I love singing. But i have a shyness of singing in front of people. I have before and people were shocked. I think im really talented at singing but it just the shyness that is a problem. How do i get over something like that?
practice. practice in front of people. you can start with, maybe, smaller groups of people and slowly just go to bigger crowds. do it for your friends even, and if anything they can give you advice as well. do it for your parents and family. if you really want to go extreme, do karaoke somewhere in public. lol.
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i'm so addicted to facebook. i get on for hours on end and don't get off even if i'm not talking with anyone. any tips on how to curve my addiction?? haha..
i have the same problem, just with myspace. im constantly on no matter what. but something you could consider is putting yourself on a schedule maybe? set up individual times to do certain things you need/want to do, including getting on facebook. if you have a set time to start and stop to do other things, it could make it easier. another possibility is setting a time limit for yourself and when you are done immediately shut down your computer so you're not tempted to get back on.
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i've always been self concious of myself, but lately it's been really bad. i just can't find anything good about myself! here's some pictures...can you tell me honestly what you think? and what my best qualities that i should focus on are? thanks so much.
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http://s37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/?action=view¤t=MEE.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/28FC2F14.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/fhjkhgdjkshja.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/122918068_397643752_0.jpg
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you dont have anything to worry about.
i honestly think you are very pretty.
you have nice eyes, if anything, focus on that.
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i have ...well i used to have this "best friend" and shes always been there for me and we've been through so much together, for 3, almost 4 years you cant even imagine how much we've been through. ever since 10th grade started shes been ignoring me and acting like a complete jerk and im really sick of it. shes not treating me like she used to at all. and the problem is i cant really get away from her because some of my friends are friends with her and i wanna spend time with those friends but not with her. im just so sick of her being like this i tried talking to her and she was just like "im not treating you bad.." should i just get rid of her? what should i do?
PLEASE HELP. =[
all i can tell you is this:
if you honestly want to hang out with them, but shes gonna be there too, you will just have to deal with it.
its all or nothing pretty much.
i know exactly what thats like, because last year mostly, my best friend didnt get along with some of the other people i hung out with, but she stayed anyways. just ignore her. just because shes there doesnt mean you have to interact with her. of course, im not saying to be mean. if she says something to you, be nice back. even if she says something mean.
kill 'em with kindness.
but as for her and what you should do about that --> i would try to TALK to her and tell her how you feel one more time, and if she doesn't believe it or refuses to do anything about it, go ahead and get rid of her. tell her that if she still wants to be your friend, she needs to stop, otherwise you are gone.
hope i helped :]
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused.
i completely agree with you.
im 15 too, and i have friends who have had sex, and i just dont understand how they can do that to themselves. and especially with the younger girls on here! they dont understand the consequences of it, and they just plain dont understand it.
trust me, you are making a much better decision and are more mature than them.
but with WHY they do it, it could very well be because of peer pressure.
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Hey, well my friend made my myspace layout and I wand to change it but the problem is that I don't know how. Advice pleaseeeeee. Thanks
if you mean that you want to put in a different layout code, then what you do is this:
on your home page after you log in, by your picture in the top left is a link that will say "edit profile". go to that, and go to your "about me" section which is probably one of the first things, i think, and at the bottom of that section should be where your current layout code is.. you want to delete the OLD layout code and put in the new one for the new layout you want to have.
[[you get these layout codes from different sites that have layouts, ex. whateverlife.com]]
i hope that helped!!
if you need anything, feel free to send something to my inbox! im pretty good with all this myspace stuff, ive had one for a while now! :P haha.
again, i hope i helped! :]
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so im 13/f and basically i loved rap, and now im more of a rock pop kinda person. is this normal? is my personality changing? is it because im getting older? i just wondered how many others have had the same thing. thankss! all questions are rated. =)
okay, this is perfectly normal.
it happens to everyone at some time or another.
especially when you start becoming a teenager, things just change, its just part of life.
dont worry about it. your basically just developing into your own person.
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I know the saying is that people change over time. But this is different. I met this girl last year and we had some things in commen, so we decided to become best friends. Well over the summer something happend and i'm not sure what exactly... Since the first day of school (september 5) ALL she's been talking about is her guy friend ((not her boyfriend)) and her other best friend. Either those 2 people or else Dance. It bugs me soo much! for example- today in school I wanted to show her my school pictures, so I said "hey come to my locker, I want to show you my pictures" so I started heading for my locker and she was behind me.. or WAS. I turned around and she wasnt't there. I looked for her and found her at her other friends locker laughing and talking with her. So I said "did you forget about me????" and she gave me such a weird look and said "noooo..."
