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BFF or what??
13/f
I know the saying is that people change over time. But this is different. I met this girl last year and we had some things in commen, so we decided to become best friends. Well over the summer something happend and i'm not sure what exactly... Since the first day of school (september 5) ALL she's been talking about is her guy friend ((not her boyfriend)) and her other best friend. Either those 2 people or else Dance. It bugs me soo much! for example- today in school I wanted to show her my school pictures, so I said "hey come to my locker, I want to show you my pictures" so I started heading for my locker and she was behind me.. or WAS. I turned around and she wasnt't there. I looked for her and found her at her other friends locker laughing and talking with her. So I said "did you forget about me????" and she gave me such a weird look and said "noooo..."
What in the world is that supposed to mean??? I mean did she purposly ditch me or what? Another example was She and her other friend were talking and heading out for the buses after school. I usually walk with her, so I just walked right next to them. I wasn't really paying attention until they started laughing... I asked them what was so funny and what are they talking about. Then again she gave me that weird look and said "nothing... whatever" and then left to her bus. AGHH what is wrong with me or her?? I basically have no friends.. I mean I have FRIENDS.. but not any BEST FRIENDS.... All of my other friends are always hanging out with their other friends... at lunch I sit with that girl and she never really includes me in anything. I'm sorry that this is sooo long but I really need advice on what to do about this. I feel like the only people in the world that love me is my family. I feel like the guy I have a crush on doesnt even know I exist. I feel that NOBODY knows I exist only my family. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I ALREADY HAVE TEARS IN MY EYES!!
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS AND HELPING ME.
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I have the similar thing going on right now. My friend is angry with me for no reason. all i can say is, talk to her about it, ask her if she realizes she makes u upset and that u arent overreacting. Also, try making other friends, get closer to them as well. Focusing on just one person all the time is a recipe for disaster. ...if talking to her doesnt work..move on .. maybe shes trying to give you signs that shes moved on from your friendship. Thatsdoesnt mean she has any right to do that, and its selfish. but girls especially teenagers, are like that sometimes. hop[e it helps good luck:)
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ohh my geeze.
well, i know EXACTLY where you are coming from.
first, i would just say TALK to your best friend.. or you know what i mean.
and if that doesnt work, try to hang out more and more with your other friends and you will all become best friends. thats how it pretty much worked for me. but im still fixing things and what not.
its not going to happen overnight, i will tell you that.
but just talk to her, and then if that doesnt work out hang out with your other friends and you will get closer to them. it may be wierd at first but it will get better, i promise.
and as for the guy you like, i wish i knew what to tell you because i have the exact same problem.
so, yeah. but things will get better.
just talk to people. it usually works pretty well.
any other ?s feel free to ask :]
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