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My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's

I just answered this question and this is what i suggest! :)

When i straighten my hair, i use BioSilk Silk Therapy Smoothing Solution. It makes your hair not frizzy

For shampoo and conditioner, i suggest using Herbal Essences Split Ends Shampoo and Conditioner. [smells really good ha]

I also use Bedhead Health Goddess [its a vitamin booster for your hair, makes it more healthy]

good luck! :]

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Hi =)
What are good ways (natural, not products) for my hair to be smooth and healthy? Please suggests things/food that actually works..
I have long thick brown hair that is kind of curly/wavy and it tends to frizz some. My scalp can get greasy but the hair gets a little dry.. I just want some remedies for it to be more nourished and silky. Thanks a lot in advance

i have the same type of hair as you!
When i straighten my hair, i use BioSilk Silk Therapy Smoothing Solution. It makes your hair not frizzy

For shampoo and conditioner, i suggest using Herbal Essences "none of your frizzness" Smoothing Shampoo and Conditioner. [comes in orange bottle. it smells really good too haha]

I also use Bedhead Health Goddess [its a vitamin booster for your hair, makes it more healthy]

good luck! :]

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This is kind of long..sorry! I have a guy friend and I don't know if he likes me and we're best friends. A month ago he told his friend that I was hot. He went out with my best friend but they broke up a few days ago..when they went out it was really weird. He would only talk to her or hug her or anything ONLY when I was around. Also, his best friend told me that he didn't even really like her. At the school dance he was trying to find people for me to dance with and one of his friend was like, "Do you wanna dance with her? (He meant her as in me)" and he smiled and was like "sure" but he wouldnt dance with my best friend who he was going out with..he wanted to dance with me instead. Also he always just comes up and starts talking to me and tells me to sit by him. If someone is mean to me or something he freaks out and they get in a fight up or he yells at them and he always stands up for me and helps me with stuff. He's always complimenting me and staring at me. He tries to make me laugh and flirts with me a lot. His best friend told me likes me and a lot of people say he likes me..do you think he does?

Yeah it really sounds like he likes you. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you, like go to the movies or come over or wahtever. :] go for it!

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i am going to a sweet sixteen and i want to know how i should do my hair if i am wearing a black halter dress that has a few sequins around it. it's also knee-length. any ideas on hair?

CURLS CURLS CUSUCUSURRRRLLS! :]

To curl :

If you have naturally wavy/frizzy hair, straighten it.
After you straighten it, clip half your hair up and use a curling iron to roll your sections of your hair. After each curl, spray hairspray onto that curl. [ A good hairspray that doesn;t maek your hair hard and crispy is Pantene Pro-V curl lock hairspray ] Repeat for the top half. When you finish curling all of your hair, bend over and fluff it with your hands and shape and pull it until you get it the way you want it. Then do one last spray of your whole head, and your ready! :] gooood luck!

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i really really really want to know how to successfully make my hair have "beachy" waves. i tried spritzing a mixture of salt and water in my hair but no it looks gross. is there any real way to do this? btw, I have thin brunette hair that is just below the shoulders.

To get beachy waves, wet all of your hair and after its halfway dry, finger mousse or styling gel into it. scrunch a little, and twist it into a bun.

Try using John Frieda Beach Blonde Ocean Waves Sea Spray :]
or and Bed Head products!

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who gives hickeys.. ? does a boy give it to a girl or does a girl give it to a boy? .. or both

lol this is really randomm but i wanna no.

hahaaa hickeys can be given by either the boy or the girl! :]
they're funnn! hwaihieg yaaay
for more information about hickeys go here : http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/hickey.asp

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I'm not sure if its "legal" on this site to ask this question, but if it's not, could to re-direct me to a site that could help me?

This monday, I have off from school. I'm giving myself a total makeover. Hair, nails, everything. What I need, and what I have NO experience in, is makeup. Is there a place where I could submit my picture and have people give me makeup advice?

Thank you so much!
Ali

Hi!

I think you should try going to a local makeup place, such as Ulta, dillards, foleys. [somewhere where they give free makeovers] And ask them to give you one. They'll give you advice for what products to buy and what looks best on you.

