy for awhile now and were not b/f and g/f but neither of us has been seeing anyone else and only see each other and when im with him hes the sweetest guy in the world and when we go out he shows me off and is always like "thats my baby :)" but at school we dont really see each other except like b4 1st period and during one period change.. and each day i walk past him like seriously 1 foot away from him and no one would be able to tell what we have between us.. and i want to go up to him but i dont know if he wants me to.. cause i dont know his friends and im worried that hes afraid what theyll think of me and him.. but i dont know cause its as much my fault as his that we dont talk at school.. i once asked him if he was mad that i never come up to him and he said no its okay.. some of my friends just say hes shy ( which is true ) and hes not trying to like push me away and others say it sounds kinda suspicious.. but i dont know.. is he ashamed of me or is it that were both too shy to walk up to one another when the other is with friends?

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zapreth answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 9:43 am:
Indroducing someone to your friends at school is as big a step to many people as bringing them to meet your parents. Since you don't call yourselves girlfriend and boyfriend this sort of introduction would take the relationship to another level. Kinda making it official g'f b'f thing. Talk to him about it. Ask him if he'd like to introduce you and ask if he'd like to be introduced to your friends. He may not be ready to take this new step, or he may just be waiting for you. Either way, he sounds like a nice guy. Just talk to him. Luck and Love!

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thpsmasta2k answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 10:50 pm:
No he is not trying to push you away...people in general act really different in school...because me personally all the girls i hangout with outside of school... but during school we walk by and just say hello nothing more... and i think it is because we are all a little bit timid to act affectionate during school because we are scared of what people think of us...so i say don't worry about it but when you see him in the hall just say hello and keep walking...and don't get frustrated if he doesn't say hello back... because you know that outside of school the two of you are really close...i hope i made sense

hope i helped
kev

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