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My name is Kate and I have brown hair and blue eyes Im 4'11" I have two white rats named Algernon and Dex pureo people call me a goth witch dosn't bug me so much but if you call me emo or secne you'd better run (jk)if you ask any stupid question Im not gonna answer it hello im not stupid and I know how to spell fairly well so don't send me some thing that looks basicly like this
"shjdhjkasjkljsdkioijdskfljdslkfjiowejfksndjdshgjsjgkhndsvjkfsha;ljkfgdsjhfjk" no one can read that. Yeah I take ballet and yes I do own two german sheperds and a pitbull who I trained my self thank you very much. lol yeah I know that wasn't realy funny but oh well.

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I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723

If one of your friends threatned your boyfriend i think you should stop hanging out with them not your boyfriend idk y any friend would threaten there friends boyfriend but they don't sound like the kindof person you should be friends with
so keep the boyfriend lose the friend
hope i helped
Morbid

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my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 25th..he's turning 18! I need some good ideas of what to get him!

MONEY everyone likes money or a small mamal i like small mamals lol
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Well this young man, is all that I am looking for right now, I am so afraid to give him a chance because I had just jumped in a relationship last time and got hurt. So should I follow my heart or should I weight things out first? Please Help

sweety you like i always say you should always follow your heart forget about the past forget about the future and live life now don't be afraid to give anyone a chance because you never know...
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Morbid

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14/female
ok like i reallly hate my life. But i live in a semi good neighborhood with a good famliy (mom, dad and sister) in a good house and everything but like nothing ever goes my way. Like i dont think im that pretty.. im 14 and only had 1 boyfriend (which only lasted 2 weeks ) and all my other friends have had manyy boyfriends and like all my friends that are girls are prettier than me in my opinion. and i dont really have a bestfriend. i used to but now someone else is her bestfriend. So now i just have like friends, but only like 4 really close friends. I'm naturally a very nice person.. but you know what they say: nice people finish last. Also, im a bit of a pushover. People sometimes just "walk all over me" and i cant really stand up for myself. I am very self-conscious about myself and im not that confident.
But then i think about the poor people or homeless people who probably have 20 times worse life than me and it makes me feel bad that i complain about my life when i should be thankful. So my question.. do you think my life is good or bad? is there anything i can do to improve my life? or should i be thankful instead?

OMG IF YOU FRIKIN THINK YOUR LIFE IS BAD srry kinda spazed out there you can't complain you shouldnt complain at least you have your parents and your sister and your obviously overreacting about how notthing ever goes your way if you even have to ask if you have a bad life you obviously don't

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Ever since i met my friend Sean* he has always been suicidal. At least twice a month he would say he wanted to kill himself, yet it would never happen. We'd always see him the next day. He was over emotional, the most over emotional guy I'd ever met.
We'd get in a fight once a week about something stupid, he'd insult his friends all the time but if you were to insult him he'd get this look on his face like he was going to hit you really hard.
We got in a big fight and i turned him into the guidance office at my school for planing to commit suicide to get him back for the fight and what he did to me. He knew it was me who told and went off on me for being a bad person. I didn't know what to say to him anymore, every reason i could think of why he shouldn't kill himself he had something to contradict it, he was hard headed and wouldnt listen to me easy. I dont know if you have ever had anyone tell you that they are going to commit suicide over and over again and put the stress on you to talk them out of it, but it is more stressful than anything i've ever experienced. And going through that once a month wasn't helping my already stressful life, now that you have the story, i'd like to ask you if you have any advice as to what to say to him to make him change his mind and want to live his life. I mean there are so many kids who have cancer, or they are disabled who would do anything to be a normal kid like him, yet he just wants to throw it all away. Guidance has no advice on what to say and either does my therapist. What can be done to prevent this?
Thanks if you can help!


*names have been changed

IF he tells you hes going to kill himself he is obviously not going to and if he tells you it means he doesnt want to because if he didn't want some one to stop him he wouldnt tell you I've been through that ive wanted to kill my self before and i almost went through with it if he keeps saying it Tell him that even he knows thats not true and there are people who would do anything to be him like those kids you were talking about hes propably just all talk wanting people to feel sorry for him though
hope i helped
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A new friend of mine (been my friend for about 3 months) who I've had a crush on for a bit IMed me the other day. He told me wanted me to fill something out. He sent me one of those "would you do this with me? how do you feel about me? etc" surveys that I'm sure we've all seen. I laughed and tried to dodge filling it out. Then he finally said "Listen, I'll fill it out at the same time and we can send it on the count of three." So we did. Both of results were pretty much the same... we like each other as way more than a friend.

Things got ackward. He told me he was seriously blushing to break the silence... we both tried to change the subject and talk for a while, but I guess we both felt weird. Out of nowhere, he shifts the conversation to "I wanted to stay single for a while, so I'm mad because I have a new girlfriend." and I'm like "WHAT?!" and he told me about his new girlfriend, but didn't explain why after he asked someone out THAT DAY he would tell me he likes me THAT NIGHT. I can't figure this out. I'd understand if we were friends for a while, but we haven't been friends that long and we're not that close. I'm sad and don't know what to do. Why would he do this? Can anyone make any sense of him?

nope hes crazy (not much help but i just needed to say that)
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guys are always whispering to each others "those are so fake" everytime i walk by them.. they all think im hot.. but are they just saying my boobs are fake cause they really do think that or just because they want me to prove to them that they are real??