What in the world is that supposed to mean??? I mean did she purposly ditch me or what? Another example was She and her other friend were talking and heading out for the buses after school. I usually walk with her, so I just walked right next to them. I wasn't really paying attention until they started laughing... I asked them what was so funny and what are they talking about. Then again she gave me that weird look and said "nothing... whatever" and then left to her bus. AGHH what is wrong with me or her?? I basically have no friends.. I mean I have FRIENDS.. but not any BEST FRIENDS.... All of my other friends are always hanging out with their other friends... at lunch I sit with that girl and she never really includes me in anything. I'm sorry that this is sooo long but I really need advice on what to do about this. I feel like the only people in the world that love me is my family. I feel like the guy I have a crush on doesnt even know I exist. I feel that NOBODY knows I exist only my family. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I ALREADY HAVE TEARS IN MY EYES!!
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS AND HELPING ME.
ohh my geeze.
well, i know EXACTLY where you are coming from.
first, i would just say TALK to your best friend.. or you know what i mean.
and if that doesnt work, try to hang out more and more with your other friends and you will all become best friends. thats how it pretty much worked for me. but im still fixing things and what not.
its not going to happen overnight, i will tell you that.
but just talk to her, and then if that doesnt work out hang out with your other friends and you will get closer to them. it may be wierd at first but it will get better, i promise.
and as for the guy you like, i wish i knew what to tell you because i have the exact same problem.
so, yeah. but things will get better.
just talk to people. it usually works pretty well.
any other ?s feel free to ask :]
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so 5 months ago after my botfriend (adam) and i have broken up i meet this other guy (brandon). and he is the sweetest guy you will ever meet. i went out with him before i was all the way over my ex. and i treated brandon like shit. i called it off and havn't seen or heard of him in 5 months. after i did that i gat back with adam, and now i called it off with us one month ago because he was doing things with other girl and i didn't know. now that i really am over adam, last weekend brandon shows up at my door. i was so happy to see him, i missed him. he asked me back out the next day, and i didn't know what to say. i want to go back out with him, but i don't want to hurt him again. i told him that, and he said that 'if you give me another shot i will make up for everything that adam has done wroug to you, and you will see me as me and for that there will be no way you can hurt me.' i think i'm going to say yes today or tomorrow, but i wanna know from you, what should i do?
personally, i dont have the most experience here, but my advice is just to go with brandon. i mean if the worst that happens is it doesnt work out, thats alright.
its better than not knowing.
if you really want to be with him and he really wants to be with you i think you should give it a shot. it sounds pretty good to me.
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okay, so i have liked this one kid for like.. at least 2 years now and he knows.. so anyways i will probably ALWAYS like him but that has really nothing to do with what im asking.. but anyways, almost a year ago i met this other kid and im pretty good friends with him now, but him & one of my friends have been going out now for almost 9 months.. and since ive spent a lot of time with him & what not im starting to like him more and more.. but its only SOMETIMES that i feel like i like him.. i feel wierd just typing this, but when im around him he just always makes me laugh & im not sure if i just love him company or if i actually like him.. i dont know what to do.. ahh its wierd.
okay, this is pretty complicated im assuming?
well, i honestly havent been in this position before so i couldnt tell you from experience, however, i think you probably just enjoy his company.
i mean, i know im not YOU but, thats just what it sounds like.
see where things take you, but dont do anything what so ever because you dont want to hurt your friend.
really, who is more important?! your friend or a guy.
think about itt.
im always here if you need me though too :]
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Would a 15 year old guy even look at a 13 year old girl?? Cuz I like a 15 yr old boy and hes just like me because we're both on the same levels of puberty (don't ask how I know cuz my mom is best friends with his mom and i know these things). He's about 1-2 inches taller than me and he is going to be 5.2 when he's done growing and I'm going to be 4.11. So yeah!! Hes about the the maturity as me too!
I think it would be just fine for a 15 year old guys to go out with a 13 year old girl. I know a bunch of people that go out with people 2 years older than them. hope I helped :)
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Well. There's this guy I really really adore. I used to be close friends with him but I'm not anymore...:(. Anyways I wanna find some old blogs of his and I was wondering if you all could help me! :D Please, if you can, list all the diary/journal/blog sites that you know of. Thanks! :D (Yes, I do rate!)
www.livejournal.com
www.xanga.com
sometimes even www.myspace.com too
those are the only ones i can think of right now though :P
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ALL RATE 5's FOR ALL!!!!!!
Does anyone know any wired diets that worked pretty good like i heard if u drink cran berry juice of 72 hours its will take off a couple pounds thats probaly not true but anyone any wired diets like that
ill rate 5's for all!!!!!!
well. one thing that I read in a magazine is that if you smell fresh cranberries, then it makes you less hungry, so you eat less. but I dont know if that works or true.
