There's a guy I like that I'm good friends with. When I started to like him I wasn't AS comfortable around him. When we were just friends everyone said he liked me but when I started having feelings for him & acting different, he started liking another girl. He doesn't know I like him but I think he can sense that I'm acting different. I've never been the really confident, self-assured type like the girl he likes. How can I be more crazy & fun around her? What can I do to make him see that I am confident too?
SWANKiFiED answered Saturday June 4 2005, 1:45 pm: Put assurance in yourself. Tell yourself, I'm gonna win his heart! If you believe in what you want to do, then NOTHING and I mean NOTHING can stop you. Flirt a bit, be comfortable with yourself. When you're around him, try to always look & feel your best. It may sound shallow at first but if you look good & know it, you'll feel good too. Even if you're not the "worry about fashion" type, wear something you feel comfortable in. If you're not worrying about how you look at that moment then you can just be yourself & not feel self-concious. Good luck! [ SWANKiFiED's advice column | Ask SWANKiFiED A Question ]
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