Just glare at them with your most evil look I do that when people say that to my best friend and they shutit real fast that might just be because there afraid of me cause i've beat them up before but you shouldn't worry there just jelous that their girlfriends arnt half as pretty as you probably guys are ass holes just ignore it
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What song can I sing to audition for my schools musical? I do not have a very good voice, so I am only looking to be in the chorus (I have been in it the past, so yes, it is possible to be in the chorus even if you don't have an amazing voice). I am a 16 year old female, who cannot sing very high at all. I would like something that is easy & will sound good on my voice. I would like something from a Broadway show, or Disney. (preferably A MUSICAL PLAY). THANK YOU!

Um most broad way shows and disney songs for girls are realy high but you could probably sing something from pocahantas because she sings pretty low i like singing Reflection from Mulan but it's a realy soprano song so it might not go well with your voice wich is probably alto hope i helped
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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?

Thats totaly normal i love wering boys clothes because their comfertable and i don't like the way girls clothes look ( to pink) lots of girls were boys clothes
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Morbid
P.S.
they last longer too :)

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I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time?

its simple try acting nicer and keep mean things inside your head it may sound kinda stupid written down but it realy helps

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I'm 17 years old and I weigh under 100 pounds. I don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. In fact I eat a lot, and I'm pretty healthy. I don't like feeling so skinny though and I want to know if anyone has the same problem and if you have any suggestions for me to gain some weight? I've always been so small and weighed so little and seriously, if I got to even just 100 pounds I would be so happy. Smallness is kind of genetic in my family but I want to gain! Help please.

Alot of girls want to be that small and as a small person i would never want to gain weigt because all you would do is get fat You should like the fact that you are small and don't have to try hard to stay skinny i mean i only weigh like 85 lbs so you should not want to gain weight as long as you don't have an eating disorder your fine and gaining weight could be dangrous to your health
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :(

Yeah first off that is illegal and if he's cheating on his wife why would you want him as a boyfriend this is a maury question isnt it seriously you should just call it all off tell his wife and let them handel it between them selves just don't stay in the relationship because its aganst the lay and it is not a very intellegent idea to be with someone whos already married lets not kid ourselves here
Well hope things turn out better
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Morbid

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Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice.

I have that same problem with my dad my advice is...
Talk to your mom (trust me) Try to compramise with your dad or get out of the house more so you don't have time to argue or make nutural ground or cirten times that your not alowed to argue or sometin
yeah hope i helped
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Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...

Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething

I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..

Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me


Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!

You obviously love this girl alot and would do anything for her and if she knows this she should know that if you ever broke up you would still be friends because you are realy in love and its fisicaly imposisable to fall out of love mabey just get lost along the way and if she dosn't understand this im sure you can explane to her that from what ive heard you can't live with out her omg im like gonna cry ur so sweet (wow i just scared myself)
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Alright well I'm going to get my hair cut soon and i want an "emo" hair cut. I don't like calling it that but thats the only way I can figure out how to explain it! So if anyone knows how I can explain the "emo/scene" hair to my stylist that would be GREAT! And also if you have any pictures I can go by that would be awsome too. I've looked everywhere but can't find anything.

I'm a girl by the way! Thanks so much.

And please no shit if you don't like emo hair get over it I do.

Tell your stylist you want something punk eww i hate using labels but shell/hell probably know what your talking about or just explane what you don't and do want cut and what colors ect.
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ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything?

Don't be worried dying from small surduries is very rare and think how it would feel nowing that your child was worried that you wouldn't come out of surdury you should just be supportive and don't be worried theres about a one in a billion chance shell get hurt the doctors know what their doing
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I have a question for all you people who bake. When I was baking cookies, the top parts came out fine, but the bottom was just really gooey. Did i do something wrong? And if i did, can you explain what i should do right? They were chocolate chip cookies by the way.

rate high for good answers :)

They didnt cook long enough give them another Three to five minutes or longer but if the bottems arnt done the cookies are still raw
Signed the now culinary
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ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help!

You should probably ask her but tell her not to tell him you asked her if you want but it sounds like you realy trust him so you should follow your heart if you even think he's lying you should just break it off but if you don't realy think hes lying you should prolly give him another chance but its realy your choice
hope i helped
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My parents asked me what I wanted for Christmas and my mind drew a complete blank. They said nothing video game related and thats all I really want besides an iPod but they are too expensive. I asked for a Montreal Canadien jersey and that was $100 dollars so now all I am getting that I asked for is boxers. Does anyone have any ideas of something not expensive that I could ask for? less than $80.00. I am also a 14 year old boy

ask for money trust me don't ask for anything else from adults cause u prolly won't like it or ask for a rat idk why but who dosent like rats (okay alot of people but oh well)
lol
srry spaz attack
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Morbid

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I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?

P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money.

It depends where it is some places you need to be 16 but I think here the age is 14 your best bet is just to ask for a job aplication and the'll tell you how old you have to be
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