so 5 months ago after my botfriend (adam) and i have broken up i meet this other guy (brandon). and he is the sweetest guy you will ever meet. i went out with him before i was all the way over my ex. and i treated brandon like shit. i called it off and havn't seen or heard of him in 5 months. after i did that i gat back with adam, and now i called it off with us one month ago because he was doing things with other girl and i didn't know. now that i really am over adam, last weekend brandon shows up at my door. i was so happy to see him, i missed him. he asked me back out the next day, and i didn't know what to say. i want to go back out with him, but i don't want to hurt him again. i told him that, and he said that 'if you give me another shot i will make up for everything that adam has done wroug to you, and you will see me as me and for that there will be no way you can hurt me.' i think i'm going to say yes today or tomorrow, but i wanna know from you, what should i do?
shesaidwhat answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 12:57 am: personally, i dont have the most experience here, but my advice is just to go with brandon. i mean if the worst that happens is it doesnt work out, thats alright.
its better than not knowing.
if you really want to be with him and he really wants to be with you i think you should give it a shot. it sounds pretty good to me. [ shesaidwhat's advice column | Ask shesaidwhat A Question ]
karenR answered Monday September 18 2006, 11:04 pm: Brandon sounds like someone who cares a lot about you. You would be crazy not to give him another chance!
Hopefully you are over Adam by now. He treated you badly and you deserve better. Brandon has forgiven you even though you say you treated him bad. THAT is
a good guy. Try again and treat him well. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Robby001 answered Monday September 18 2006, 11:02 pm: I would go for it, but at the same time I would apologize for how you treated him before. Remember; don't take him for granted... [ Robby001's advice column | Ask Robby001 A Question ]
BitsandPieces answered Monday September 18 2006, 11:02 pm: Don't screw it up! It sounds like he is a smitten kitten and you had better enjoy it and appreciate it! As long as you learned from your past mistake, just be grateful for the second chance and remember, that second chances are rare! [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
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