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Hey..Im Amber yah im 14 years old and i live in maine...i love to answer questions and i do my best to help anyone out. i guess i give pretty good advice cause most of the time it works for most of my friends..but im not always right...im really big into sports i LOVE to play all kinds of sports. i play lacrosse and play other ones with my friends and cousins. Im always out busy doing stuff so i hope i can help you with whatever you need. cause i been threw some pretty thuff things to..so i kinda know how u feel.

advice

well i really really like my boyfriend an he knows that and well i dont think that he is really into me he kisses me nad everthing well all of his friends know how much i like him and all and i keep asking them for advice but they dont really know but i really want to know if he likes me and of course he will say he does but it dont seem like it what do i do???

well do some research..act like the same but see if he still likes u by friends dose he talk about you to his friends? see if he cares if you can do something with him or not. well good luck hope i helped

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I really need help. I need to get over this guy. i was until he told me he missed me. i hate for it. then when i confront him about it he says"i dont need anything from you anymore". i know hes a slimball.. i need to stop thinkin about him and i cant. i find myself always thinking about him, and how it used to be when we went out. A MONTH AGO. i need to stop this and move on. help me out please. i have to stopp srying over him.. hes dumb.

thanks

well its a hard thing...and you kno its love well like a crush...you just cant get over him becasue you just reamber the good times..well try getting someone better then him it will help alot not to think about him...hope i helped,

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hi everytime im on my period i kinda get itchy down there. does anyone no what this means? is it serious? and is it normal?
thanxz

okay well i mean sometimes it can feel realy ichy when you have your period..but sometimes it could be the fry cleaner that you or someone else who dose the laundry. you could be affected byu it...either that it could be a rash if it dose not clear up in a few days like after your period you might want to go see a doctor....
hope i helped good luck,

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There's a guy I like that I'm good friends with. When I started to like him I wasn't AS comfortable around him. When we were just friends everyone said he liked me but when I started having feelings for him & acting different, he started liking another girl. He doesn't know I like him but I think he can sense that I'm acting different. I've never been the really confident, self-assured type like the girl he likes. How can I be more crazy & fun around her? What can I do to make him see that I am confident too?

okay well just ask him what type of girls do you like? then if he says alot about you then just be like i just wanted to let you know i like you! becasue you dont want to change the person you are you want people to like you for who you are. also if that dose not seem to good then just always dress in things that you like and the style he likes but just feel comfotable! hope i helped and good luck!!,

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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!

PLease answer!!

oh im sorry! been there done that! you cant do anything to make someone like you, you just cant its something you can't do! theres other boys for you and other girls for him if you guys been going out for a while maybe he needs someone else for a change for a while. if you guys had fun and enjoed each other maybe he will come back but always think of the good things! he will come back! someday sometime....gl

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Yestersday I was walking into a classroom and this boy walks up and pops my bra strap then walks away real fast. What the heck?? He's a loser so I would never like him. Then later on this girl asked him "whos hotter me or Jordan (this other girl" Then he goes "Lets just say that (me) is the hottest" Whats going on???

okay well i just think he likes you if he thinks ur hott and he snapend ur bra strap soo somethings going on soo he likes u!

hope i helped,
sunny411

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Okay this is really effed up and totally embarrasing but last night i had a dream. Im a 15 year old girl and it was about me and my father. We had just married or something and we were both in my room together..okay..and so i took everything iff except my underwear and he was fully clothes and he was laying on top of me and i was really horny but he didnt take off my underwear and then all he did was kiss me on my lips like you know a dad would usually do if he was going to work or something, anyways and in my dream all he did was tell me that he loves me. I'm really grossed out and scared and i dont know wehat to do, and i dont ever wanna go to sleep again because im afraid il get another dream! Plz help!

maybe its a sighn that he loves you and is glad to have you to be his daughter and you need to get closer to him it has to be a sighn. Dreams are dreams you do not know what is going to happen. but u being horny to ur father that is just weird. you have to go to sleep and just dont think about it. it will go away sometime..
hope i hepled,
sunny411

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me again.....ur 13? soo y is ur username winona
1992

its possible of being born in 1992 and being 13 :)
-sunny411

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Is it true that you get nightmares if you eat before bed? And if it is, does any body have any idea why? Just a random question that popped into my head. :)

Not that i know of because i have eattin like a snack before i go to bed but u might not want to eat right before you go to bed becasue u get fatter because i have not digested all your food.

hope i helped you random question
sunny411

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okay, im not sure if this is in the right place. but i know i dont get enough of water. because i just cant drink things of water, i get sick. like i throw up. and water with something in it takes a while to make. and you get tired of it.
why is it so important to have 10 cups of water. what am i doing to my body? why do i get sick?

well i dont know those questions i know that water is very good for you and u can die without it but insted of makeing that kind of wanter buy fruit2o