If you can't do that, i suggest buying your basic makeup supplies, such as Foundation, Bronzer, Eyeliner, Mascara, Lipgloss, Blush. Pick colors that you like and you think would look good on you. Ask the store employee for help choosing colors for your skin.

When you get home, experiment with everything.
http://www.make-upusa.com/tips/makeup.htm
This website should help you out a bunch! :]

goood luck!

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I'm going to a carnival tomorrow and a guy i like is gonna be there. Its not like i need to dress up or anything cos its just a carnival but i want to appear casual, unique and fun. What clothes and makeup should i wear? And how should i do my hair?
I'll rate, thanx xxx

hey! i think for the outfit you should wear cute jeans, a wife-beater tank top [a color, like blue, pink, green], a big beaded necklace or other necklace, and flip flops.

For your hair I think you should wear it wavy/curly. You could use the scrunching method, or the curling iron method. Both turn out great!

good luck, and have fun! :]

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i have a wart on my leg. i have heard that putting duct tape on it helps or something. is this true? by the way, i am 15/f and i already have a doctor's appointment for this so don't tell me to go to the doctor.

Hey! I wouldn't suggest the duct tape.
Either get it frozen off by the doctor, which could be painful, or go to your loccal drug store and get wart remover band aids. i used this and it came off in a week and it didn't hurt and all, and its been 4 years and it hasn't come back :] Good luck!

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ok.. so theres this guy i really like and he likes me too but we dated a while back and it was really wierd. He wouldnt talk to me and he like gave me a pat on the back instead of a hug. :/ So now we like each other alot and he asked me out but i said i would tell him later. I really like him and want to date him but i dont want it to be like last time. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?

hi! yeah i get what your saying, and i think, if you really like him, you should go out with him. and instead of letting him give you a "pat" on the back, you make the first move and hug him. maybe he's shy or worried about hugging you and stuff like that. Try to talk to him a lot and make it funny and not awkward so he begins to loosen up to you :] good luck!

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Should i tell my bestfriend about my period? I'm not sure. We tell each pther every one of our secrets

It really isn't that big of a deal if you tell anyone about your period. But it's nothing you should hide, we all go through it, so just tell her and everything will be easier. She IS your best friend :]

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ok well there is this kid he is 15 and im 13 well hes good friends with my brother and my brother said that he told my brother that he thinks im cute and likes me well i used to like this kid a couple of years ago he asked me out and i being very stupid said maybe and never heard from him again so when he told my brother this about 2 weeks ago well i started to think...he has changed quite a bit since the last time i saw him hes kinda hott :) well he has a kinda not really but around this people a jocky additude but not around me well im to scared to talk to him and every time i see him he smiles at me is it a sign does he like me?? i dont know i need advice i have his sn but he doesnt know i do and i dont want to start a convorsation with him and asking my brother to help or any friends are out of the question so please help i will rate really high (5) for good answers thanks!!

hi! I think you should go for it and IM him and be like, "Hey, its ... how are you?" and just start small talk and after a while, after some talking, yall might get to know eachother ! :] it really works, you just have to work up the courage to send the IM. go forr ittt! yaayy goodluck.

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he i just cut my hair and its layered a bit longer than my shoulders and has bangs and it is always puffy and wavy and it drives me nuts!!! Ive tried straightining it and only resulted to scalp burns (OWW) I can only straighten it if i have help and work on it for 2 hours i like it straightened tho and kinda flat because im tiered of puffy hair thanks for the time :)

-puffy puff hair :]

haha hey puffy puff hair! :] i would suggest getting your hair thinned. you can do this at cost cutters for cheap! After that, you should use anti-frizz conditioner and when you straighten your hair, apply a straightening gel beforehand to calm the puffyness. If you have anything in specific, feel free to ask! :) good luck

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Say on the Hello Kitty site or whatever site there is a star I want to use to put on my shirt. I blow it up and edit it. Is it okay to wear that around places? I didn't make the star; what should I do and what should I answer to people who asked where I got my shirt?