& dont listen to that kid before.. thats called anorexia and bulimia & is REALLY bad! dont listen to him!!!
hope i could help? xO shesaidwhat
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What does this mean? "Note: AOL member profiles are not accessible through AOL Instant Messenger." i dont get it and really want to know!! thanks in adance! ill rate!
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xo
it means that if you dont have AOL, & only AIM, then you can't view those peoples profile that have AOL, not AIM.
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Lately my friends have been following the heard, you know, 'trendoids'. They always do whats popular at the time, and listen to the popular music. I hate that. I like being different. When an underground band i liked went mainstream, i stopped likeing them, because when everyone else likes them, it was no longer my thing. So my question is, am i trying TOO hard to be my own person? and am i being true to myself? thanks in advance, please no stupid answers!
I think that you might be trying a little too hard, but just thing of this. Just because a band that you liked became mainstream doesnt make their music bad, it just means theyre more popular. you shouldnt dislike something because its popular, dislike it because you dont like it! its the same with clothes, etc. If you like something you are perfectly allowed to like it whether its popular or not, youre still being your own person. Just maybe mix it up a littl e bit more if you are still worried about becoming too much of a "trendoid". Like it because you like it, dislike it because you dislike it, no other reasons.
I hope this could help!
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** = state 1
* = state 2
ohk for the last 4 years i lived in ** but then i moved to * when i moved the only thing i wanted was to go back to **. the only reason i wanted to go back is cause the love of my life is there and i really miss him but ever since i left he hasnt talked to me but like 3 times in like 6months its so sad and i nedd him to live seriously. but hes not there and another reason is all my friends yea we were awesome friends but when i left ive only talked to 2 of them and thats. only a little bit. like maybe ill be going back in a year im wondering do i really have a reason to go back? i don't really have my lover anymore and he was the most important person in my life he was always there for me and everything.. i know hes not here for me now but do you think he will be when i go back that way he can actaully see and hold me? ok to get to the point like put yourself in my shoes would u go back? do u think he will ever come back to me? or is it really just a waste of my time??
17/f
ThAnx alot In advanCe
I think, before you decide to move back, you should call or get in contact with him & see how he feels about the situation. If he doesnt still feel the way he used to for you, then he probably wont come back to you. But, there is more back home where you used to live. especially if you havent been gone that long. I have moved a few times, & I really miss those places. So think about what you have in each place & compare, & see where you are or have been happier!! I really hope I helped! :) ok well if you need anything, feel free to IM me or e-mail!
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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay
ok, I am just into 9th Grade this year & it is a little wierd being at the bottom of the chain, at first but dont be scared! I thought it was going to be horrible! but really its only the first few days that are hard. & thats mainly because you are trying to find your classes! :P but its more fun too! the teachers are more laid back.. most people are more mature too! & plus, you get to make new friends, in other grades even! look on the bright side too, about going to school with 17 & 18 year olds.. 1) they can help you!.. 2) if they are in your class, clearly they arent exactly the brightest crayon inthe box! ((jk)) & 3) you can ask them about the rest of highschool & such. it really isnt that bad @ all. & pretty soon, the year seems to just fly by! already my first semester is almost over! I dont see where the time went! dont stress over being the youngest in the school! it gets better, & soon you will be at the top too, watching the younger kids being scared & you can help them out! Its not scary at all! you deffinetly get used to it!!
I know this was long, but I hope i helped! I am being completely honest here!
& if you want more advice or anything--IM me ((Diam0nd xOx Eyes)) or e-mail me. its all in my advice column! :P later, I hope I helped! :D
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Ok I have really really thin lips. Like my ring finger covers my lips if I put it on them. I've never actually kissed a boy before except in a truth or dare game and that was just a quick peck, so I'm not that experienced. The boy that I'm getting close to now has really big lips, maybe the size of your middle+index finger put together. I really want to kiss him but I'm self-consious about how small my lips are. Does anybody have any tips on what I should do?
*remember...ring finger+index & middle finger=???
thanx...
i rate high....
honestly, I dont think you should worry that much about it! I mean, it shouldnt matter the size of your lips. He could be self concious about something else about himself too! so just relax! dont sweat it! :)
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hey ok is gonna sound really dumb especially to me cause music is my life...but what EXACTLY is r&b??? xoxo thanx no smart a answers
rhythm & blues! :P.. it took me a while to figure out too! haha. Im pretty sure thats what it is anyways! :P l ol
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ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..
so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
please help!
i would be against it b/c you are taking an innocent life!! & I dont think it should be legal because it is your own fault that you got pregnant..unless of course you were raped, that is the only way i think it is a consideration! but other than that I think it is wrong to have an abortion b/c the baby never did anything, & it is a living breathing thing. It is just like murder!
Good Luck. & I am a procrastinator too! :P l o l.. :D
--shesaidwhat!
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