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i really like this guy alot and i joined this lacrosse team because his girl friend is on there and i figure if i get good at it when he comes too see her he'll notice me...we've been good friends for a while and hes told me more than once that he loves me like a sister but i know i can be better than what his girlfriend is. I dont know what I'm doing wrong...and why he's still with her but is there any way for him to think of me differently?
PS: I've tried being slighty slutty for about a week but that didnt work either and he said that the peverted him was GONE. =[
I am 13.... PLEASE HELP!! I know I seem young but I know what my heart is telling me and I'm positive this is NOT just a crush.

well i play lacrosse and it is a fun sport but find out if he likes lax. orrrr try to be really really really good friends with his GF like hang out with her alot and hang around with her when he is there he will notice you :)!!!
hope i helped,
sunny411

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Im 15/f..
Hey. I've been friends with this one girl since I was about 3 years old because our sisters were friends. Well, for some odd reason she doesn't like me anymore. So we just stopped being friends. She is horrible to my 2 best friends. She tries to take them away from me. It really gets me mad when she treats them this way.She thinks their her best friends and she constantly talks about me to them and I know shes trying to get them to not be friends with me anymore. What should I do?

-->JaKiE

Jakie just go up to her and be like I KNOW YOU HATE ME BUT THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT UR FRIENDS AND STOP TALKING SHIT ABOUT ME AND JUST LEAVE ME AND MY FRIENDS ALONE... just have the courage you can do it.....but its not that hard to just say it to someone becasue they are acting like an idiot...hope it all works out.. let me kno..

hope i helped,
sunny411

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So my best friend had this crazy idea... she wants me and her boyfriend and her to do like sexual things... i was all for it before but now im thinking twice... i don't have a boyfriend so i have no one holding me back... but im looking fo someone and idk if i should be doing this... i told her ealier i would do anything with them exept having sex... cause im waiting till i get married to have sex... but idk if im going to find that somone and im soo condused... she is my best friend and i love her to death... and this is something we could do together and me and her have been kinda fading... but im scared im going to regret it and me and her are going to have problems and i love her...

Confused and lonely girl

Well if you 2 are like really good friends there should be no reason someone should get mad or anything like that 4 a stubid reason or ne thing. So if you really want to do it then...just be like i know i promised you i would do......but i dont have ne one to do it with i dont have a bf wut do i do? and then she would answer and tell her you want to do it with someone you like or something ya know? Keep ur friendship close hang out more.

hope i helped good luck tell me how things went and if u need ne more advice just give me a ring =)
sunny411

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I'm new this year at my private school, and it's really strict! I mean, REALLY strict. Anyway, every year they have a picnic at the park, with water balloons and good food. (Finally! A time to dress casual at school!) but I just found out that girls have to wear skirts...at a picnic?! I don't know what to wear when I go, and how I can stay comfortable and look good too. It also has to be something I can get dirty because we're gonna have water guns and stuff. If you have a sollution on where to shop, thanks!
~Alexa~

~Alexa~
i would always go to aeropostile or something or just wear anything you feal comfortable wearing (maybe a skort) or something! If it is going to be hot out or something wear a tank with a sweat shirt or something. any other tips just ~ask~

hope i helped
~HaVe FuN~
::sunny411::

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I'm going to a party on Friday. *I have blonde hair ( mildly frizzy) and its about and inch under my shoulders* What are some simple yet cute hairstyles to wear to the party? I rate! &hearts

You could always pull some back and put a clip in...Starinting it is a cool thing 2.

hope i helped,
~HaVe FuN~ sunny411

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well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

Well.....i think he likes you becasue hes sorta of trying to get close. But you need to try to get closer to him. Try to talk to him more in school becasuse hes shy you know he probley would not come up 2 you. Just be like online and say "What are you doing today (or another day when u r free). and work from there.

hope i helped, tell me how things went
::sunny411::

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

yea thats a good outfit just wear like braclets and like a pretty necklace with your hair pulled back into a clip =)...

hope i helped,
sunny411 (have fun*)

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Does anyone have any tips for getting lip gloss to last about 6 hours?

well you can use lip liner or you could go to CVS and buy some lip gloss and put alot alot and alot of lip gloss on =)

hope i helped,
sunny411

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ok so I've liked this guy "cody" since september 2004 (its april 05 now) and it seemed as though he liked me a while back too. he would always talk to me. we'd hang out at school. talk on msn and he would basically just tell me everything about himself and ya, you get my point. in november a lot of people new I liked him however he didnt know who I liked so he bugged me about it on msn and I folded and told him I liked him. of course he liked "bethany" at the time so nothing happened (plus he was supposed to have asked her out but that never happened either) So when he stopped liking bethany things were still the same between us however slowly when february came we started drifting further apart and basically its gotten to the point where the only thing we do is make smart comments to each other. I really dont know what has happened but I still like him and my friends think he may like me a bit but I find that hard to believe cause he's more mean to me than he is nice. I'm wondering whether I should move on and forget about him. or re-tell him that I like him and see what happens. please help. anything you can tell me would be great. thanks!

try to get closer to him online! he might like u back thats why he is all worked up about talking to you maybe. just get closer and ask him why he is not talking to u and is being rude and everything =) tell my how things go.
hope i helped,
sunny411

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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one

okay well i got my braces off and it did not take so long and also it dose hurt a lil bit puting them on is more painful :)

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