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Is he confused or what?
A new friend of mine (been my friend for about 3 months) who I've had a crush on for a bit IMed me the other day. He told me wanted me to fill something out. He sent me one of those "would you do this with me? how do you feel about me? etc" surveys that I'm sure we've all seen. I laughed and tried to dodge filling it out. Then he finally said "Listen, I'll fill it out at the same time and we can send it on the count of three." So we did. Both of results were pretty much the same... we like each other as way more than a friend.
Things got ackward. He told me he was seriously blushing to break the silence... we both tried to change the subject and talk for a while, but I guess we both felt weird. Out of nowhere, he shifts the conversation to "I wanted to stay single for a while, so I'm mad because I have a new girlfriend." and I'm like "WHAT?!" and he told me about his new girlfriend, but didn't explain why after he asked someone out THAT DAY he would tell me he likes me THAT NIGHT. I can't figure this out. I'd understand if we were friends for a while, but we haven't been friends that long and we're not that close. I'm sad and don't know what to do. Why would he do this? Can anyone make any sense of him?
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nope hes crazy (not much help but i just needed to say that)
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maybe he's trying to see your reaction to see if you like him or not.
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Yes. Evidently he has had feelings for you for a couple weeks now. Guys are shy when it comes to admiting to a friend that they like them, noramally because in most cases the girl says "we are too good of friends blah blah blah ect." Therefore he thought he didnt have a chance in the world with you. He almost must like the be in a relationship. So he asked out that girl, then for the hell of it he wanted to know if you felt the same way about him. So now hes the one stuck in a pickle looking for advice. Threfore i say he break up with that girl and date you :-)
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ok all you can really do right now is let him figure it out the important thing is you know he likes you and unfortunatly thats all you have until he figures it out for himself im not quite sure why he said that or why he would do that but guys are strange and in my opinion the source of all drama it sounds like hes pretty confused himself about what he wants right now give him some space and talk to him about it in a week all you can do for now is be a good friend
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okay i think i can help you =]
a few things..
1. are you positive that he has a girlfriend? because just remember .. BOYS LIE. ! haha! he might just be saying that to see how you feel about it or to make you jealous which will make you like him more.
2. BOYS WILL BE BOYS. and sometimes you can never figure out the motive of their actions. they are so confusing sometimes. but i think its sooo cute how you guys filled out the survey together and had almost the same answerss! thats adorable ! =]
3. he still likes you. but he has a girlfriend..? SO WHAT? boys are just like that. they can have a million girlfriends but still like someone else. maybe he's too shy to make the first move. ask him.. b like "ok do you still like me? i just assumed that you liked me but now i hear you have a girlfriend..? boy just tell me straight up ! " haha well you dont have to say it exactly like that haha i was trying to make it funny so you would laugh and not feel so bad =]
hope i helpedddd ! <333
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I think he is afraid of losing you as a friend. H ehad no right to trick you like that though. Maybe he is afraid if you guys go out then break up you wont be the friends you started out to be. The best thing is to talk to him about it.
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I can make sense of him. He's a deceitful ugly man. Forget about him. Now. Think if you were his girlfriend and he was saying the same shit behind your back to another friend of his. Not pretty, is it?
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just stay friends, nothing else/ he's trying to have the best of both worlds having a girlfriend then goin behind her back and telling you that he likes you, or ask him straight out whats he playing at. good luck
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