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Reputation


Question Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 5:35 pm

I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time?


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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday November 12 2005, 11:51 am:
dont bee mean too anyone !!
and they will see you cahnged
and they wont think your mean
no more !! hope i helped !! :)

♥ Samra

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morbidministry13 answered Friday November 11 2005, 7:35 pm:
its simple try acting nicer and keep mean things inside your head it may sound kinda stupid written down but it realy helps

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happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 6:02 pm:
Start showing a new light of you. Just be nice to everyone, even the people who you don't necessarily like. That way, you show that you HAVE a nice side to you, even if you don't show it!
Best of luck! And remember, a smile helps!
x Steph x

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YOURMOTHER_ISXAFARTLiCK answered Friday November 11 2005, 4:18 pm:
Wow! You're exactly like me.
♥ cali

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unseen_depression answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:39 am:
be nice to everyone around you at all times. even if you dont like soeone, be nice to them. do nice things for people just to do them. after a while, people will realize that your not as mean as they thought! good luck

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Melanie4981 answered Friday November 11 2005, 7:09 am:
Hiya,

The only way you can do this is by treating people better.

Make a conscious effort to do nice things for people - thank people when they do nice things for you, even little things like keeping a door open.

You'll find you feel a lot better for it too!


Take Care

Mel xx

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x0dani0x answered Friday November 11 2005, 6:25 am:
quit being mean.

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Thursday November 10 2005, 11:05 pm:
♥ Heyy...


There is always redemption in life. Which means you can redeem yourself.
Everyone should be able to forgive. JUst be who you are now. After awhile people will relize that youve become a ton nicer. I promiss. It just may take time.

♥ Much love.

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dancinchikita answered Thursday November 10 2005, 11:02 pm:
just be really nice to ppl and dont show them ur mean side!

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ankeagle14 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:30 pm:
well try not to show your anger around people and ry to talk to more people, but when you do, dont be mean. im guessing someone started saying that about you and it went out of control.
ANK

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iiluvpiink15 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:17 pm:
try to get to know new people and it might make a new impression and mabey they will spread it to others. i mean we all have our bad days and are mean sometimes, just try not to becuase if you do become mean to you friends they will all leave you and never talk to you again. im not trying to scare you but really i had that happen to a girl that i used to be frineds with. go out with you friends a lot and let them know im not really a mean person. dont bribe them with things, shown them that you mean it, that you not mean!! im SURE that you can do it just be yyour self but dont be mean.
hope i helped
♥ christin
p.s. if you need anything drop one in mi inbox, or if you need more help!!!

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