Don't worry about it. If someone curious asks you where you got it from, say you got it at a garage sale! :]

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ok i need ideas for a new hairstyle...something easy to do and can be used everyday...im sick of wearing my hair the same way all the time and i think everyone else is too lol..i need somehting that fits my hair length and my face shape. heres a link to my pic to help you. http://img311.imageshack.us/img311/4256/mee94tm.png
please help. i rate high for good answers. ♥

hiii ! i think you should try parting your hair to one side. [you can do this by making the part, and then using clips to clip it down before you go to sleep, that way your hair gets used to that part]

Then you could maybe give yourself bangs too, use this website:
http://www.ehow.com/how_17113_cut-trim-own.html

Or if you don't want to mess with cutting your hair, or its too risky, try waving your hair / curling.
1. When you get out of the shower, get a small amount of gel or mousse and scrunch your hair all around.
2. Put it all in a crazy bun and sleep
3. When you wake up, take out the bun and use a curling iron to add more curls/waves. Hairspray to keep it in. :]

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ok... this is wierd but i dont know what an "orgasm" is... can you tell me? thx so much i feel wierd not knowing!!

oh and whats a douche bag?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Douchebag

Those might help :]

Also, if you ever need to know anything weirdd or slang, go here : http://www.urbandictionary.com

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hey! there is this guy i like, and i really thought he liked me. alot of people kept telling me that he did. we haven't really talked before, and he isn't in any of my classes but he would always give me signs that he liked me. so i wrote him a note and i told him that i like him, and i asked if he liked me. i also asked him to write back and gave my locker number. at the end of the day on friday, my friend gave him the note, and he still hasn't respond. i feel really hurt and upset because i thought he liked me. what should i do?

Hii ! I think you should just get to know him and hang out with him because I'm guesssing he's not sure if he likes you or not, or maybe he just wants to get to know you better. So approach him and ask him if he wants to do something, like go to the movies as a big group or something. Start little, then as yall become closer you and him can talk about likeing eachother and stuff. :] Goodluckkk !

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The other day my french teacher said when you dont eat breakfast you get more hungry during the day, and i used to never eat breakfast and i would always be extrememly hungry when i got home and then i would feel lousy because of all the food i ate. So for the last few days ive been waking up earlier and eating breakfast but I'm still just as hungry. I have lunch at 11:30 and get home at about 3:15. Is there anyway I can be less hungry during the day?|

Thankss muchoo

You should try the whole "5 small meals a day" thing. Eat a bowl of cereal for breakfast, then go to school and bring chips or fruit in a bag and eat that when you can before lunch. Then during lunch, eat a sandwich or something. Between dinner and lunch, eat a small snack and then eat dinnnner. It works good.

Or you could figure out what times of the day you get hungry. So tomarrow, go to school without breakfast, and when you get really hungry, check the time and write it down. Then eat and do it again for the afternoon. Then you can plan your meals and snacks around your stomach and its hungry times :]

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there is this girl named frances and she's really pretty i like he alot and she knows that but she has had some bad relationships and she doesn't want her heart broken so she hasn't been dating since and overall 3 other guys have asked her out please tell me what to do

If you really like this girl i think you should get to know her and be her friend. Once she trusts you and knows you won't hurt her, go for it and ask her out. Obviously she's scared to get into anymore relationships because she doesn't want to get hurt again, so make sure she feels comfortable with you and let he rknow that you would never do anything to hurt her. :)

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okay. my birthday is on march 21. which doesn't give me a lot of time to figure out what to do for my birthday. i'll be turning 14 and i'm not totally sure if i even want to have a party. my parents are going to be out of town for my birthday which totally sucks. i just wanted to spend my birthday all alone because so far it is really going to suck. my friends and my boyfriend refuse to let that happen. does anyone have any ideas for a way for me to celebrate my birthday?

WOAIhAIHFIWH !

My sister is turning 14 on the 20th of marchh. WEIRDD haha

Anyways, I would get your closest friends [including your boyfriend and some guy friends of yours] and go out to eat at a nice restraunt . After that maybe you ccan have a sleepover with your girl friends at one of their houses. :]


ps. dont try and throw a party at your house while your parents are away because its justttt asking for trouble dawg. :eaguaeigh !


happy birthday :)

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