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boy trouble.
ok so I've liked this guy "cody" since september 2004 (its april 05 now) and it seemed as though he liked me a while back too. he would always talk to me. we'd hang out at school. talk on msn and he would basically just tell me everything about himself and ya, you get my point. in november a lot of people new I liked him however he didnt know who I liked so he bugged me about it on msn and I folded and told him I liked him. of course he liked "bethany" at the time so nothing happened (plus he was supposed to have asked her out but that never happened either) So when he stopped liking bethany things were still the same between us however slowly when february came we started drifting further apart and basically its gotten to the point where the only thing we do is make smart comments to each other. I really dont know what has happened but I still like him and my friends think he may like me a bit but I find that hard to believe cause he's more mean to me than he is nice. I'm wondering whether I should move on and forget about him. or re-tell him that I like him and see what happens. please help. anything you can tell me would be great. thanks!
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hey! im sorry to hear youre having problems! well, if hes being mean to you, i dont see why you like him, but obviously you do, so thats not for me to judge. i think you should just try to talk to him: ask him why hes mean to you! i know that sounds really hard, but i once did something similar, and now me & the guy are friends again. listen, if you want him to be nice to you, just talk to him and give it some time. i hope i helped!!!
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In all fairness, you'd probably be better off asking this with the 'ask a question' link. Relationships are not my forte.
That said... okay, let's look at the siuation. You like him, so chances are you didn't do anything to drive him away. Given that you have been drifting apart and evidently he hasn't tried to do anything about it, I would have to guess that it's because he isn't interested.
I (18/m) have been in a situation where something similar happened except via email; someone pretty much stopped communicating with me. It sort of sucks, but I stopped caring so much after a while (although, there was never talk of romantic involvement). Conversely, I have been in situations where I want to get rid of a girl by being distant toward them... and they won't go away... and it sucks /a lot/. This means that my advice is biased toward your leaving him alone/leaving the situation as it is - and that is indeed what I recommend - but you've got to take it with a grain of salt.
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try to get closer to him online! he might like u back thats why he is all worked up about talking to you maybe. just get closer and ask him why he is not talking to u and is being rude and everything =) tell my how things go.
hope i helped,
sunny411
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i think you should re tell him that you like him and see what happens from there.. usually guys would be mean to try and flirt with you because they don't really know how to act around you? you know what i mean? my guess is that he does like you and is trying to hide it... so re tell him and let him know how you actually know how you feel... and deffidently dont' give up! unless if he actually doesn't like you... i will leave it with this quote "Never give up on something that makes you smile"
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